stubbsy05
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The Mrs had her mates round last night for a party so I went out down the pub.
Got home and was tidying up this morning whilst girlfriend went to work and one of her mates had left me some money as she had drank some of my bottles of beer. I text her mate saying thanks for the money will get some more in and she replied. A couple more texts were sent and that was it.
Now I deleted the texts apart from the first one and reply as I know she'll get paranoid. Told her that I'd text her mate saying thanks and left it at that.
Anyways she just went in my inbox on my phone (so fcuking annoying)and just flipped out saying I hear you sent more than 1 text blah blah blah! I think she'd been chatting with her mate on the phone prior to this hence why she knew.
Think it doesn't help as her mate has said I'm hot in the past
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CorsAsh
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She doesn't trust you with her mates then? Have you given her any reason in the past or does she have a history of cheating that makes her paranoid about it happening to her?
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SVM 286
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I say get her fucked.
In fact, nail em all.
Simulataneously.
And film it.
And show it to the girlfriend.
That'll take care of her paranoia. 
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stubbsy05
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Don't think she has a history of cheating. Been with her 3 years so hope not!
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MatthewR
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tell her to grow up and you need to wise up and not put yourself in those situations again - dont bait her up, birds love an excuse for a row
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stubbsy05
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thing is if i'd have left the texts on my phone, she'd get paranoid. I deleted them and she is still paranoid!
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stubbsy05
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quote:
Originally posted by MatthewR
tell her to grow up and you need to wise up and not put yourself in those situations again - dont bait her up, birds love an excuse for a row
Agree some girls love and excuse to row.
I'll text who I want though!
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CorsAsh
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Just call people to thank them in future.
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MatthewR
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Well then your always have this problem - IMO there wasnt any need to text her - just tell your bird to say thanks when she nexts speaks to her - just not worth the aggro!!
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SVM 286
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Put it in perspective for her.
Tell her the very next time one of her associates drinks one of your beers, payment and apologetic texts aside, the culprit WILL find herself in a shallow grave.
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K17STY
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Why did you have her mates number in the first place hmmmmmmm.
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MatthewR
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Why did you have her mates number in the first place hmmmmmmm.
More to this than meets the eye me thinks
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stubbsy05
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Why did you have her mates number in the first place hmmmmmmm.
My mrs must have used my phone to call her at some point. Then I got a text off her the other day saying thanks as my girlfriend took her round some of my beers when they had a get together there. Girlfriend was fine bout that though!
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BarnshaW
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girls who drink beer cant be trusted fullstop. first she will have your beers then it will be your knob
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CorsAsh
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quote:
Originally posted by Alex.S
quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Why did you have her mates number in the first place hmmmmmmm.
My mrs must have used my phone to call her at some point. Then I got a text off her the other day saying thanks as my girlfriend took her round some of my beers when they had a get together there. Girlfriend was fine bout that though!
There's always something about texting that makes paranoid people even worse, it's the perception of secrecy or doing something behind her back.
Which is why I said next time, wait til your gf's around and call her to say thanks. Maybe delete the number if it's causing hassle too. 
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Robbo
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snakes with tits
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K17STY
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Hisssssss
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sand-eel
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Why do peoples GFs keep looking through the BFs phone in this place, she would be out OUT i tell thee, no trust at all there.
[Edited on 03-01-2009 by sand-eel]
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Carl
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Stick to your guns pal, you only text her to say thanks. As for having her number, whats up with that?! Trust issues if that's a problem. I've often had to phone missus's friends if going to pick her up from somewhere and can't get in touch, pubs etc.
Seriously, sick of females, they are all cranks.
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Robbo
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Hisssssss
except for you.
scratch that, ESPECIALLY you!!
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liamgallagher1994
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quote:
Originally posted by sand-eel
Why do peoples GFs keep looking through the BFs phone in this place, she would be out OUT i tell thee, no trust at all there.
[Edited on 03-01-2009 by sand-eel]
same here, i wouldnt go looking through her phone
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K17STY
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If she doesnt trust you then whats the point. You have either done something to cause this or someone else has. And if she doesnt trust her own friends then whats the point in having them.
Iv had a shit of a boyfriend who had interesting textual relationships with anyone and everyone he had the chance with. Tis not nice wondering whats been said or shown.
The text message is an evil creation.
MEN!
[Edited on 03-01-2009 by K17STY]
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K17STY
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quote:
Originally posted by Robbo
quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Hisssssss
except for you.
scratch that, ESPECIALLY you!!
 loves ya long time.
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Andrew
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quote:
Originally posted by K17STY
Why did you have her mates number in the first place hmmmmmmm.
One of my girl friends was a mate of one of my girlie friends.
Also, if you have been with someone for 3 years, you are bound to have a couple of her mates numbers - i.e. dropping something off and making sure they are in etc.
Relationships are built on trust. I have issues with trust which is why i'm still single until i get my head around it.
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Robbo
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Facebook is worst Kirst!
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