Bart
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Well heres the story.
Yesterday my misses thought she'd play a little game with her mate to see if she could trust me.
Im also a member of VVOC (vectra club).
Now, she got her friend to register and start chatting to me on the VVOC website, introducing herself to me, and asking questions about my veccy etc. I just chatted freely, answer her questions etc as any normal person would.
Then she talked about herself, said she was 16 and was that a problem?
I said why would it be, its not as if we're getting together.
Then she started asking personal questions and asked if i was single etc,
so i started checking stuff out, realised that she only registered on VVOC like the day before  and she hadnt posted any posts etc or spoke to anyone else, she just registered and started PM'ing me (funny eh?).
Then i remember my misses asked me this morning if there was any VVOC meets coming up (ive never gone to one, but i would like to), i just realised then that she only said that to get me to go on the VVOC website.
So, being the idiot that i am, i thought i'd play along with her games, but to cover myself i thought i better send myself an email to my hotmail account just to say "i know its my misses or summit to do with my misses, its blatently obvious and the reasons i think this is .......).
So after she asked me if i was single for the third time i said i was single.
At first i just asked a load of questions trying to catch her out, but didnt get far, but i carried on with playing along.
Anyway, it got to the stage where this girl wanted to meet, i didnt give an answer, but she said she wanted to meet last nite. i didnt say owt to her.
So when i get home, i thought i'd check the history on my misses comp and i was right, it was her (i was only slightly worried it mite not had been), and she went mental saying i could cheat etc.
And aparently the emais i sent myself was only to cover my back shud it have been my misses. So everything went tits up  And yesterday evening was sh1t.
But things are slightly better now, i dont think she believes me, but i dont care, cos i know what i was doing in my mind.
The thing thats annoyed me is she thinks what she did was ok, she thinks its normal to get her best mate to send me messages and try it on with me, and i think thats crap.
Whats other ppls opinion on this? i think its a really stupid, immature and morally wrong (?) thing to have done.
Opinions welcome.
Adam 
[Edited on 09-06-2003 by Bart]
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Thoday
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very immature and theres no trust
give her the boot mate
my ex did the same but logged onto msn as me and spoke to ppl
huge arguement was neva the same after
bye bye g/f
[Edited on 09-03-2004 by cheakycharlie]
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__RAVER__
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My ex did the same on faceparty, started sending me messages trying to pry into my life and ask questions about who I was going out with etc. I didn’t realise it was her until a few more messages later as I thought the style of writing and what she was saying sounded very familiar.
She then started saying about how her ex (me) used to go clubbing and loved music etc.
So I foned her up and told her to stop fucking around its stupid and pathetic.
She then started shouting saying I don’t know what ur on about its not me. Like a fool I believed her and felt pretty bad for accusing her.
I then managed to guess her password straight away and surprise surprise it was her!
Unless it was her brother using the family email address but I don’t think so!
To this day she still says its not her, it’s apparently a bloke who fancies her and wants to know about me!
Weird how I haven’t received a message since!
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CorsaLad16v
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one of my ex's did the same with faceparty, got her mate to talk to me on there n start chatting me up to see if i'd react, stupid girl tho put my ex g/f on her friends bit so i knew straight away she knew her. huge argument followed, yada yada yada, i now have a new g/f 
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Nismo
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my misus is allways checking every post i put on her aswell
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StuartGee
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WTF!!
I'd say bang out of order! You realised what the story was and went along with the joke, and for her to start going ape is a bit nuts if you ask me.
Women, eh? Can't live with them, can't live without them. Unless your gay!
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Bart
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glad to see its not just me who thinks it is wrong.
Looks like its women in general that has the problem 
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Jambo
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Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
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Siberia
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dump the bitch and then to rub salt in the wounds find her friend at a club or sumat and drill her
imagine my missus checking up on me sure id chat birds up on the net all the time in front of her
she knows i love her and wouldnt do anything to mess that up
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Bart
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^
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Jason Iles
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quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
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Sando
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Mt EX used to chesck out Fiat Forum, where I go... used to bring up random posts I'd made and try to suggest I was seeing someone else... bye bye bitch.
No trust equals no relaitonship.
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Thoday
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quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
now we know where ur homosexual feelings stem from
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Jason Iles
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quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
now we know where ur homosexual feelings stem from
Don't get me wrong I like shagging women just don't like talking to them
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Thoday
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quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
now we know where ur homosexual feelings stem from
Don't get me wrong I like shagging women just don't like talking to them
u talk during sex.. never herd this b4
usualy wham bam thank u mam
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Nismo
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quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
now we know where ur homosexual feelings stem from
Don't get me wrong I like shagging women just don't like talking to them
ROTFLMAO
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Jason Iles
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quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
quote:
Originally posted by J 11ESY
quote:
Originally posted by Jambo
Women paranoid.
THen THEY go and cheat on you? Hmmmm
Idiots
exactally Women are fucking sluts
now we know where ur homosexual feelings stem from
Don't get me wrong I like shagging women just don't like talking to them
u talk during sex.. never herd this b4
usualy wham bam thank u mam
No I don't talk to then full stop unless I want my tea
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barts_girlfriend
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thanx bart
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Mad Moe
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You should be ashamed of yourself
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Nismo
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Yeah your own fault , wome hay
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barts_girlfriend
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whatever
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Thoday
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do we not get ur view then barts_girlfriend
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Adam-D
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barts girlfriend.
i think you and bart should talk this out.
w/out shouting at each other.
from my point of view
you tried to catch him out to see if he would cheat. you should trust him.
2nd bart really shuddve just left it and said ive got a g/f and left it at that.
i think it is somthing silly and has got out of hand.
just my opinion of course
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willay
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thats pretty screwed up bart, I agree with everyone elses comments. Theres no trust 
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Thoday
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quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
barts girlfriend.
i think you and bart should talk this out.
w/out shouting at each other.
from my point of view
you tried to catch him out to see if he would cheat. you should trust him.
2nd bart really shuddve just left it and said ive got a g/f and left it at that.
i think it is somthing silly and has got out of hand.
just my opinion of course
agreed
but no trust and uv no hope
as a fall back.. i no 4 a fact that there are a lot of single people on corsasport who wud be dying to have u to themselves
ghey..straight or bi
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