mwg
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I wouldn't go with a fatty that was a really nice person or a fitty that was horrible.
Has to be somewhere in the middle.
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Jambo
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Being attracted to someone isnt being shallow 
If they have a great personality but they ming, then they will be a good friend 
Only a fucking woman would come up with such a question, how long has it been since the Op viper?
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John
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You are attracted to the looks before finding out their personality surely, unless it's a friend or someone you've known for a while.
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rustyarchs
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i always seem to get on really well with fat birds, dunno why just find them really funny and end up having a great laugh although id never go with one so must be shallow
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sand-eel
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Why do everytime I glance at the title It says "do you swallow"
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Jay
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quote:
Originally posted by Robbo
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Originally posted by Hammer
Rather be in the company of someone that has mediocre looks but doesn't burst your baws to be honest instead of a tasty bit that's a dour faced bint.
Think that came with age though.
agreed, as long as i think they are pretty then thats all that matters
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Luke
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quote:
Originally posted by sand-eel
Why do everytime I glance at the title It says "do you swallow"
Do you swallow sand-eel?
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sand-eel
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depends how much I'm payed.
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Neo
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I'm lucky i have both atm
TBH I'm not that shallow, obviously if i couldnt stand how the girl looked i wouldnt, if she was bigger bodied or taller than me i wouldnt.....but thats cos i dont find it attractive rather than being shallow IMO
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XSIHardy
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i am shallow if i wont to have more thn just sex.
if its just sex ill fuck any thing !
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Partyvan
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If she takes it up the poop chute then an ugly bird might get it, but I'd have to make sure her face was buried in the pillow before I bust hoop.
On the other hand some of the really fit birds don't look like they could take a good banging, almost as if they'd snap in half at the sight of my cod-wand.
Personally I go for girls with a good sense of humour, high sex drive, intelligence and what I'd say were above average looks as there's nothing worse than a stuck-up bitch who won't open up her ham wallet.
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Gareth F
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I always go for amazing personality but im not going to date a hefer. So id say im inbetween shallow and not shallow if anything. You have to be actracted to someone to be with them.
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K2 GTi
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they have to be fit.. but most fit girls are bitches as past relationships show!
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Adam-D
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not shallow.
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corsa - gus
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I don't think I am shallow, however I wouldn't go out with anyone I wasn't physically attracted to! No matter what their personality is like. At the end of the day nobody will ever stick it out with someone they aren't attracted to! I believe I personally have found someone who ticks all the boxes in having a great personality and I am physically attracted to, however she is young and has time to change
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DizzyRebel
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I think its kinda one sided though. IE when have you ever seen a good looking guy holding hands with a minger? Yet you see plenty of stunning girls with some greasy, long haired skinny student types or just general mingers and it makes you wonder.
For example, im hardly the world worst looking lad  and ive never once been out with a moose, yet my mrs who is stunning has never been out with anyone good looking, infact the ex she was with before me i think i could class as the uglyest lad ive ever seen so it makes you wonder.
It seems even the ugly lads are shallow lol, maybe its just a guy trait? but hey while im young and looking my best, surely its a crime not to allow fit foxes bounce on my pork sword, when im older its time to settle down with a personality, even then im not having a fat round wife with short hair, jamjar glasses and short curly hair that matches the colour of her skirt!
[Edited on 08-05-2009 by DizzyRebel]
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J da Silva
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My answer would be neither....... simply because I hate dull and uninteresting girls, but I'd never be attracted to a fatty or pasty oaf neither.
Got to have a bit of everything IMO, lets face it, the very first time you meet someone you go for looks instantly because that's how you notice them, you don't go over with your eyes shut, talk for half an hour and the open them to see if she's fit do you?
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Daimo B
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What attracts you to someone first.......?
The way they look, or the conversation they hold???
They way they look of course.
If she doesn't look hot to start with, you wouldn't start a conversation with her in the first place???
so no its not shallow to go by looks as its the total initial thing you see/think about when looking for a gf...
The rest of it comes later...
If she was ugly, you wouldn't start a conversation to pull her to find out more about her.
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stan_the_man
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quote:
Originally posted by DannyB
I prefer a girl with a personality over model looks, nothing worse than being with a girl who is as dull as pencils.
Nail on the head!
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J da Silva
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quote:
Originally posted by stan_the_man
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Originally posted by DannyB
I prefer a girl with a personality over model looks, nothing worse than being with a girl who is as dull as pencils.
Nail on the head!
Nail on the head? It's not a right or wrong question mate it's a preference.
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Whittie
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Originally posted by IvIarkgraham
i deffinatly wouldnt shag a dumb bird
"Mark, Whats this rohypnol you've given me?"
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stan_the_man
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quote:
Originally posted by J da Silva
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Originally posted by stan_the_man
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Originally posted by DannyB
I prefer a girl with a personality over model looks, nothing worse than being with a girl who is as dull as pencils.
Nail on the head!
Nail on the head? It's not a right or wrong question mate it's a preference.
Ok then, i also feel the same as DannyB.
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J da Silva
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Can I ask? What made you go upto your current gf for the first time?
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Half Pint
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
What attracts you to someone first.......?
The way they look, or the conversation they hold???
They way they look of course.
If she doesn't look hot to start with, you wouldn't start a conversation with her in the first place???
so no its not shallow to go by looks as its the total initial thing you see/think about when looking for a gf...
The rest of it comes later...
If she was ugly, you wouldn't start a conversation to pull her to find out more about her.
building on this surely you have to be attracted in the first place..... surely shallow is defied when you pick a bird over what your mates will think rather than by attraction... i.e you may be attracted but would not go with a person as your mates may make comments or give you stick... that to me is shallow!
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Daimo B
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Exactly.
Thats why whenever people go "what first attracted you to someone"
Errrrrr, common sense, their looks obviously.
Or do people come up and talk in your ear for half and hour so you can work out if they are interesting enough... Then turn round to see them????
No
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