scrap
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I have been wiv my girlfriend 4 18 months and I was a bit of a b*stard to her e.g. lying, then lying about lies, cheating etc, but we have been split 4 the last 2 months.
In this time I have been messing about wiv other lasses etc. Now we have made things up and are back 2gether  (I'm gonna be a good lad now I promise)
But her Mother, father and nana and grandad all hate me now and haven't had a good word to say about me since we split up.
Her mother has been arguin wiv her for the past 2weeks, just because she found out I had been phoning her. 
She hasn't told them yet that we are back 2gether but she's telling them 2day.
So my question to you lot is, what can I do to calm the situation or at least get them to just give me a chance ???
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Ally
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Let them calm down.
No offence but if u treated her like sh*t then ppl don't tend to forget that for a long time.
If you really have changed. Then make the effort.
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Ojc
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Mate, move on. When the family get involved it just gets worse.
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Jason Iles
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Mate, move on. When the family get involved it just gets worse.
Yip in my experiance it only gets worse, and it causes loads of pointless arguing
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Ojc
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Exactly.
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Foz
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yesh especially if she has a older brother, move on.
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OFcorsa
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its not the family your going out with! just be good from now on and the family will in time come to accept you!
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Craig W
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My gf's parents were against me and my bird going out, they'd heard dodgy things about me and decided they didn't want their daughter getting mixed up in my kinda world.
They made a mistake by judging me before they had met me, and after a few visits they liked me and 1 year 7 months later they love and adore me
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Ojc
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I love and adore you as well Craig babe. XmwahX
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Craig W
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Ta 
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Tom
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Firstly ask yourself why you wana get back with her, whether it's really the right thing to be doing.
If you want to be back with her, it should be on her terms imo, let her parents judge for themselves whether you have changed or not, it'll be a long time b4 they accept you again though imo
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Ojc
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Just tell her to fcuk off to be fair. If you cheated on her she could'nt be all that good.
And she will want revenge (trust me she will want revenge) so will probably end up shagging your best mate anyway.
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Jason Iles
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Just tell her to fcuk off to be fair. If you cheated on her she could'nt be all that good.
And she will want revenge (trust me she will want revenge) so will probably end up shagging your best mate anyway.
True, but PMSL
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scrap
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Thanx for the advice peeps.
In response to the answers:
I have changed i feel differently and I know if I finish it then I'll regret it later when it's too late.
FOZ : She hasn't got an older brother, so no problem there.
I know it's gonna be hard wiv em all against us but i'll just have to prove to them that i've really changed.
I've agreed to do things on her terms, so that's one thing, I've also told my mates I aren't going on holiday wiv them, I have paid to go to Tenerife in 3 weeks, but I aren't going now.
I THINK THIS SHOWS THAT I AREN'T MESSING ABOUT AND THAT I'M PREPARED TO CHANGE.
DO YOU AGREE ??
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OFcorsa
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No because i aren't is not english i am not is so please in future use this
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Ojc
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Poor punctuation can cause sentences to look long and drawn out and be totally meaningless
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OFcorsa
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so use full stops and comers
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scrap
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OFcorsa : Would you do me a favour please?
Stitch me up...................because my sides are splitting, your sooooo funny
NOT !
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OFcorsa
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No its ok i dont need to stitch you up, you live in Hull!
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scrap
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UPDATE,
My girlfriend told her mother last nite that we are back 2gether.
She went mental and said " Do what u want but he won't be coming in this feckin house !!! "
" Don't get back with him, the whole family are against him "
" Your dad will Kill him if he finds him around here "
" I never want to speak to him again in my life, never mind 2moro or later this week, and no I won't calm down"
OBVIOUSLY NOT A GOOD SITUATION.............BUT HOPEFULLY THEY WILL GET USED TO THE IDEA... COS THEY'RE GONNA HAVE TO.
Can't wait till i go round to pick her up or something,, should be fun 
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vibrio
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quote:
Originally posted by scrap
I have been wiv my girlfriend 4 18 months and I was a bit of a b*stard to her e.g. lying, then lying about lies, cheating etc, but we have been split 4 the last 2 months.
In this time I have been messing about wiv other lasses etc. Now we have made things up and are back 2gether (I'm gonna be a good lad now I promise)
But her Mother, father and nana and grandad all hate me now and haven't had a good word to say about me since we split up.
Her mother has been arguin wiv her for the past 2weeks, just because she found out I had been phoning her.
She hasn't told them yet that we are back 2gether but she's telling them 2day.
So my question to you lot is, what can I do to calm the situation or at least get them to just give me a chance ???
do nothing. why bother with the parents if they don;t like you then they won;t change overnight.
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Ojc
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Shag the mums arse.
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Richie
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Ojc always has the solution
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Jason Iles
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Scrap try here - www.mylifesfcuked.com
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Cosmo
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her mum seems to have a short fuse! Remember if you wanna know what the g/f will be like in the future look at the mother!
I wouldnt worry too much, nan and grandad will be dead soon no doubt, and she can bribe the parents by threatening not seeing them again, job done!
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