CorsaBoy1
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story so far:=
i known this girl for 2 years now but lately things have moved passed a 'JUST friends' situation.
she has been going out with her boyfriend for a while but a month ago he moved away and they beary keep in touch (he sent her a val days card 2 days late).
i have told her how i felt and she feels the same about me.
she has gone on holiday for a week, and she sent me this text a day ago:=
"i have to let u know that i do like you ALOT, but im so confussed im not sure wat to do! i dont expect you to understand but things are really difficult at the moment and i dont want to lead you on cuz you deserve better"
Wat move do ya recon i should do next from the details in the text message....
1) give her time to make a decision
2) go in for the kill
3) forget all about it and be good friends.
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vibrio
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talk to her about it more.
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ajscorsa
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wait a bit then go for the kill m8
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Fad
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3 mate it aint worth the agro gettin involved with someone who is even remotly attatched...trust me been there got the T shirt...whats to say she is that confused she gets with you then suddenly decides its a mistake..then ur the one going to get get pissed off...unless she is sure there aint no future with her current fella dont even go there 
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Daimo B
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[Edited on 20-02-2003 by Daimo B]
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Fad
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agreed with Daimo... not bad for this time of the morning the ole nugget eh?
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MatthewR
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Yeah listen to Daimo! He's right!
You should sart your own column Dear DAIMO! 
[Edited on 20-02-2003 by Evisu]
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OzziE
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Yea, give her time. Speshully if her fella is a big black dood named ben
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Gower
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write to dierdre
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M2RTY
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quote:
Originally posted by Daimo B
Never jump from one relationship straight into another.
not the words i want to hear right now daimo - ex will be at mine by 8pm 2night - split with my other ex a month ago officcialy, but things went pete tong in november - shes "having a break" from her lad now, so thought she would pay me a visit, and we both still like each other a LOT after 4 years
usually id say the same, but in this case im going with my gut feeling.
if ure having any doubts mate - dont do it - simple as
marv
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SetH
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do her in teh batteh
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M2RTY
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oh daimo - ps......
u2u reached limit or summit and went fooked up on me
work r being twats at the mo (im in for a bollocking 2night) so i havnt been in yet 2 get filter, if im still working there i can order u it in morning
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SetH
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but in all seriousness:
quote:
3 mate it aint worth the agro gettin involved with someone who is even remotly attatched...trust me been there got the T shirt...whats to say she is that confused she gets with you then suddenly decides its a mistake..then ur the one going to get get pissed off...unless she is sure there aint no future with her current fella dont even go there
/\ This man speaks the truth
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M2RTY
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........but all girls are different fella - without knowing hew personaly we can only speake from past experiences
then again - u dont know till u try
marv
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Jodi_the_g
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sleep with her friend
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OzziE
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sleep with her mum
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Jodi_the_g
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and her friend in a kinky threesome and show her the pics in the morning
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Fad
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nutters
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Gavin
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go with u gut feelin m8....
u just need to watch out, she could be using ya
pew pew pew pewwwww
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Gavin
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go in 4 the KILL but be prepared to pick u th pieces!!!!!
pew pew pew pewwwww
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CorsaWales
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she cant spell 'confused',id leave her the fcuk alone...joke! 
im not proud of it but i was in her position,got involved wit sum1 else+hurt them then by going bak2my current girlf so b careful 4fcuks sake.
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willay
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slip her one.
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CorsaWales
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think that goes w/out sayin
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Gavin
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:LOL: @
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Originally posted by CorsaWales
she cant spell 'confused',id leave her the fcuk alone...joke!
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pew pew pew pewwwww
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Kerry
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thanks everyone u have given me some good advice too with respect to a similar situation im in 
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