Shelly
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im not really one to comment at the moment, but if your both willing and trust each other, surely your love will be strong enough to survive a couple of months
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neoquip
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a couple of months? lol
why prolong the pain 
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Russ
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Originally posted by langey
mate get rid, your too far away. and to be brutally honest, is she gonna stay faithfull? 2weeks in spain, doubt it. then a month working in a "holiday" destination.
mate leave it, and find sumone closer to home.
son ur a cock? if u wen to spain without ur gf wud you cheat? so why should see, stop typing crap u look stupid
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sassyminx
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me and painz did the same, and we found it well hard, it is really hard to have a long distance relationship cos it takes time, money and a lot of trust, and then theres the dealing with the fact it aint round the corner, i hope u get it sorted mate cos i know how much it hurts and how hard it is, but if she is everything u want then go for it and dont let her walk away
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Holly C
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Registered: 27th Apr 04
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If you both really love each other and want to be with each other, then stick it out. What's a few months apart, if you can have years of happiness together. Good luck 
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Graham
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well heres the update, i told her how i felt and how we were going down that road again and i said i was thinkin about it, shes been hurt so many times and i promised her that i wudnt hurt her, but then she said well do whats best for u, then i said i dont want to lose u whatever happens, so she replied looks like uve made ure decision, and then here comes the blow, she said i wasnt going to move down to devon or a month, i was ging to stay here and make it with u. i cudnt believe it im a wreck now as ive spent the last hour explaining to her on the phone what a mistake it was, i didnt want it to end p like that but she thought i did, and now im payin the price another thing she has said is she desnt want me calling her or txtin etc, but she will txt me when she has forgiven me, whether it be a day, two, a week month or even a year, so i tried telling her that i love her and always will and that i know she stills loves me but i dont really know what to do. it was so hard talking to her but really i know ive done wrong and even tho it was something i didnt mean it still happened.
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stubbsy05
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Why didn't she tell you that she wasn't going to move down to Devon until now?
You can never promise not to hurt someone, times change and so do people.
If the girl means that much to you. I'd text her and just tell her how you feel, and maybe spend that month together. If she feels the same and is worth it, then she will reply.
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Graham
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but the problem is she said to me on the phone ill txt u when i see fit dont bother txtin or calling me, i dunno what i wud do if u did just let me be im messed up. i dunno do i risk it or not.
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James_DT
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Risk it; I've been in a similar situation. I didn't risk it, and she assumed I didn't care anymore.
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Holly C
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Right I'm mega confused now, what have you done that needs her forgiveness 
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Half Pint
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Have 2 girlfriends one home and one away  sorted 
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Holly C
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quote:
Originally posted by Half Pint
Have 2 girlfriends one home and one away sorted
Your a bloody nightmare, I dont think he wants that, but good idea 
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Half Pint
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well was a good idea tho
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Patrick
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Get rid. You don't need the heartache.
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L330wnz
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Mate you gotta either lay ya heart on the line and go 4 it (might get hurt) or just 4get about her and move on (might regret not trying) - I have a nice lil wise saying 4 ya buddy "Your only regrets are the risks u didn't take"
Dont let her call the shots and wait 4 her 2 4give you, she never told you she was gonna stay put 2 work it out with you so y are you 2 blame 4 being unsure wot u want if she DID move down to Devon?!
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Mark Petty
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Thats well strange why does she need to forgive you?
You haven't done anything wrong have you? it sounds like she is messing with your mind mate. Typical women
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Tom
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Leave it like a day or two then text her, she's daft for saying she was goping to devon, she sounds a bit mad mate, I fall for birds like that too
Sounds to me like u wern't THAT into her cos' u said u were looking for a closer version of her, if you wouldn't mind having someone similar then you don't love her, I don't look at my ex and think of her good points/bad points I just loved her
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L330wnz
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Agree with Tom there, I look at my missus and I don't care bout good/bad points coz every1 has their flaws but are normally good in other ways... I just love her 4 who she is and 4 how she treats me awwwww... **pukes**
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Tom
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borking already lee mate
Nah tis true tho init
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ruth
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to be truthful she sounds like shes just playing games to see if you love her just leave her for a day or two then she will calm doen
i can see where she is coming from
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Tom
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That's cos' you're a bird n they're daft 
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Adam-CorsaC18s
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I agree wi Ruth mate - she's playin you!!
Move on! Plain and Simple!
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ruth
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well said Adam
but its not that easy to move on
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Graham
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Registered: 12th Oct 03
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i kno she will always be in my heart and mind even though we may not get back together.
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neoquip
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Registered: 12th Aug 02
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any update this week?
What you put higher up on this page sounds that she is messing you about.
She ddn't tell you she wasn't going!!!
Let you say everything to her then said.... thats it!
Muppet.. Pr*CK Teaser!
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