Tom
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harsh mate.
5 years I haven't had anything longer than 4 months for about 4 years too. Tis a struggle trying to find a decent bird although not really looked for a nice one until lately
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Robbo
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quote: Originally posted by Tiger
She is just out to make friends.
Mixed messages then?
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Tiger
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quote: Originally posted by Tom
harsh mate.
5 years I haven't had anything longer than 4 months for about 4 years too. Tis a struggle trying to find a decent bird although not really looked for a nice one until lately
Well the longest was maybe 4 months, but that was about 7 years ago, since then a week here and there, then 5 years with nothing.
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Tiger
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quote: Originally posted by Robbo
quote: Originally posted by Tiger
She is just out to make friends.
Mixed messages then?
Kinda yeah.
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Tom
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So you've never really had a full-on serious relationship quite lucky imo, I have alot of hang ups due to serious relationships 
Keep in there mate you'll soon find the right one
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Robbo
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quote: Originally posted by Tiger
quote: Originally posted by Robbo
quote: Originally posted by Tiger
She is just out to make friends.
Mixed messages then?
Kinda yeah.
Sounds like the typical actions of a younger girl tbh but bit harsh on you mate
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Tom
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I have decided to leave it with that bird rob sent her a nice message saying happy xmas but think I need to leave that one alone gutting.
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Robbo
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I think youve made the best move there mate... disappointing for sure but I think the history there could just be too hard
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Tiger
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quote: Originally posted by Tom
So you've never really had a full-on serious relationship quite lucky imo, I have alot of hang ups due to serious relationships 
Keep in there mate you'll soon find the right one
Well, not longer than 4 months no. I've never had time to be honest, no-one around my area has any interest in the things I do so I've had to do most things off my own back, which I dont mind, but now I just wanna chill with someone for a bit. I'm not on about marrying the first person I meet but im 27 and it would be nice to think about a family in around 4-5 yrs time.
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Robbo
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To be fair mate youve done a lot of travelling which would have disrupted anyhtign serious anyways IMO
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Tiger
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That works both ways too - I've traveled with girls and got on with them so well it would be easy to have a relationship with them, then you are forced in different ways due to different shedules.
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Robbo
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True, a bird I work with went travelling with a bloke for a year, split with her fella and is now with this other blokey And has been for a few years
[Edited on 25-12-2007 by Robbo]
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Tom
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Yeah mate of mine met a full on fit german bird while travelling in oz and is living with her now since being back for over 3 years 
You sound a bit stuck in your ways, i.e. no room to change your lifestyle for someone I can relate to that
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Tiger
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I can easily change, but only in a positive way, something to move forward to and not laterally or backwards.
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Robbo
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Good shout pal, not worth beign with someone for the sake of it, esp at our ages IMO
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Tiger
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Typical thing around here is people are too caught up in TV. So many times i've invited a girl i've perhaps seen a few times if she want s to go surfing with me for a weekend coz I go most weekends in the summer, usually if theres big brother on or something that weekend or an Eastenders double bill, they wont go, then I cant be arsed with them after that.
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Robbo
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TBH if they are gonna be more interested in watching Eastenders than gettign to know somebody then they deffo dont ound worht the hassle
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Tom
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I like eastenders
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Tiger
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But would you prefer to have a weekend chilling on the beach, surfing and having fun, or sitting on your erse watching 'Stenders?
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Tom
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Surfing aint my cup of tea but I would try anything once and of course I'd rather be doing something else. In winter I get quite into sopas
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Robbo
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When I moved back to my parents I started watching Corrie with my Mum
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