purple_corsa_gls
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Registered: 25th May 04
Location: Near Sunderland
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.....stop someone being a miserable bastard and obsessed with a lad.
My best mate has been seeing this lad for about 4/5 months and he is a complete twat. It started when she found out he hadnt stopped seeing his ex, about 2 months into the relationship. It all kicked off and his ex slapped my mate. then they finished for their usual day or so and got back together. then next time they broke up he got shit faced then started to kiss this lass infront of my mates face. he went on holiday and shagged a few lasses. In the 4/5 months hes given her 2 STI's and keeps arranging to see her and going out with his mates. He's no banned from her house, because her mother has seen it, but she lies saying she's going to the gym/ pub etc.
Anyone with any sense would tell him where to go, however my mate always seems to stick up for him, which is understandable if she loves him, but he is making a complete fool out of her.
How can i persuade her to tell hime to fuck off and find someone that will treat her better, because this is now making her miserable, and gets boring after a while.
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stubs
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Registered: 30th Jun 02
Location: Bolton
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She'll probably have to realise it for herself.. If you keep tellin her not to see him, she may see you as the "bad guy"
However difficult it is to see this happen to your mate, make sure you stick with her & be there for her when it all goes tits-up.
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purple_corsa_gls
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Registered: 25th May 04
Location: Near Sunderland
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I've not been doing all the 'dont see him' stuff. When she asks i dont lie. i tell her he seems a decent lad, but is making her look like a twat. But it does get on my nerves, her constant missery.
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