stubbsy05
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Split about a month ago now after being together 8 months.
Now we bought a car together for £500 at the time and went halfs. It was a bargain and we knew its probably worth £900 I then bought a new car in Jan and she was going to buy me out of it. It was registered in her name for insurance purposes as I had my insurance on another car which I was selling.
Now we have split and she owes me money £250 plus £70 quid tax i paid at the end of Jan.
She has had the car up for sale but saw it the other day and the for sale signs have gone, but all her stuff still in it so she must own it still.
I've text her asking how the sale is going and that i need my money. She ignored my texts yesterday.
What can I do? I have the V5 doc but no keys. OR should I just accept that its unlikely I get my money back?
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Steve
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same situation with my ex mate, she stole my bed, paid £400 for a lovely memory foam matress now an italian sleeps on it everynight and stains the sheets
[Edited on 25-03-2010 by Steve]
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K2 GTi
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just leave her - shit happens.. get over the loss tbh not worth the hassel
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pow
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Technically it's hers so make her life very difficult to collect the stuff for it that she needs but you might have to suck up and take the £250 loss. At the end of the dayit's not THAT much money.
Hence, why, from this day forward, I will NEVER go halves with a girlfriend on something. Fucked me over as well, I lost a damnsight more than £250 
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Colin
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Not a huge amount to walk away from, technically if jade bins me now she can take half the house.
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
Hence, why, from this day forward, I will NEVER go halves with a girlfriend on something. Fucked me over as well, I lost a damnsight more than £250
This will change.......
It has to, or you will never be in a close committed relationship.
When you buy a house, well theres 1 thing, sofa, bed, tv, computer, kitchen utensils, cupboards.
Your view will change 
£250 really is nothing tbh. Consider it payments for sex You pay in one way or another
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mwg
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Fuck it I'd just cut my losses if she is going to be an arse about it. Only £250, not like its £2500
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pow
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
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Originally posted by pow
Hence, why, from this day forward, I will NEVER go halves with a girlfriend on something. Fucked me over as well, I lost a damnsight more than £250
This will change.......
It has to, or you will never be in a close committed relationship.
When you buy a house, well theres 1 thing, sofa, bed, tv, computer, kitchen utensils, cupboards.
Your view will change
£250 really is nothing tbh. Consider it payments for sex You pay in one way or another
I will buy my own house unless we are engaged or married, I will never be taken for a mug like a have been the last time.
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Colin
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Or if she's not playing ball just go round at 2.37am on Sunday, nitromors over the paintwork, slash the tyres, brick the windows & post pic's of her snatch in her neighbours letterbox's.
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mwg
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Good luck with that one pow, sounds like you are never going to trust another lass again. That isn't going to work!
[Edited on 25-03-2010 by mwg]
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Colin
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
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Originally posted by VXR
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Originally posted by pow
Hence, why, from this day forward, I will NEVER go halves with a girlfriend on something. Fucked me over as well, I lost a damnsight more than £250
This will change.......
It has to, or you will never be in a close committed relationship.
When you buy a house, well theres 1 thing, sofa, bed, tv, computer, kitchen utensils, cupboards.
Your view will change
£250 really is nothing tbh. Consider it payments for sex You pay in one way or another
I will buy my own house unless we are engaged or married, I will never be taken for a mug like a have been the last time.
You'll be saving up until your 45 to do that then & likely wont pull any meat because you still live with your mum
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pow
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Umm it does sound a little sad reading it back... just fucks me off i suppose.
My house deposit fund is rather healthy thanks Colin 
[Edited on 25-03-2010 by pow]
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a_j_mair
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quote:
Originally posted by Colin
Or if she's not playing ball just go round at 2.37am on Sunday, nitromors over the paintwork, slash the tyres, brick the windows & post pic's of her snatch in her neighbours letterbox's.
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Colin
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quote:
Originally posted by pow
Umm it does sound a little sad reading it back... just fucks me off i suppose.
My house deposit fund is rather healthy thanks Colin
[Edited on 25-03-2010 by pow]
Sounds like your sorted then! 
My house deposit fund was £35k & I still needed a 2nd applicant to come on board to get the mortgage, not that its a problem cos I trust her 110%
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GF-91
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If your name is on the V5, the car is yours. Get some insurance on it and knock on the door, say take your shit out, give me the keys, and be done with it. She has no proof she paid half; does she? lol. You could even give her a complimentary round house kick in the pussy for being cheeky.
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Colin
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Originally posted by GF-91
If your name is on the V5, the car is yours.
Dont think it works like that, name on the V5 doesnt prove ownership just who the cars reg'd to.
It would be a case for the small claims courts & he'd have to prove that he contributed to paying for it.
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GF-91
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How would you prove ownership then?
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Steve
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Colin
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quote:
Originally posted by GF-91
How would you prove ownership then?
Something like a receipt to show you £250 down I'd guess. Not so easy as i'd imagine it was a cash sale.
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GF-91
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If his name is on the V5, and they have no receipt, surely the V5 is the only thing they can go on; as it will be a your word against mine case.
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Conway563
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Originally posted by GF-91
If his name is on the V5, and they have no receipt, surely the V5 is the only thing they can go on; as it will be a your word against mine case.
He said it's registered in her name 
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GF-91
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shitter. Good luck proving it.
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Colin
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Just torch it.
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GF-91
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Burgle her house and steal all of her clothes. That'll fuck her head up
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willay
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has anyone suggested kicking her in the fanny?
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