Joff
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back in 10 years  
Sick!! 
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nuttytart1000
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well im gonna comment ...
im a single mum , n no im not a bit of a kid who got herself knocked up,im 26 n i've been married n got divorced n met blokes who promise you the world n then when it comes to crunch time the fact im a mum has been a major issue, the only bit of advice id give to anybody is before you even think about starting a relationship with somebody with kids no matter how old kids then if you know your gonna get slightly or majorly involved then think about the kids before you do anything and i know it sounds boring and sensible of me( which i dont do very often) but im sat on the other side of the fence if you know what i mean
and learning through experience im staying on my own ( i think)
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Kerry
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Originally posted by nuttytart1000
well im gonna comment ...
im a single mum , n no im not a bit of a kid who got herself knocked up,im 26 n i've been married n got divorced n met blokes who promise you the world n then when it comes to crunch time the fact im a mum has been a major issue, the only bit of advice id give to anybody is before you even think about starting a relationship with somebody with kids no matter how old kids then if you know your gonna get slightly or majorly involved then think about the kids before you do anything and i know it sounds boring and sensible of me( which i dont do very often) but im sat on the other side of the fence if you know what i mean
and learning through experience im staying on my own ( i think)
oh my god we are living parallel lives i love u 
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nuttytart1000
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so is it you that has kids then hun or are you considering a bloke with one
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Kerry
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Originally posted by nuttytart1000
so is it you that has kids then hun or are you considering a bloke with one
i meant my life is identical to ures..... age, kids, divorce
ive never had a problem with fellas and my kids to be honest until i just got dumped for having them 
if i ever have someone round in the week i make sure they are in bed and at weekend they arnt here so im lucky. although there are a few people on here who have met them at some point and will back me up when i say they are great to get on with anyway.
i wouldnt force them on anyone they are my life and that the way i like it... mum in the week and party animal at the weekends
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nuttytart1000
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i totally agree with you there hun im lucky 2 as my little un aint here most weekends
however i do only have the one
ive give up on the relationship thing for the time being blokes are so hard work
well gu luck hun it aint easy i know that for sure, and hes a fool for dumping ya (bastards)
theyre all the same every single one of em ( only joking there must be some decent ones out there, but theyre probably gay )
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Kerry
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ive give up too
u doing anything later 
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nuttytart1000
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[Edited on 30-11-2003 by nuttytart1000]
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J da Silva
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i give up on birds, they all hate me
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nuttytart1000
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what? with all your charm and charisma how could they!
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J da Silva
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Originally posted by nuttytart1000
what? with all your charm and charisma how could they!
i like a laugh yeah, i wouldnt say im charming though i dont even think im all that to be honest
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nuttytart1000
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awww bless 
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Kerry
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J da Silva
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did i say sumthin funny?
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nuttytart1000
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no i dont think you understood my sarcasm sorry i do appologise huni
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J da Silva
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i did, but i answered seriously anyway
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nuttytart1000
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oooooh sorry babe thought you might have borrowed one of my blonde moments then
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J da Silva
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no although im half blonde(streaks)
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nuttytart1000
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so you can have your own then
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Trotty
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Originally posted by Kerry
although there are a few people on here who have met them at some point and will back me up when i say they are great to get on with anyway.
Totally agree, right pair of little nutters Don't know where they get it from... 
Nah they're bloody ace 
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nuttytart1000
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they sound gr8 kerry
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Kerry
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they are 
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stuyw
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nowt wrong with some1 having kids n having a relationship with them. Only thing that peeps have got to be aware of is that the will not always be most important thing in the relationship, but thats fair as a lad/girl aint gonna put their other half before their children
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Tom
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I'd always say the same (nout to do with my age) it would depend on the situation, but I wouldn't let kids put me off.
I get on great with most peoples kids I know they all seem to follow me and that i'm uncle tom to about 5 peoples kids in work
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OFcorsa
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PMSL @tom you slept about int he office then! kids keep walking in on you do they tom
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