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Phil Hall
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15th Apr 03 at 12:45   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Right this post is gonna be about a guy / gal thing so you can stop reading now if your not interested.

My dilemma is: I met a girl last week in peculiar circumstances but we got chatting on the phone and Ive arranged to go meet her this weekend. She seems really nice, she's 21 and lives quite near to me but the thing is she has 2 kids. This dosnt automatically put me off, I actually really like kids, but im thinking now that mabey I shouldnt have arranged to meet her. I was in a serious rel last year and I dont think I want to be in another one for a while, and my fear is that she is looking for a father figure for the kids.
Most of my mates say I shouldnt go, and a couple say that I should but let her know exactly how I feel. Tricky situation for me.

Does anybody else or has anybody else gone out with someone with kids and found it a problem?
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go m8...........u never know u might really realy like her
Tommy
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Who gives a toss all women are bitches n e way.
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meet her and see what see she is like.
Phil Hall
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Thats what one of my mates thinks. Fate has a strange way of working.
Phil Hall
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quote:
Originally posted by LoudandLow
Who gives a toss all women are bitches n e way.


Spoken like a man scorned.

So does anybody on the site go with someone who has kids to someone else??
Tommy
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Only if there an ugly fuker
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baggage..

here ya go:

Sigtuna Boarding School
Director of International Programs
Box 8
Sigtuna
S-193 00
Sweden

++46 760 5 0135

[Edited on 15-04-2003 by loafofbrett]
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meet her at least or you'll always wonder 'what if....'
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I went out with a girl who had a liitle boy last year, she was a great girl. Her little boy was great too and never influenced the relationship. Go for it mate!
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Thats what Im thinking Craig.

LoafofBrett > Im guessing thats the address for a Boarding school in Sweden Like your style!
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correct - never did me any harm

[Edited on 15-04-2003 by loafofbrett]
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quote:
Originally posted by SRi_Lad
I went out with a girl who had a liitle boy last year, she was a great girl. Her little boy was great too and never influenced the relationship. Go for it mate!


same here excpet all she did was moan about him did get on me tits afte a while but hey as long as the kids know u aint there dad they aint a problem!
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plus think of all the MILF (Mum's i'd like to fúck) you see walking round the city centre!!

after all, its only a drink aint it!!!
Phil Hall
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SRi_Lad > Are you still with this girl?
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quote:
Originally posted by Gambit
plus think of all the MILF (Mum's i'd like to fúck) you see walking round the city centre!!

after all, its only a drink aint it!!!


LOL but very true Gambit!
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quote:
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SRi_Lad > Are you still with this girl?


Unfortunately not, nothing to do with her having a kid though.
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im seeing a bird at the moment who has a kid by someone else doesn't affect the relationship at all. Its worth a go you never know until u try mate
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how old ru Phil?? 21 is very young for two kids, TOOMMMMMMMMMMMM PPPPPPETTTTTTTTTTTTTTTYYYY
Phil Hall
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Here's how it all started.

We were all out on the piss atraight after work last friday like we do every week. I arrived back to my house with a few mates. I went to phone Dial-a-drink at 3am for more alcahol and I couldnt find the number. So I phoned my mates house looking for it and there was no answer. I then rang his gf who's number ive never phoned but I knew it was in my phone.

Only I had the number of this other girl, who has the same name as my mates gf, and Ive no idea how I got it. We talked for over an hour and it turns out I remember her vaguely from about 6 yrs ago.

This is why im so intregued because of the strange circumstances in which we got talking.
Phil Hall
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quote:
Originally posted by Steve106GTi
how old ru Phil?? 21 is very young for two kids, TOOMMMMMMMMMMMM PPPPPPETTTTTTTTTTTTTTTYYYY


I know what you mean, the kids are 3 and 4. Im 23 btw.



Hi Tom
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Hi
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it's all down to what u can handle mate.
personally i couldn't be assed with someone elses kids.

if it did get serious and stuff they'd only resent you "you're not my dad, u can't tell me what to do", then it'd put a strain on u 2 and it's another failed marriage on the books...great
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bit O/T but who do you use for your Dial-a-Drink??

i would defo go and meet her though! u've nothing to lose
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quote:
Originally posted by loafofbrett
"you're not my dad, u can't tell me what to do", then it'd put a strain on u 2 and it's another failed marriage on the books...great


jesus christ he's only talkin about meeting her for a drink!!

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