Shell
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I was 14 when my dad started shagging a 24 year old. He told her he had 3 kids aged 10 8 and 6. The reality was my sister was 20, brother was 18 and I was 14  (brother and sister aren't his though). I hated her with an absolute passion, she had absolutely no clue how to act or behave. I was a nightmare at that age and she got a lot of the teenage angst aimed at her She stuck around for 7 years though so kudos to her
[Edited on 20-09-2011 by Shell]
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J4M13
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VrsTurbo You my friend friend are an immature prick.
djgritt - tbh I think moving into a relationship with a girl where the dad of the kid(s) is stil involved your more than likely not going to be liked I had the mrs ex threatening to stab me and everything and going crazy about me potentially bringing up his kids. - hadn't even spoke a word to him at this point! - expected it and just ignored him and he eventually chilled out once he knew I was there for the right reasons.
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adiohead
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damaged goods
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mwg
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C-section
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3CorsaMeal
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depends, sometimes (most of the times) i look at single parents and blame them for making a bad decision.
lots of the under 30yr olds with kids i know, i end up thinking its their fault for dating a dickhead.
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Kerry
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My mum actually said that to me
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Cole
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Yup me took on 2 kids 5yrs ago when they were 5 and 10 best thing I ever did they now see me as more of a dad than their real dad who hasn't once paid any csa in 8yrs since my missus and him divorced have since had another and we have one on the way and not once have I seen it as a problem as I had known them since birth anyway
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Ojc
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Not an issue at all, this is the 21st century. Infact its great I've someone the same mental age as me.
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pow
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quote:
Originally posted by Cole
Yup me took on 2 kids 5yrs ago when they were 5 and 10 best thing I ever did they now see me as more of a dad than their real dad who hasn't once paid any csa in 8yrs since my missus and him divorced have since had another and we have one on the way and not once have I seen it as a problem as I had known them since birth anyway
FFS Cole some punctuation
I don't think I'd have an issue with dating someone who has a young kid as I get on with kids well.
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Bobber123
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my ex had a 3 year old when i got with her, we lived together and it was all pretty decent, she had not had a stable relationship with anyone before, especially the father of her child. Anyway, after about 6 months she met someone else, started sleeping with him, then he fucked her off and in the same week she started shagging his best mate.. he then moved in a week later and took over where about 4 other people have been since her son was born, i feel really sorry for the kid as its just one person after the other. i think it can work if the situation is right.. however, if there is a crazy parent of said child still involved it is only going to end in disaster.
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Cole
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What's punctuation can't be arsed lol
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Robo C20Let
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Personally I couldnt anyone who has a take my hat off to them. I would find it hard because ...I can't really explain I look at my dad and see me in him and I would want to see myself in my children (don't be perverted). It's a hard subject but I could not do it.
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Lynny
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Anyone started a relationship where other person/their ex has just found out they're pregnant?
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mwg
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You have by the sound of it Best off getting out of it now in that case.
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adiohead
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Probably not his anyway. DNA test burgle burgle bombasquat
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VrsTurbo
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i would find her and push her down some stairs. Problem fixed
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by VrsTurbo
i would find her and push her down some stairs. Problem fixed
If you don't have anything constructive to say, don't bother mate
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3CorsaMeal
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i wouldn't take on someone elses kids and also modify the culprits car for her as well.
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3CorsaMeal
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i don't what sort of answer you are looking for with this thread, quite a specific situation, and love isn't like a haynes manual
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adiohead
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She's gone out and got pregnant to try and win him back. AmIrightOrAmIright?
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Graham88
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I couldn't do it personally, but fair play to anyone who does, big decision to live with.
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mwg
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The cuplrit Are you trying to get Ojc to delete you off facebook?
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makincorsac
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i was brought up by a step-dad he's been the best dad in the world... ive never wanted for anything.. i even changed my surname to his by deedpole when i turned 16.. i suppose it can be rewarding but my dad has worked extra hard to make it work
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adiohead
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quote:
Originally posted by makincorsac
ive never wanted for anything..
not even to be gang raped by a room full of sexy ladies? 
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makincorsac
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quote:
Originally posted by adiohead
quote:
Originally posted by makincorsac
ive never wanted for anything..
not even to be gang raped by a room full of sexy ladies?
would be cool that lol...
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