chris_uk
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she has never really had mates that she can go out with and its good she has found this lass who will go out with her.. only problem is she is abit of a bad un if you know what i mean, a bitch not a very nice person to heart, but my g/f is kind caring and a lovley person.. only problem is she is stating to act like this new lass she has started going out with..
and at the moment im watchin her change.. it aint nice..
any ideas on what i should do?
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Mattb
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tell her what you just said...
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Ian
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Sit back and watch?
What else is there?
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paul_spurrell
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agree with ian. It will prob be a phase
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Mattb
tell her what you just said...
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ed
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format C:
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Demo
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dry bum love may be the only answer
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chris_uk
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yea but i dont wanna be with someone who can just be as nasty shall we say as this new lass..
but i love her to bits..
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Adam-D
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tell her but dont make a argument out of it
just say what you feel
but i fear she may say your trying to stop her having friends..
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chris_uk
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i fear that is probably true.. its so hard.. and this lass used to go out alot with this other lass and they were best friends now selina has come in the picture she has litterally told this other lass to fuck off and takes the pss out of her every chance she gets...
i know if this happedned to selina she would be heart broken....
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Shane
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just slap her
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chris_uk
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netrix.... go fuck yourself!
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Adam-D
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just tell her your concerned but dont make a big thing.
say tell her, then go for a meal or spend some time with her show her you love her
thats about all you can do m8
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chris_uk
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yea suppose..
i think ill take her out 2morra. as a suprise.. .
not that i have any money ill have to go overdrawn..
any ideas were to take her?
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Shane
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quote:
Originally posted by chris_uk
netrix.... go fuck yourself!
or you could sit her down and have a chat to her but work ur way up to the subject if she starts going mad then just say ok and then sit back and watch, until see gets in trouble then u step back in and have another chat to her  is that a better reply 
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chris_uk
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yes. thanks
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Shane
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glad 2 be a help
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linzi_h
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if it was me i would like to know how u feel about the situation and what u would like me to do about it - go straight to the point but don't be too harsh im sure she would understand - i know i would
she may have a cry for a while but after she has finished just show her that u love her if u know wot i mean - it always works if u have a disagreement (trust me) 
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willay
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netrix knows what hes the score, you clearly need to lay the smack down.
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J da Silva
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batter the bitch with a shovel, should sort it
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DanielJ
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exactly what happened with mine, but now shes my ex over the whole thing
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willay
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quote:
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exactly what happened with mine, but now shes my ex over the whole thing
cant expect any more then that if you smack her with a shovel, now can you?
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DanielJ
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CorsaLad16v
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me n my g/f have a thing were we're completely open with each other, sometimes the truth hurts but i feel its the only way to know how each other is feelin n to sort things out, been goin out for a year n 2 months now n aint had 1 argument coz we tell each other how we feel n sort it out b4 it gets that far.
my advice to u is to tell her how u feel but not make it as if ur tellin her she can't have friends, if she reacts in a bad way then back off a bit n just tell her that ur only tellin her how u feel n how its making u feel. if she understands then sit it out n see if what u have told her has been taken into account n she has listened to u.
on the other hand though, people change n theres not a lot that u can do bout it.
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CorsaLad16v
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^^ most possibly my longest reply
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