sassyminx
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Originally posted by Patrick
The CSA would make sure he pays his way. If he wants to declare false earnings, the CSA would be smart and the Inland Revenue would soon send round investigators.
I know people that work in the CSA and Inland Revenue, I also know dads that pay fuck loads to the CSA every month. They don't back down. The way they look at it is the father of the kids should pay the way instead of the tax payer and personally I think thats 100% right!
thanks for that....but he lets me claim wftc, and id lose that if i claimed csa and by right we hav em 50-50 so he cud claim it off me too cos were straight splits
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Ojc
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How about we start at the beginning.
1. You should'nt have got pregnant
2. Once you knew you were pregnant and could'nt afford to keep yourself let alone children you should have had a abortion
3. You have lots of debts with store cards etc, MORE FOOL YOU.
4. I have no sympathy for you.
Sounds harsh but you must be a mug to get a loan for your boyfriend 
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BabyBlade
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True but harsh,
aint a nice situation to be in that 
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sxi boy
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bit harsh that ollie, there's nowt she can do about it now so she didnt really need to hear that 
like i said - have u looked into getting one of those debt consolidation loans?
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Ojc
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Harsh but totally true.
Nothing against the girl but its the plain facts.
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Ojc
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PMSL 
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sxi boy
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fair play
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BabyBlade
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how old are you btw sassyminx if you dont mind me asking?
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BabyBlade
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
PMSL
lol kow its shit but i need the practice and really like the original picture!!!
If i hadnt started buying stuff for my corsa i wud definately consider a clean nova 
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sassyminx
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Originally posted by Ojc
How about we start at the beginning.
1. You should'nt have got pregnant
2. Once you knew you were pregnant and could'nt afford to keep yourself let alone children you should have had a abortion
3. You have lots of debts with store cards etc, MORE FOOL YOU.
4. I have no sympathy for you.
Sounds harsh but you must be a mug to get a loan for your boyfriend
1. i was gettin married to him,
2. pregnancy has nothing to do with it, my 2nd child was planned
3. i didnt hav any problems payin for things wen i lived with my fiance. u cant tell if yr gunna fall out of love with sum1
4. when i was and before i was pregnant i had no problems with money
5. i wasnt askin for fcukin sympathy
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sassyminx
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Originally posted by Sethion33
how old are you btw sassyminx if you dont mind me asking?
22 mate
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Ojc
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Ok, you have answered my questions.
Kind regards.
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Robbo
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U really ought to think about a loan to pay off all your debt... at least then you'd only have one monthly payment. Also, store cards... big NO NO!
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transca
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Originally posted by Robbo
U really ought to think about a loan to pay off all your debt... at least then you'd only have one monthly payment. Also, store cards... big NO NO!
yeah most store cards are around 30% apr which is just ridiculus. i'm suprised they're allowed to get away with it.
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LukeGSi
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Originally posted by Robbo
U really ought to think about a loan to pay off all your debt... at least then you'd only have one monthly payment. Also, store cards... big NO NO!
This is the answer!! Try egg they have very good rates at the moment  Id avoid consoledation agencies as most charge almost as much intrest in the long run and they screw your credit rating for ages. Chin up gal and remember there are always people worse off, at least you and your kids are healthy etc
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sassyminx
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yea thanks luke, me grandmas been down and shes helpin me out by payin off one of the bigish ones for me.......... so mite not hav to get rid of the car........am off to see a financial advisor tmoz as well to hopefully come up with sum sorta plan to get me back on track
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psycho sport
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how much debt did ur boy friend leave for you to pay off?
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Robbo
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I know this sounds silly but £6k is not that much and you could easily get a decent rate personal loan from Egg etc.
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M4tt
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as said the best way to help yourself back on your feet is to get a loan to clear all debts -
especially those storecards, with the amount of interest on store cards, the amount you'll beable to afford to pay off will end up being the interest, so your debts won't go n e where very fast = even more depressing
clear em all off on one gib loan, pay back 6000 over say 5 years and it'll only cost you APPROX £110-120 a month.
because at the end of the day if you leave it as it is now. in 5 years time you probably won't be any better off paying the cards etc off seperatly
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C4RSA16V
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try cahoot for a loan of 5-7k at about 5.9% APR. One monthly payment of about £120 (depending on term of loan) might make things a bit easier - or for smaller ones maybe a credit card like sainsbury's or mint who offer 0% on balance transfers for 6mths - ud have to not buy anythin else on it tho!
Dunno if this helps sassyminx?...
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sassyminx
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thanks for yr help, me dads give me a cheque to help me out and so has me grandma so hopefully things will work out
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Corsalad87
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good luck sassy hope u get ething sorted!!!!!
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sassyminx
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quote:
Originally posted by corsaboy87
good luck sassy hope u get ething sorted!!!!!
thankyou.........and i hope youve checked out sundays meet
[Edited on 31-03-2004 by sassyminx]
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C4RSA16V
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good-o. best of luck sassyminx, hope it all works out
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sxi boy
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hope u get it all sorted darl, i know how shit it is bein skint but i cant imagine how hard it is tryin 2 raise kids at the same time
respect hun
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