Darren
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Registered: 21st Apr 02
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Just received this email
"Hey Darren, you alright? You should be impressed that i'm up at this time i couldn't sleep for shit lastnight. And no you didn't say anythin dodgy last night i thought it was sweet, sorry i didn't text back, i could't be arsed to go back on the net. Anyway the reason i'm emailin you is to sat that i don't think i'm ready for any kind of commitment at the moment so i think i should stop seein you, i know it sounds really out of the blue but its the truth and i'm sorry i emailed this too you but i'm a pussy. I also want you to know that i'm not muckin you about and i wasn't leading you on i swear, i'm just worried that i am gonna hurt you cuz of stuff i got goin on at the moment and i really don't wanna do that to you cuz your a lovely person, and i swear that this is the truth it aint no made up excuse i really just don't wanna hurt you. Sorry i didn't say this before and if it seems like i was leadin you on,i didn't mean it. So anyways, hope your ok with bein mates. Speak soon ok darlin!
Loadsa love Hannah xXx"
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TNM
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ouch!
At least she didnt tell you there was some one else
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leeshez
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Pablo
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Nemos other half ?
Sorry dude
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Graham
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how old is she?
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Darren
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Registered: 21st Apr 02
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"i told you its nothing to do with you, i like you a lot, which is why i don't wanna hurt you. Darren, you just gotta trust me that my head is all over the place at the moment and the last thing i want is to hurt you so i might as well prevent it from happening now ok.That is the truth and if you don't believe me then thats up to you cuz i've told you the truth. look, ill speak to you soon ok. H xXx"
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CorsAsh
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And women say men have a problem with commitment
Got my sympathies mate, just had similar stunt pulled on me
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Darren
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quote: Originally posted by Graham
how old is she?
17
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waynep
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had that many times in worse than an email thnik urself lucky man and move on however hard that may be
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Graham
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too young mate, but then again with results coming thru for her AS exams she might just need a bit of time, dont txt her for a week or so and give her time to work out wat she wants etc
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Darren
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Her parents might be splittimg up at the mo which i think may have something to do with it
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Graham
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yeh exactly what i would do mate is text her saying something along the lines of "i know you need the space and im giving it to you now, but if you ever need to talk anytime then call and ill be here for you no matter what and ill help you."
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chris_uk
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quote: Originally posted by Darren
Her parents might be splittimg up at the mo which i think may have something to do with it
shes carrying on a family tradition?
sorry dude... got my sympathy.
[Edited on 12-08-2004 by chris_uk]
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MatthewR
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BIRD SHIT
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Shelly
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quote: Originally posted by CorsAsh
And women say men have a problem with commitment
They usually do, believe me
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Half Pint
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well sorry to hear that !!!
There is plenty more fish in the sea ! ! ! ! !
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purple_corsa_gls
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It could have been worse, youre lucky text messages only have 160 characters in. Thats the way i did it with my ex. was a scary foooooker though
Unlucky mate
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NovaGTE
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May use this myself, cheers
But sorry to hear that
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Darren
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quote: Originally posted by Graham
yeh exactly what i would do mate is text her saying something along the lines of "i know you need the space and im giving it to you now, but if you ever need to talk anytime then call and ill be here for you no matter what and ill help you."
she loved that msg
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purple_corsa_gls
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Give her a week, she'll come crawling back!
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chris_uk
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tell her that you haev started seeing someone else and i bet she comes crawling back sooner!
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purple_corsa_gls
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quote: Originally posted by chris_uk
tell her that you haev started seeing someone else and i bet she comes crawling back sooner!
Tell her you've started seeing her mother and she wont come back I've tried that one
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Darren
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ROFLMFAO
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greycorsa
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Graham
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quote: Originally posted by Darren
quote: Originally posted by Graham
yeh exactly what i would do mate is text her saying something along the lines of "i know you need the space and im giving it to you now, but if you ever need to talk anytime then call and ill be here for you no matter what and ill help you."
she loved that msg
see, just remind her every so often that even though your not together at the moment when this all blows over and you've been the one thats helped her through this all along chances are mate you two will get back together
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