paul.mitchell1984
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...from seeing somebody,
recently met this lass who i quite like but havnt mentioned the fact i have a criminal record for dd yet.
im unsure if this would have any effect on her job etc if it was to go anywhere..
what would you do.
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Graham88
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Wouldn't even cross my mind. Unless it was for something she should know about. E.G. killing an ex gf 
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paul.mitchell1984
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haha, no nothing like that like i say just drink drive ....and i dont want this thread to turn into a bloody debate on drik driving.
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C2RL R
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my sisters boyfriend was banned for the same reason when they first started going out. when she found out, she wasn't bothered but she didn't want my dad to find out. all depends on the girl really.
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Lynny
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Would effect me personally, but an amount of that is because of my job
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willay
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why would it effect you Alex
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Andy Stocker
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She's a copper Will
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willay
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yes mate I've worked out that much I fail to see the problem of a copper seeing someone whos got a driving ban? 
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AK
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its too easy to get a minor record these days :/
Depends what its for.
I have unproven assult and affray on my record. It shouldt be there as the case was dropped! 
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Ben J
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quote:
Originally posted by paul.mitchell1984
haha, no nothing like that like i say just drink drive ....and i dont want this thread to turn into a bloody debate on drik driving.
I wouldn't have put "just" drink drive!!!
But tbh it shouldn't affect anything, as long a you aren't doing it still.
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Ben J
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If you've ha a caution that expired, is it still recorded somewhere or is it gone completley? I got a caution at 18 which expired after 5 years.
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DizzyRebel
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Ive got quite a bad past, with plenty of motoring and minor offences that ive been caught for. Its only ever spooked one girl but to be honest who would want a girl whos too scared to do 35 in a 30 or misbehave from time to time? Every other girl has seen it as a bad streak and if anything its made them more interested.
Just tell her you did it but dont plan on doing it again, if she freaks out then she wouldnt be into anal anyway.
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"she wouldn't be into anal"
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Jambo
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Dizzys point is valid imo.
Theres probably a million things i dont know about Mrs Jambo that are naughty. Its all in the past so wouldnt fuss me tbh.
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Ellis
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If she didn't get her pants down because of that, then she's not worth it tbh
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nathy_87
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Nope but I'd confess, after i got to know her.
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Paul_J
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quote:
Originally posted by Alex_NSM
Would effect me personally, but an amount of that is because of my job
Are you Lynny? I didn't realise you were still on CS.
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Gareth F
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I have a charge of "offensive weapons" so i cant work with Kids, Elderly or Disabled. My gf works with a baby sitting agency but if she gets work through them i cant go as i could be arrested but if its work asked dirrectly to her (no agency) then i can. But the fact is its best not to hide stuff like that, bring it into conversation at some point like "weve all done stupid stuff...... when i was younger ...... blah blah" atleast then she knows and if shes blows you off then she aint worth knowing. everyone has a past.
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Paul_J
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what offensive weapon?
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fir3vip3r
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quote:
Originally posted by Gareth F
I have a charge of "offensive weapons" so i cant work with Kids, Elderly or Disabled. My gf works with a baby sitting agency but if she gets work through them i cant go as i could be arrested but if its work asked dirrectly to her (no agency) then i can. But the fact is its best not to hide stuff like that, bring it into conversation at some point like "weve all done stupid stuff...... when i was younger ...... blah blah" atleast then she knows and if shes blows you off then she aint worth knowing. everyone has a past.
if she "blows you off" i think shes definitely worth knowing 
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Gareth F
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2ft scaffold bar,went after a bloke after he assaulted me randomly (headbutted me repeatedly untill i was out cold woke up with a hole in my lip) two bystanders pointed which way he went so i went after him (on route a building with scaffold up it) then cameras picked me up and i was arrested there and then. I tried to put in a file of assault by him but the police refused to get CCTV footage of the attack and shrugged it off. I was left with a cracked tooth, jole in lip, no money and a caution thing. Stupid really but i was blind drunk 
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Gareth F
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Also two days later i get pulle dover for not having my lights on only to have myself and car searched due to the offence and i had a crowbar behind my seat with my tool box which the copper did not find amusing but i had been to the scrappy that day 
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Paul_J
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eh, so you got your arse kicked... picked up a pole and didn't even hit him with it! and they did you for 'offensive weapon' - that's bad luck.
Weird, I've met you in person and I didn't get a vibe of violence at all.
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Gareth F
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Pretty much that
Yeah im pretty calm untill someone pisses me off then it just goes black and i do bad things
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harrisp
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quote:
Originally posted by Gareth F
I have a charge of "offensive weapons" so i cant work with Kids, Elderly or Disabled. My gf works with a baby sitting agency but if she gets work through them i cant go as i could be arrested but if its work asked dirrectly to her (no agency) then i can. But the fact is its best not to hide stuff like that, bring it into conversation at some point like "weve all done stupid stuff...... when i was younger ...... blah blah" atleast then she knows and if shes blows you off then she aint worth knowing. everyone has a past.
Ive got a record for assault and ABH and my dad got turned down for a job in a police station (fitting suspended ceilings and partitions) after they did a background check on him and his family.
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