Je11ybubb1es
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over the last few weeks dan's been working loads, so has been very stressed. I have had a few things happen in the family, and have spent lots of time seeing relatives because of this. the whole time i couldnt wait to see dan again. but recently dan's become really frosty towards me, just silly things like not cuddling me when we're asleep and never wanting to talk to me on the phone for long. he used to want to spend all the time with me and now he hardly ever wants to see me. what would that tell you? 
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RichR
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thats its his time of the month, all males get them
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Je11ybubb1es
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i'm not going to see him on sunday/monday cos of the family issue. then the week after i'm a course for work in bury st edmonds so i wont see him all week then. yet he doesnt seem that bothered. do you think he might think if he treats me bad enough i'll take the hint and leave alone?
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DanielJ
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ur 2 paranoid 
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Je11ybubb1es
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yeah but no matter how s**t I'm feeling I always want to see him, and he used to be the same but now it seems to be any excuse to fob me off
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DanielJ
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finish with him then?
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Je11ybubb1es
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i dont want to, but i just wondered if anyone does this to their girlfriends and if so why cos i dont understand it. he says he loves me then treats me like this?
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Stuckey
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hes tried and stressed and just wants to be left alone 4 a while, trust me i know the feeling 
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Je11ybubb1es
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quote:
Originally posted by Stuckey
hes tried and stressed and just wants to be left alone 4 a while, trust me i know the feeling
but i leave him alone, give him time out. but i havent seen him properly for 2 weeks.i think the only reason he let me stay over last night was cos i'd been out and he wanted to make sure i wasnt taking some random home.
i've been stressed with my job recently i've got loads of important exams and loads of work to do to meet targets but i dont take it out on him.
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Tommy
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Personaly i dont think these sorts of things should be discussed over a notice board there private and if u want advice u should talk to people in private, if i was him i would be well pissed off, having ure girlfriend ask advice from people on the ent that she dont know.
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Je11ybubb1es
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quote:
Originally posted by LoudandLow
having ure girlfriend ask advice from people on the ent that she dont know.
that's exactly why i'm asking, cos people don't know us personally and wont try to convince me everythings ok when it's not
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Tommy
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Personaly i dont think these sorts of things should be discussed over a notice board there private and if u want advice u should talk to people in private, if i was him i would be well pissed off, having ure girlfriend ask advice from people on the ent that she dont know.
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Kerry
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abit sad really  perhaps he has got another women these things happen 
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Je11ybubb1es
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Originally posted by Kerry
abit sad really perhaps he has got another women these things happen
he always used to want to see me. now he doesnt want me to go over there ever. i ring him and ask why things have changed between us, he tells me they havent. then he says he is going because he doesnt like talking on the phone but he never wants to see me, so we never talk about it.
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life_cooler
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this is really sad - reasons can be hundreds. you never know because men usually don't talk. The best thing is to get yourself something else to do and don't think about it. Get youself a life - do something interesting so you don't concentrate only on him all the time.
And you know "if you love somebody - set him free. If he comes back - he's yours, if not - he never was."
Sounds sad though
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Je11ybubb1es
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i know that i need to just break off from him for a while and let him decide what he wants but everytime i try i miss him too much. i know that sounds really pathetic
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B1CUMcorsa
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he's mayb turned gay 
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Je11ybubb1es
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thanks that just what i wanted to hear
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quote:
Originally posted by Je11ybubb1es
over the last few weeks dan's been working loads, so has been very stressed. I have had a few things happen in the family, and have spent lots of time seeing relatives because of this. the whole time i couldnt wait to see dan again. but recently dan's become really frosty towards me, just silly things like not cuddling me when we're asleep and never wanting to talk to me on the phone for long. he used to want to spend all the time with me and now he hardly ever wants to see me. what would that tell you?
sounds like most normal relationships IMHO
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carl moffatt
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@ this thread
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Je11ybubb1es
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what most people make any excuse not to see their girlfriend?
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B1CUMcorsa
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lol i know
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Je11ybubb1es
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does anyone else believe in the saying that once you've split up for over a month things are never quite right again
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B1CUMcorsa
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how long have u 2 been together
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carl moffatt
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quote:
Originally posted by Je11ybubb1es
does anyone else believe in the saying that once you've split up for over a month things are never quite right again
lol never heard of such a saying.
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