Pablo
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Ever thought about your future with your GF/BF....??
My GF told me last night she never wants kids and I had pictured myself with 'em so now Im bit confused  as to wot I want... If I really want them then she isn't who im gonna be with... For obvious reasons she don't want me to take forever to decide wot I want but at the same time I dunno til I have my job, house etc... how I want 'em...
What am I sposed to say... 
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Steve
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she'l want kids later on in life people do change there minds u know
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Steve
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like for instance i think i dont want kids at the mo but im sure il want em wen i get a bit older
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Pablo
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She seems pretty set in stone bout not...
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MatthewR
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Wait till u feel u want kids then see wot the situation is then, dont worry about it now!!!!!
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Marc
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yeah well she is only 20!
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Pablo
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I always saw me as a yound dad like in next couple years thats why it's come up!!
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willay
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thats women for you, some just love the idea of kids, my last relationship SHE was talking about kids and what kinda wedding she want, i'm happy i jumped ship 8 months ago 
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willay
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and I was like 17 and she was 18 :S
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Chris@Speedfreex
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she'll cum round m8, i ogt the problem of my missus wanting em now
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Chris@Speedfreex
she'll cum round m8, i ogt the problem of my missus wanting em now
How old are you. you don't then?
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Marc
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Bloody hell chris! thats savage!!!
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Chris@Speedfreex
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we're both 19, i do want kids but not yet not for atleast 2 years,
im the same as B4rvo always imagined myself as a young dad
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Pablo
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Imaginging and doing are two different things 19 bit young thinking 22/23....
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Chris@Speedfreex
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missus has always wanted kids from the first day i met her,
i do wan them but not till im at least 21/22? thats the earliest i want them.
shes already got the names sorted
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Chris@Speedfreex
missus has always wanted kids from the first day i met her,
i do wan them but not till im at least 21/22? thats the earliest i want them.
shes already got the names sorted
 Thats the way it goes mate!
I wanna be with my girl just thats a bit thing (I think) for me and therefore don't wanna make it anymore hurtful if thats not what I want...
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SetH
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LMFAO you poor bastids, your missus' wanting kids
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Chris@Speedfreex
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she wants em but she wont ave any yet
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willay
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yeh i'm kinda lucky now, missus doesnt want them  i'm sure things will change as time goes on, only a matter of time
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Pablo
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Im gonna drop it for now and see where we are in a few months....
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jm960326
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Im 21 and dont want kids yet, far too young, need get some money house and things sorted first. The mrs really wants kids, so do I but not yet.
Friend at her work told her bloke when they got married she wanted kids, 5 years down the line she now says she doesnt, they are spliting up about it.... things change but you can come to a compremise (spellin) about things.
Your only 19, loads of time yet!
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Chris@Speedfreex
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im in no rush dont get me rong.
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Demo
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the only kids i dont mind are the ones that you can hand back when they are being little pricks.
and my missus loves kids. worse luck for me
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by jm960326
Friend at her work told her bloke when they got married she wanted kids, 5 years down the line she now says she doesnt, they are spliting up about it....
Thats wot I don't wanna happen, and so I don't wanna say I don't if I do and I know she is sticking to wot she said which makes it easier to know she is being honest!
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Chris@Speedfreex
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B4RVO m8 - get a bike. lifes much more easier 
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