Karen
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Registered: 9th Jul 03
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Im a single parent and my sons dad aint interested in him and seems guys aren't interested in me?
Is is coz I have a kid or is it just me?
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Skinner
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Registered: 14th Jul 03
Location: aberdeen drives:mk4 irmscher astra on 18's
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it wouldnt matter 2 me if the the girl i liked had kids or not , but other people might b differnt
and not it isnt u i wouldnt say no
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modded_corsa
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i perosnally would go out with someone with a kid
might be coz i luv wee kids like........just find them funny and canny
but some-blokes dont like kids.....some might not want klids....some just might wanna wait a bit before they av a real responsibility
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Drew
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i would go out with a lass with a kid - but maybe thats cause of my age - maybe younger lads would feel intimadated by it
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Drew
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thought u had a lad anyway - that dean whotever off here?
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J da Silva
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kids are good fun and shouldn't really put a lad off being with his/her mother
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Adam-D
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doesnt bother me
already have done went well
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Karen
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quote: Originally posted by Drew
thought u had a lad anyway - that dean whotever off here?
Who knows wot goes on in his head!
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Karen
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quote: Originally posted by modded_corsa
might be coz i luv wee kids like........just find them funny and canny
Rhys is very funny like!
He tried 2 steal the JagCorsa at max live
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modded_corsa
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haha mad that like
wot is he....2?....3?......and into cars already.......he's going to turn out finelol
[Edited on 24-07-2004 by modded_corsa]
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Skinner
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at least hes got good taste in cars
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Ben
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i did do , she wa my age (18) was ok for a while but she started taking piss abit , she wa on about having another and getting a place together. and started going mental when i wa going out with mates saying i should be looking after kid with her, but she wa always going out and i wa looking after him. nearly lost a few mates as they thought i wa selling em out and never told folks , So i left her ,miss the little lad more than i miss her.
[Edited on 120102 by Ben]
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3CorsaMeal
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i think it says quite a statement about a girls personality when they are young, have a kid and single..........i know everyone has their own story, but everyone has their own assumptions too..
i wouldn't say if i would date someone with a kid or not, depends how much i liked em and the kid......
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Karen
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quote: Originally posted by modded_corsa
haha mad that like
wot is he....2?....3?......and into cars already.......he's going to turn out finelol
[Edited on 24-07-2004 by modded_corsa]
LOL no hes only 6 months. 5 months wen that pic was taken tho!
Wen hes older i dont think he'l like it wen i say his mummy took him round in a pink car!
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Karen
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quote: Originally posted by Ben
i did do , she wa my age (18) was ok for a while but she started taking piss abit , she wa on about having another and getting a place together. and started going mental when i wa going out with mates saying i should be looking after kid with her, but she wa always going out and i wa looking after him. nearly lost a few mates as they thought i wa selling em out and never told folks , So i left her ,miss the little lad more than i miss her.
[Edited on 120102 by Ben]
I think thats y guys r put off. But id never ask a guy 2 look after Rhys unless they offered and never expect them 2 stay in
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deanmcreynolds26
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u know Rhys dont bother me as he is a wee nutter...
U keep asking me if it bothers me and i dont!! maybe a few years ago i would've but i think kids are gr8... Ur a stunning lass and i wouldnt change a thing about ya hunny!! so dont say i aint interested xx
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Drysdale
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I probably know the least about kids or having kids on here, but if a guy isn't interested in you if you have kids, then he's not worth it. The one who accepts that you have a child and doesn't hold them as a burden is the one who matters. But you know that already
PS. There are thousands of single parents out there....not all of them stay single, do they?
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Karen
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quote: Originally posted by 3CorsaMeal
i think it says quite a statement about a girls personality when they are young, have a kid and single..........i know everyone has their own story, but everyone has their own assumptions too..
i wouldn't say if i would date someone with a kid or not, depends how much i liked em and the kid......
I never planned 2 have a kid so young but wen things happen theres not alot u can do and i dont regret having him, he's part of me and comes before any guy. And as for being a single parent all i can say is my X has lost out on alot of good times with his son and something i hope he will regret for the rest of his life
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Ben
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no drysdale ya wrong there mate . Its not the "burden" but more like because the lad aint ready , i know now theres no way i would be ready for a kid , mine or anyone elses , because i know i aint ready for that yet , so to save a lot of time and upset i think its best for me to not go there yet.
but thats just me
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Ally
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Registered: 2nd Jul 03
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I wouldnt go out with anyone who had kids, but then again thats jst my opinion.
Im sure its not you chick
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J da Silva
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suck my cock
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Ally
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I cant find it
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J da Silva
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gerrof mi nob
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Ally
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I thought that was your ear?
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Craig W
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A doorman i work with went out with a doorlady i work with, he's 23 and she's 29 with 3 kids. He got on great with the kids but couldn't handle it when they started to see him as a father figure. They got on really well but split up because of it.
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