Andrew
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Registered: 5th May 04
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Is anyone else really pissed off with there mates?
One is a coke head and keeps pestering me to go out / lend (give) him money. Avoid this guy totally as the people he's involved with are the same as him. It's not long before he's put in hospital or something more serious. Been done for possession more than once now..
Another mate is involved with a load of skallys, one of which grassed him up over taking a couple of things from work. He's now in shit for that and lost his job. I don't like the company he keeps as again it's not long before he ends up in hospital.
Both these were really good mates of mine but just gone mental.
My uni mates have all gone back home. One met a girl from Iceland and moved away with her  Another one doesn't stay in touch much and just thinks about saving cash constantly.
I've decided, i'm not having any mates from now on 
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Nic Barnes
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judging by your location, im very suprised to hear about having mates like that.
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Ste
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Registered: 5th Mar 03
Location: Taif, Saudi Arabia
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Didn't think you had any to start with 
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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Andrew
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Originally posted by Ste W
Didn't think you had any to start with
I haven't anymore 
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taylorboosh
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lol mine are ok tbh
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JonnyJ
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No. I have about 4 different groups of mates who dont really know each other, so if one group pisses me off i have others i spend time with.
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ed
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My mates are great 
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Ste
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Get new ones then. Go out and join an evening class or something.
I would rather lose by a mile because i built my own car, than win by an inch because someone else built it for me.
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Paul_J
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Haha, I must admit I'm noticing the amount of mates I meet up with often is reducing...
I've always had the attitude of 'well I won't that much effort to initiate contact / stay in touch' and if people annoy me / make me feel bad, I don't hang around them.
but with most of the key social booms behind me, 'school', 'uni', 'travelling' and now in a job at work... I'm noticing number of people i see reducing
I blame travelling partially... there were a lot of local people I used to socialise with all the time. Then when I left everything was fine, when I returned I was trying to get my life back on track for a while (so kinda didn't bother getting in touch with them) - then realised I hadnt seen most of them for about a year and now completely drifted away...
I'll make an attempt to get in touch with them when I'm not so busy.
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will_doyle
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quote:
Originally posted by Andrew
Is anyone else really pissed off with there mates?
yes
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Rickavo
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^^ at the fact you dont have any??
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Marc
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Location: York
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My mates piss me off all the time, wouldn't be mates if they didn't!
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saj_123
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quote:
Originally posted by JonnyJ
No. I have about 4 different groups of mates who dont really know each other, so if one group pisses me off i have others i spend time with.
Same system that I have got, it can make things easier.
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MarkSport
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Registered: 22nd May 09
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I only have about 4 close mates that i see day to day,but when i go out on the weekend there will eb a group of about 30 of us.
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
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I have a large group of mates all together but within that group there a little clicks of us, i actually live with my two best mates, guess thats one of the little clicks. Best thing to do is find yourself a bird mate
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Anty
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Registered: 19th Mar 08
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i dont have any friends
just me on my own day in and day out..
see a few people i know, a quick hello hows u etc and thats that !!
spose the only friend i got is my big brother, he doesnt go out..
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maxlee
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think its just part of growing up getting older i have difrent group of mates now to i had 5 years ago.
might be worth telling your mates to sort there shite out tho
one of my close mates got on to smack what a mess that turned in to 4 years in side for slashing some blokes face she was a good looking girl to nice fokes etc etc sorted her shit out now tho and no longer looks like a mess
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Root
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quote:
Originally posted by Andrew
Is anyone else really pissed off with there mates?
One is a coke head and keeps pestering me to go out / lend (give) him money. Avoid this guy totally as the people he's involved with are the same as him. It's not long before he's put in hospital or something more serious. Been done for possession more than once now..
Another mate is involved with a load of skallys, one of which grassed him up over taking a couple of things from work. He's now in shit for that and lost his job. I don't like the company he keeps as again it's not long before he ends up in hospital.
Both these were really good mates of mine but just gone mental.
My uni mates have all gone back home. One met a girl from Iceland and moved away with her Another one doesn't stay in touch much and just thinks about saving cash constantly.
I've decided, i'm not having any mates from now on
It's best to avoid the druggies you mentioned. My best mate, we were born in the same room, 6 days apart, been mates since birth pretty much, up until about 18 years old, a few years ago. Because he started on weed...then began trying coke, mushrooms, E's, kett, valium...and they've basically turned him into a cock. He used to flip his personality in seconds, one minute he was laughing with you, the next he was punching walls and shit. At the time I got kicked out from home because my mum knew I was using cannabis, I had nowhere to live but I told her the situation and she let me move in back at home, got a job, saved some money and moved out with my missus. Not spoken to him again since, despite seeing him several times. When I do see him nowadays he always looks like he's "rattling".
So yeah, I don't have many mates, but would rather it be that way than have mates that aren't worth being friends with.
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IvIarkgraham
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Registered: 27th Mar 04
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mine are fine. have a small group i go out with.
but i can guarentee there are at least another 5 in the pub when we get there
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Colin
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Lost touch with most of mine as were all doing different things, working away or moved town etc
Its just the way it gos though!!
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Andrew
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These two lads have been my best mates for years. Starting to see some of my old school mates laterly though who i've not seen in years. Turned out decent lads. Sacked them off as they were in the pubs and clubs all the at the age if 16
Weird how things turn out.
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Nath
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
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Pugnut didnt have these issues
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Ian W
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Only thing that pisses me off is that there to lazy to bother coming to my flat when I invite them, want me to go to theres constantly.
This is always pissing me off 
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SetH
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Andrew you are a lovely young man but you need to lay of teh roidz
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Andrew
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quote:
Originally posted by Nath
Pugnut didnt have these issues
PugNut had loads of cash as he never went out. Back to that i think
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