DizzyRebel
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The trick is to be friendly and not too suggestive/desperate. But on the flip side she needs to know you mean business and arent there to be messed about or be just friends.
First date i use to get to know their personality, 2nd date i used to get to know their past and family matters etc then the 3rd i use to be very flirty and suggestive. usually the 3rd one bags a lay. But i date 19-22 year old so it might not work that simple for you lol.
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SVM 286
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Originally posted by jake
cannot believe im writing this but some of you on here know your shit so here goes
long story short, i met a girl last friday, had a good chat and arranged to meet up the following monday, that went ok and even though there was alot of eye contact i wouldnt say there was much flirting but i got the impression she was kind of shy. at the end of the night i drove her home and had a little chat in the car, she got out and said "ok, thanks i will see you later" i said/asked if she wanted to do something again and she said to text her and gave me a hug. now i text her earlier to see if she was up for doing something next week but havent heard a thing. she seemed shit hot at replying to messages from her friends so dont know whether i should just take the hint and leave it there
any thoughts?
Balaclava up and start checking her movements. Especially at night.
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Joe
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Leave it man. As uncle Paul said, don't text twice without reply!
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Andrew
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Just forget about her, plenty more out there. Let her text you now..
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Jay
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Two dates in a couple of years? Jesus thats a drought by any means
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Ojc
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Originally posted by Hammer
I'd never send 2 texts without reply with a bird I'd met once, texts don't go randomly missing or get ignored in my experience.
This one, if no reply to first text don't bother to text again.
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K17STY
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Please, you have text her once dont do it again. if she was interested she would have text by now. Next!..............
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Jenko_Sport
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Hug by second date, i usually bed them after the first!
Bed them first time round and then if it does go tits up uve atleast got something out of it.
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C2RL R
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delete her number dude. that's the best thing to do as for some reason you get satisfaction out of fucking people off out of your phonebook. also you wont end up texting her when drunk at the weekend.
just thought of another - if you delete her and she does eventually get back to you, you'll be able to use the old "who's this?" reply which will make you feel even better!
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johnhara1
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quote:
Originally posted by Kevxx
keep texting every 15 mins  then start with voicemails
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willay
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quote:
Originally posted by Kevxx
keep texting every 15 mins then start with voicemails
this.
Seriously though, leave it!
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Tommy L
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How long has it been since you text her? If its a couple of hours don't worry
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Dione J
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Originally posted by Eck
Go round her house and burn your name into her garden.
Epic
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GF-91
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at some of the replies.
but seriously, text her once more, if no reply, leave it and move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.
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Ojc
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Girls get far too much attention these days from idiots on Facebook so you texting her and annoying her will probably end up as her status update
"Mary Rottencrotch is getting fed up with being pestered by text messages"
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Corsa_Quadz
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Fuck her best mate tbhimo 
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fazza
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Originally posted by Corsa_Quadz
Fuck her best mate tbhimo
then send her a pic of her mate gobbling your man meat 
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_Allan_
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Originally posted by jake
sand, she just hugged me, although my last date i got a hug and peck on the cheek - that also went no where
I sense a pattern here, you must have potential for the other team. Fancy some bum fun?
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Jake
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all valid points, except for Allans . i think i will leave it. can always rely on cs for a reality check, cheers for the comments!
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Tommy L
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i think you need one these Jake
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlKwuPpUeGo
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Tom
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How do you know she's not busy
If she wants to text she will, although I'd suggest that much akwardness/tension isn't a good sign!
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Half Pint
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i think he must give off the 'i've not been on a date' vibe and for that reason they know any female contact will make you explode.... make sure you 'bang the drum' before the next date
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Sam
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I would just leave it. If she is still interested she will text you back.
Just wank off to some porn until your next date (either with her or someone else).
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Eck
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quote:
Originally posted by Sam
I would just leave it. If she is still interested she will text you back.
Just wank off to some porn until your next date (either with her or someone else).
I can't imagine having one bodybuilders arm with a skinless palm to be attractive to the next person.
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Jake
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nearly a thousand views for this. classic..
I dont think i dont much wrong on the date to be fair, i think i would have scared her off being too forward. just one of those things i suppose
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