--Dave--
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Some of you might know that I recently split up with my fiancee. 
ah well
Anyway, she just asked me if I wanted her engagement ring back. I told her to keep it but she asked me again.
What would you lot do? I bought it about 3 years ago for £650.... 
I'm thinking Irmscher front bumper and money towards some alloys 
seriously though, what would you do?
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Pablo
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get it bak fcuk her mate
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Shelly
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does she mean more than a front bumper and some alloys?
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CorsaLad16v
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get it back!
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Wayne
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do her dry and then get it back 
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
does she mean more than a front bumper and some alloys?
that shouldn't matter for she, if she ended it, fcuk her
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
does she mean more than a front bumper and some alloys?
we've split up, so she means a lot less to me now.
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chris_uk
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get it back.. and either use it on your next gf or porn it and get some cash! 
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--Dave--
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for the record it was a mutual thing between the two of us. We knew it wasn't going anywhere so we ended it. We just pissed each other off more than anything.
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by --Dave--
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
does she mean more than a front bumper and some alloys?
we've split up, so she means a lot less to me now.
there you go then
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Graham
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but you've been through alot together, tell her to keep it as it will remind her of the good times you've both shared, who knows in the future you might get back
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--Dave--
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Originally posted by Graham
but you've been through alot together, tell her to keep it as it will remind her of the good times you've both shared,
this is true
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Shelly
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sometimes people break up but are still best mates
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--Dave--
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I've gotta look at this from a simple point of view. We're just mates and there's nothing between us and there never will be.
I've left it up to her. I can't make this decision
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Robbo
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Get it back but DON'T keep it and use it for someone else
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--Dave--
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
sometimes people break up but are still best mates
we're still mates, went to the cinema the other day, was a bit tense but it was ok. 
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BigSte
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aye..........get it back mate. All she'll do is put it in a drawer or summat for years.
Agree with Robbo, don't use it on someone else. Either keep it yourself for memories sake or porn it
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Graham
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quote:
Originally posted by BigSte
aye..........get it back mate. All she'll do is put it in a drawer or summat for years.
not true in some cases, my ex kept the necklace i gave her two years ago she stills wears it now and says she wants to keep it forever 
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BigSte
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bit different from an engagement ring though mate.........I can understand keeping a necklace as it's just a gift, but the engagement ring is more than a gift, supposed to signify wanting to spend the rest of their life with someone
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--Dave--
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wayne hiscock
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get it back
i took all my stuff back, presents etc all of it - purely cos she used me and i was told she cheated on me with a m8 of mine.
sold it all on and had a few weeks pissing it up hehe
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--Dave--
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it would just be the ring that I get back, we haven't fallen out or anything like that as like i said we're still mates. Wouldn't want to be cruel to her and I'm sure she wouldn't do the same for me.
If she can't stand to look at it in her jewellery box or whatever, then I'll take it back and stick it on ebay or something.
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sassyminx
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if she asked if u wanted it maybe she dont want it mate, id say yea if u dont want it , sell it and maybe split the money with her if ur still on good terms
my engagement ring was £850 and i pawned it in with about another £1500 of jewellery for £400
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--Dave--
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talk about a ripoff! If anything I'd stick it on ebay and see how much it goes for. Worth a go.
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3CorsaMeal
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u all crazy 
shouldn't of brought it in the first place
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