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Neil is right, I appreciate the time I have with him more and it gives you something to look forward to. If I saw him all the time I wouldnt look forward to it as much and would come to expect it
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most nights but i find notsseeing sum1 as much means you want to see them more at the weekends.
but then dont u think it can have adverse effects too?
i think id grow apart from someone i hardly saw, but them im a very big "wots the point" kind of person 
i ahve to agree with shelly all the time would be too much you do need your own space and too see your mates. but like what you said 3 days then weekends for your mates and cars is  pretty much how ares works. she phones me every night though. but she loves me lots so cant complain with what we do.
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yeah we talk to each other all the time too
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Kerry
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but as its something u cant change then u have grown to accept it. i bet if things were diffrerent u would see each other more 
i had a good weekend just gone
friday out with mates and fella was a good nite
saturday went rolling road took fella and he got on great with my mates
sat night we both did out own thing
sun met up for a bit of xmas shopping for a couple or hours
but..............
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but..... you havent been going out long so it's like when you start your relationship you wan to be together all the time. i settle with a phone call a night, then i miss her then i get excited cos im seeing her on the weekend...after rugby 
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Yeah I would see him more but not every night. He'd get fed up with me
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but..... you havent been going out long so it's like when you start your relationship you wan to be together all the time. i settle with a phone call a night, then i miss her then i get excited cos im seeing her on the weekend...after rugby
Its important to keep doing what you've always done cos if you drop your mates or the stuff you like doing and then things dont work out its difficult to get them back when you've lost them.
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but..... you havent been going out long so it's like when you start your relationship you wan to be together all the time.
thank you that just hit the nail rite on the head
i mentioned the weekend but in the week prior i saw him once and this week i wont til sunday for an hour. but he will quite happily sit online and talk to me til midnight  he isnt doin anythin he is just tired 
i dont want a fuckin internet relationship 
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agreed shelly. my missus has started a new job o she has new friends and is out every friday or saturday, im happy forher to do this cos i can go out with my mates. and she is happy for this to happen. exmple this weekend i am going to see her friday night, home saturday for rugby then see her after rugby the cribbs on sunday. and i look forward to it.
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SetH
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i need to deposit my semen on a daily basis so i would like to see her everyday
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Sam
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how long u been together sam?
About a month!
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seth - PMSL! your are a he bitch! get back to your man stable.
Kerry - thats no good, i can only talk onthe phone for so long then i ahve to say teas ready or my head hurts i gotta go. but si down and talk to him about it. i know you might feel like you ahve to tip toe around things like this earlyin a relationship but it is best to get it out otherwise you might have a serious argument about it later on in the relationship.
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how long u been together sam?
About a month!
wot happened did she move away or u met and thats the distance so u want to be closer?
it must be serious 
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seth, your sex mad lately!
neil, im going out with my mates on friday night, mikey is out with his cousin and brother and im seeing him saturday/sunday
kerry, do you want to see him every night?
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Kerry - thats no good, i can only talk onthe phone for so long then i ahve to say teas ready or my head hurts i gotta go. but si down and talk to him about it. i know you might feel like you ahve to tip toe around things like this earlyin a relationship but it is best to get it out otherwise you might have a serious argument about it later on in the relationship.
im not one to moan or change things. if it isnt goin to happen it isnt goin to happen. i dont want anythin serious but this takes the piss so i guess il just forget about it
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seth - PMSL! your are a he bitch! get back to your man stable.
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kerry, do you want to see him every night?
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my ideal relationship would be to spend 2 or 3 nights in the week together then weekends with mates and cars ect
does that seem unreasonable?
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Originally posted by Kerry
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how long u been together sam?
About a month!
wot happened did she move away or u met and thats the distance so u want to be closer?
it must be serious
Yeah it's very serious between us, totally in love etc. and really into each other, and we're gonna get a place together very soon! She lives just outside of Glasgow, I live in Oxford (well, soon to be Slough again as of tonight), so I have just been flying or driving up there every weekend.
[Edited on 26/11/03 by Sam]
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That would work fine for me kerry, and speak to him on the fone a couple of times a week to sort out what you both are doing. seems reasonable to me.
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I'm a he bitch
Quality
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Kerry
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Yeah it's very serious between us, totally in love etc. and really into each other, and we're gonna get a place together very soon! She lives just outside of Glasgow, I live in Oxford (well, soon to be Slough again as of tonight), so I have just been flying or driving up there every weekend.
and i cant even get my man in the next village to visit me
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You need to sort him out and tell him what you want, women wear the pants remember
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Originally posted by Kerry
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Yeah it's very serious between us, totally in love etc. and really into each other, and we're gonna get a place together very soon! She lives just outside of Glasgow, I live in Oxford (well, soon to be Slough again as of tonight), so I have just been flying or driving up there every weekend.
and i cant even get my man in the next village to visit me
If I lived in the next village to my girlfriend I would be over like all the time!!! 
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