johnny86
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Right crack goes would you cheat?
The reason I ask is because I am more than likely to.
Things been shit at home last few months always arguing not talking she's always got the hump with me for some reason or another. I have to ask for a cuddle and a kiss, had sex twice in 4 months I do love her but I'm thinking fuck this.
Working in Chelsea at the minute and a hairdresser has soon me a bit of attention so took her for coffee yesterday and got on great. I explained her the situation and she said decide what I wanna do and we could see how we get on.
I have tried with my partner even booked Disneyland for Xmas an dont even wanna go.
Do I throw this away to have a chance at being happy?
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Ben G
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Dump the missus first. It'll be a lot easier.
I speak from experience. I was a bit of a twat in my younger days.
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Ian
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Chase the hairdresser - fine. Although explain the situation to her is 
You'd be better getting with the hairdresser on its own merit - ie. you have something in common which isn't you moaning and stroking each other's egos about how much you're both better than the previous arrangement.
What is your basis for staying with your bird? Holiday booked? Sounds like fun.
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johnny86
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Nothing Ian, I couldn't give a toss about the holiday tbh..
I think it's more of I don't like being on my own tbh. I always treat her every Friday when I get paid and have to basically beg for attention. I love her and I love her son but I've had enough.
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johnny86
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Ben the hairdresser is from the mighty Essex
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Ian
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So get out.
Whether the hairdresser thing works - see what happens.
Being on your own is an invalid fear. You're more likely to be on your own when the hairdresser gets bored of you being indecisive but your bird calls it off because she's not in it any more.
If you've had enough - there is your answer.
New bird on the scene, happy days. Just don't turn that in to some comfort pick up thing, it needs to stand alone if you're birding up the new one.
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Jamie Walby
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quote:
Originally posted by johnny86
Ben the hairdresser is from the mighty Essex
Sold.
Sounds like a no brainer to me. Bin off the bird thats making you miserable. Get with the one that appears to be better until she starts making you miserable. Then repeat.
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johnny86
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I know what you mean. It's our anniversary today if we argue tonight I'm packing my stuff and off
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_Allan_
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quote:
Originally posted by johnny86
Ben the hairdresser is from the mighty Essex
Yes, yes he is.
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Ben G
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I'm sure there should be a comma after my name 
Essex female hairdresser = win.
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Y869 SRA
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If you're not happy... leave. Simples.
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johnny86
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I know Ben its right in front of me win win situation
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Y869 SRA
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quote:
Originally posted by johnny86
I've had enough.
Sounds like you've already made up your mind tbh.
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John
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If I was thinking of cheating on my other half I'd definitely post about it on the internet.
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K2 GTi
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I was in the same situation just recently.
We'd always argue, never do anything together , I had to beg her for a cuddle and stuff when I've seen her after a day at work.. We was more like mates never really had sex and it was getting to me , although I loved her to bits.
I went out for a few in the town I work, and ended up having a few too many so couldn't drive home. It caused an argument and the next day I finished with her, was horrible but for the best as she was something that I didn't want.
Few days after she contacted me non stop and wouldn't let me leave, I ignored it , broke her heart, and 3 weeks later a guy from work moved in with her
I think mate tbh the reason she is not cuddling or kissing or having sex is either because she is seeing someone else , or she has gone off you and you're just good company now and everything is routine.
Believe me, get teh fuck out , you will be better for it and you only live once.. You need to spend life with someone who is right for you. If you're taking other females out she isn't the one for you.
Good luck
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johnny86
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quote:
Originally posted by John
If I was thinking of cheating on my other half I'd definitely post about it on the internet.
I'm just asking advice that's all but seeing as your always negative about something someone says or does I was expecting something like that from you. Keyboard warrior
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K2 GTi
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quote:
Originally posted by johnny86
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Originally posted by John
If I was thinking of cheating on my other half I'd definitely post about it on the internet.
I'm just asking advice that's all but seeing as your always negative about something someone says or does I was expecting something like that from you. Keyboard warrior
Don't listen to him mate I imagine him to be some fat computer warrior who is probably still a virgin
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johnny86
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quote:
Originally posted by K2 GTi
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Originally posted by johnny86
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Originally posted by John
If I was thinking of cheating on my other half I'd definitely post about it on the internet.
I'm just asking advice that's all but seeing as your always negative about something someone says or does I was expecting something like that from you. Keyboard warrior
Don't listen to him mate I imagine him to be some fat computer warrior who is probably still a virgin
Yup I agree
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John
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Fat computer warrior bit is right but to my knowledge my missus isn't getting pumped by the rest of the town so unlucky boys.
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johnny86
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My missus isn't getting pumped from the rest of the town either.. Just cause we ain't getting on doesn't mean she's getting from else where!
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Ben G
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I think johns trying to say that he gets sex on a regular basis from his better half, so is therefore not a virgin.
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nathy_87
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So what if current girlfriend is reading this right now?
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johnny86
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quote:
Originally posted by nathy_87
So what if current girlfriend is reading this right now?
She won't be reading this she doesn't know my username
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K2 GTi
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Originally posted by nathy_87
So what if current girlfriend is reading this right now?
It'll probably do him a favour
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Hammer
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I'd have pumped the hairdresser and not uttered a peep to anyone.
But then I am a Grade A cunt and always have been
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