fir3vip3r
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Originally posted by VXR
Exactly.
Thats why whenever people go "what first attracted you to someone"
Errrrrr, common sense, their looks obviously.
Or do people come up and talk in your ear for half and hour so you can work out if they are interesting enough... Then turn round to see them????
No 
sorry but thats a bit of a silly comment, surely someone can stand out of a crowd to you even if they dont look stunning?
what if you scouted a room and saw an ok looking girl wearing an hm plant honda hoodie... id go talk to her
what if a girl came and spoke to you? had the confidence to make the first move? thatd be an initial attraction?
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Whittie
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Registered: 11th Aug 06
Location: North Wales Drives: BMW, Corsa & Fiat
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quote:
Originally posted by fir3vip3r
quote:
Originally posted by VXR
Exactly.
Thats why whenever people go "what first attracted you to someone"
Errrrrr, common sense, their looks obviously.
Or do people come up and talk in your ear for half and hour so you can work out if they are interesting enough... Then turn round to see them????
No
sorry but thats a bit of a silly comment, surely someone can stand out of a crowd to you even if they dont look stunning?
what if you scouted a room and saw an ok looking girl wearing an hm plant honda hoodie... id go talk to her
what if a girl came and spoke to you? had the confidence to make the first move? thatd be an initial attraction?
40 stone whales.
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kz
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Registered: 9th Aug 02
Location: Southend, Essex Drives: Mini Cooper S
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I'm not that shallow... but I wouldn't go out with a munter no matter how nice she was. If you don't fancy someone, what's the point?
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Partyvan
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Originally posted by kz
I'm not that shallow... but I wouldn't go out with a munter no matter how nice she was. If you don't fancy someone, what's the point?
It's like having a wank, but with the added disadvantage of all your bacon in the fridge being raped afterwards 
Man I hate it when that happens
[Edited on 08-05-2009 by Partyvan]
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Carl
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
Exactly.
Thats why whenever people go "what first attracted you to someone"
Errrrrr, common sense, their looks obviously.
Or do people come up and talk in your ear for half and hour so you can work out if they are interesting enough... Then turn round to see them????
No
Not all social interactions start by you choosing to go upto someone you find attractive to chat them up. What if it is the other way around and the girl starts chatting to you? might be a work situation or someone being socialable etc.
I'd say a lot of lads would actually be attracted to the fact they might have a chance of getting some, even if they weren't at first drawn to the other person's good looks.
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SVM 286
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I don't really know if i'm shallow.
I need to be physically atracted to a woman to some extent or another otherwise it's just not going to work, but I can't abide a woman I have no common ground with.
If we can't have a laugh there's no point.
She could be a stunner but if she's a dumb, rude, selfish bitch, i'd have no interest in knowing her.
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Fad
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Shallow but also a realist.
Got to strike the balance I guess as its all human nature.
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