Danny P
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...get back with your Bird/Boyfriend if they had slept with another person??
Found out our lass slept with some othe guy on Saturday night 
She says she is really sorry, and that it was not ment to happen, and it will never happen again.
Thing is, she live 180miles away from me, and now im doubting her trust wise, just wondered what you would do, i still lover her, and she says she loves me, but im torn between what to do!!
Going to see her on Thursday for a few days, so i said lets discuss things face to face - and see what happens.
Im at work now so cant really be on here - just had your opinions and i'll have a read when i finish
Cheers
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Tom
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fcuking gutted, depends whether u can trust her again, how did u find out dude? If she told u that's sort of a good thing, if not then feck her off
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Shelly
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Its up to you, its more a matter of trust and if your a stong person you will be able to work at it. If your weak it will destroy you.
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Danny P
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
fcuking gutted, depends whether u can trust her again, how did u find out dude? If she told u that's sort of a good thing, if not then feck her off
She told me last night
I knew she had kissed some guy, cos she told me, then i asked her if owt else happened and she told me it didnt - then later on she said she had something to tell me, knew straight away what it was
Hurts more that she lied to me than what she actually did 
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Tom
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Yeah but she told u was it with a lad she knows, if so feck her right off mate
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Melville
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I personally couldnt, the thought of some other bloke being inside my gf makes me sick and VERY VERY angry. and I dont get all this druken one night things, Ive been drunk a million times and never cheated on my gf if anything it makes me horny and then go round and see her 
But like Shelley said its upto you
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sassyminx
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hmmmm its s hard decision to make, if u forgive her will u ever 100% trust her?? i know if i loved sum1 i probs would giv em a 2nd chance, i did but he dint cheat on me, but its ur choice whether u wanna take the risk, but hands up she admitted it so must have some regrets?
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Danny P
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I dunno, not really met alot of her mates, but i think he goes to her college.
Was talking to her best mate on MSN last night, and she told me she was really upset about it, and told her that she regreted it totally, and that she told me cos she would rather me know than find out later on from someone else.
I dunno what to do, i love her loads, and i dont wanna lose her if she is really sorry about it, but it will be hard at first to trust her again, and if i do forgive her, will it happen again later on.
I feel sick just thinking about her being with some other guy
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Tom
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Yeah tis a bad thing, especially if u know she will have contact with this bloke again, (or will she?) I'd give her another go, she seems sorry enuf, just make it clear you're in the driving seat (sorry to nick phrases from stu in neighbours )
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Keithie
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i was there once, i took her back and never really trusted her..but in her defence she never did anything like that again...
mind u its a good thing to bring up when u do something wrong 
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Danny P
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Cheers peeps
Guess i have a lot of thinking to do before Thursday!!!
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Patrick
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No. Simple.
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Tom
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Pat whatever, u've done that to your missus b4 aint u 
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Ojc
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No. Simple. (I agree with Paddy)
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michelle
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If it is something that is going to come up every time you have an argument is it really worth it? With you living so far away it will be hard as well especially as she has strayed once already.
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Heather
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i AGREE WITH MICHELLE ON THAT ONE 
[Edited on 27-01-2004 by Girl_racer]
[Edited on 27-01-2004 by Girl_racer]
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Ally
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If they slept with someone then no
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Shelly
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If your so in love, you can't bare to be without that person. Then you will do anything to make it work.
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Heather
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If the other person loves you as much as you love them they wouldnt do it !
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Tom
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It makes me talking about this, I always imagine my bird getting laid behind my back i'd bin her right off if she did
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by Girl_racer
If the other person loves you as much as you love them they wouldnt do it !
This is true Heather
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Ojc
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Thankfully I have never been cheated on, but I have had sex with another female in front of my girlfriend
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Patrick
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
Pat whatever, u've done that to your missus b4 aint u
Nope, I never had sex with anyone else whilst I was with her! 
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Tom
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thought u had or were u on a break
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3CorsaMeal
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i'd kick her fanny
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