will_ainsworth
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right well help me on what to do.
basically my dad died 5 years ago. since then mother has met a nice man and they are finally getting married in 2 weeks. tonight was her hen night, mother came home early but my 26 year old sister got in at 4.45 came up to say hi, went into my mums bedroom (my dads old room) to say hi and that she was back safe. all i hear is him unleash a load of shouting at her. going ballistic. so i shoot up right i hear my sister run off crying (she is drunk) and i started shouting at him from my room. got some clothes on, he came in my room with a fist, thought fuck he is gonna try and hit me, so i blocked it, and gave him a right hook ended up my mum and sis and his daughter pulling me off him. he isnt in a good state, his blood is everywhere, think i shattered his eye socket, but would you do the same, stick up for your sister in the same sort of situation, usually i would bite my lip but i couldnt he has been a prick as of late, shouting at my mum aswell...
rant over
help please on what to do i said i wont be a part of their wedding, and im now not welcome in his house after..... o well
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PhilC
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Evenful evening there then...??
Why exactly did he kick off at your sister?
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will_ainsworth
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cus she walked in the house saying hi and woke him up
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Wrighty
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nice moves, he will probably try do you for abh or something 
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stubs
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I dont have a sister, but I think I would have done the same. 
Lets hope your mum sees your side of things also
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stubs
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Oh and if not, at least the wedding photo's should keep people talking for years to come  ... make sure you post them so we can see your handy work 
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morpheus22
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i would do the same sticking up for my direct family dont worry about what he looks like he shouldnt have come in carrying a fist. i think many people will agree
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will_ainsworth
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quote:
Originally posted by stubs
Oh and if not, at least the wedding photo's should keep people talking for years to come ... make sure you post them so we can see your handy work
i took a pic, things are sorta sorted now. im still not gonna move up with them, im gonna buy a house 
but i just want her to be happy, he understands why i did it and is walking around feeling sorry for himself but o well he deserved it, feel a little bad, but he has been put in his place.... thing is i have to give my mum away as her dad died last month, i have to come up with a nice speach, guna be full of lies haha
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Adam-D
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quote:
Originally posted by will_ainsworth
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Originally posted by stubs
Oh and if not, at least the wedding photo's should keep people talking for years to come ... make sure you post them so we can see your handy work
i took a pic, things are sorta sorted now. im still not gonna move up with them, im gonna buy a house
but i just want her to be happy, he understands why i did it and is walking around feeling sorry for himself but o well he deserved it, feel a little bad, but he has been put in his place.... thing is i have to give my mum away as her dad died last month, i have to come up with a nice speach, guna be full of lies haha
keep it short and sweet.
hope you have a happy life, now lets eat
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will_ainsworth
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quote:
Originally posted by Adam-D
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Originally posted by will_ainsworth
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Originally posted by stubs
Oh and if not, at least the wedding photo's should keep people talking for years to come ... make sure you post them so we can see your handy work
i took a pic, things are sorta sorted now. im still not gonna move up with them, im gonna buy a house
but i just want her to be happy, he understands why i did it and is walking around feeling sorry for himself but o well he deserved it, feel a little bad, but he has been put in his place.... thing is i have to give my mum away as her dad died last month, i have to come up with a nice speach, guna be full of lies haha
keep it short and sweet.
hope you have a happy life, now lets eat
fucking lol...
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will_ainsworth
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lol.... cropped as im sure he wont appreciate his bruised face all over the net...
[Edited on 17-05-2009 by will_ainsworth]
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morpheus22
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as he had that looked at because that looks very similar to my broken eye socket.
:EDIT: good job lol
[Edited on 17-05-2009 by morpheus22]
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will_ainsworth
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no he wont go to the drs. more fool him
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morpheus22
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well if he wont go , thats broken imo
did you allso break his glasses ?
[Edited on 17-05-2009 by morpheus22]
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will_ainsworth
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well if he wont go , thats broken imo
did you allso break his glasses ?
[Edited on 17-05-2009 by morpheus22]
no didnt have em on as it was in the middle of the night. i havnt slept yet well a hour but thats it. im only just getting tired lol
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stubs
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oooft fuck I bet that hurt a bit maybe he'll think twice before showing you his fists again
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alan-g-w
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I think it's fucking hilarious that you hit him and he's quite ok with you taking pictures of the damage.
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will_ainsworth
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well he has some sorrys to say, so i said hmm we better get a pic of it and just got the camera and did it haha, i own him now! nah but seriously he is usually a top bloke.
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alan-g-w
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usually i would bite my lip but i couldnt he has been a prick as of late, shouting at my mum aswell...
Doesn't sound like the behaviour of a top bloke.
But if it's all fine and he's your bitch now then that's a plus.
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BarnshaW
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to be honest, if someone came into my room drunk at 4am and woke me up i would be a bit pissed off to ..........
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stubs
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quote:
Originally posted by BarnshaW
to be honest, if someone came into my room drunk at 4am and woke me up i would be a bit pissed off to ..........
Yes but are you a parent? You'll probably find most parents would rather they know the daughter is home safe no matter what time it is. Especially if the mother was out with her and left early.
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BarnshaW
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yea i completely understand that but people have to understand that the only reason the guy went mad to begin with was because he was woken up in the early hours
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will_ainsworth
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yeh i would get pissed off, but he turned evil, not just mad, really really aggressive.
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stubs
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Big fucking deal! I am always getting woken up at daft times.
I also used to work nights, and there was no end to my family coming in and forgetting it was my "night time"... including my girlfriend when I lived with her... doesn't mean I went flying off the handle all the time.
Would it have been any different if he'd been woken up with a call saying she was raped on her way home cause she was in such a drunk state?
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BarnshaW
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maybe its different where i am but its not the norm to wake up your family when you return home to tell them your still alive.......
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