ajscorsa
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was with my ex for 3 years and thought she was the one etc but we went through a spell of arguments etc and broke up.
since we broke up we still spoke every day and generally got on ok, shes started telling me she misses me and that she loves me etc and tbh I still love her and I miss her too.
The complicated bit is that she slept with someone whilst drunk at a party, she toldme this herself and she regrets it and wishes it never happened etc.
Am I mad for even considering getting back with her after she's slept with someone else?
I promise ill pay my £12.50 for this valuable information when I get paid
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Eddx14xe
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did she sleep with him while you were together?
If not why does it matter?
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Gary
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As long as it wasn't while you were together.
I've done this and were happy as ever now
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Pip308
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See what happens if you don't speak for a few weeks, if you still miss each other get back together but you cannot ever use her sleeping with someone as part of an argument x
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GF-91
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If you weren't together and she slept with someone, who gives a flying.
It'd be the same story for you if you had slept with someone.
You're not mad at all but you gotta remember just cause you miss her it doesn't mean its gonna work this time around. My ex is saying the same stuff to me but we aren't getting back together. That's me though.
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adiohead
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Tell her to get an STD check first.
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ajscorsa
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no when we were split. Its just the thought of some other guy having touched her etc.
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Lawrah
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Are you going to use it against her? In every argument you have ?
If you can forget about it and move on, I dont see why you shouldnt.
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Hammer
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A lot of people will say it doesn't matter, me personally I would never get back with someone it will cause nothing but grief every time there is an argument.
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3CorsaMeal
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exactly his penis has been up her and left a salty deposit and she would of fucking loved it at the time.
just remember you split up originally, usually for a reason, don't mistake lust for love
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SXIBLK
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why let who you think is the love of your life go becouse of one mistake did she not sleep with people before you ? basically it comes down to what you think
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adiohead
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quote: Originally posted by ajscorsa
no when we were split. Its just the thought of some other guy having touched her etc.
Go fuck some random woman first, then you're equal and it won't feel as bad.
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RichR
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quote: Originally posted by ajscorsa
was with my ex for 3 years and thought she was the one etc but we went through a spell of arguments etc and broke up.
since we broke up we still spoke every day and generally got on ok, shes started telling me she misses me and that she loves me etc and tbh I still love her and I miss her too.
The complicated bit is that she slept with someone whilst drunk at a party, she toldme this herself and she regrets it and wishes it never happened etc.
Am I mad for even considering getting back with her after she's slept with someone else?
I promise ill pay my £12.50 for this valuable information when I get paid
You need to pay £12.50 now
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Neo
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quote: Originally posted by ajscorsa
no when we were split. Its just the thought of some other guy having touched her etc.
Seriously So are you only ever going to date virgins then in the future
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mattk
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I get where your comming from, it would do my head in a bit
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ajscorsa
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Lol at you's saying she's single at the time so it doesn't matter. It still feels shit she went with someone else! I wouldn't bring it up in arguements I'd rather forget it happened.
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pow
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quote: Originally posted by Neo
quote: Originally posted by ajscorsa
no when we were split. Its just the thought of some other guy having touched her etc.
Seriously So are you only ever going to date virgins then in the future
I am... like em young
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Neo
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quote: Originally posted by pow
I am... like em young
But your a slut at heart dave, just admit it !
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mwg
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I don't think I'd be able to get back with her if she had been with someone else in the mean time. Would play on my mind.
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adiohead
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quote: Originally posted by ajscorsa
Lol at you's saying she's single at the time so it doesn't matter. It still feels shit she went with someone else! I wouldn't bring it up in arguements I'd rather forget it happened.
You'll never forget
You'll think about this guy when you're next having sex
You'll think about this guy when you find out she caught something from him and gave it to you
You'll think about this guy when you have to father his child
People have sex with other people all the time, this is something you've gotta get over
Look at the bright side, she obviously wants you back so the other guys willy must have been smaller
EDIT - or maybe it was toooooooo big
[Edited on 14-09-2010 by adiohead]
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Lawrah
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If he didnt, he will now
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ajscorsa
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Lol think ill just see how it goes if it gets to me then call it a day. Won't rush into anything though
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Havoc
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this is probably quite a common occurrence in canadia. (yes canadia)
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Brett
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quote: Originally posted by mwg
I don't think I'd be able to get back with her if she had been with someone else in the mean time. Would play on my mind.
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3CorsaMeal
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pop her anal cherry and all can be forgiven
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