Ryan
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You won't change somebody's attitude. Bail out asap.
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Tomnova16
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Not my idea of a relationship
http://www.lemass.co.uk/ for all your automotive/bodyshop needs
Located in Chalfont st Peter
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corsa_sean
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It sounds like she is taking you for a fool bud i wouldnt put up with it fair enough we all need a night off from kiddie duties but if she is doing it on a regular basis then i would sit down with her expalin that it isnt acceptable and that either you both go out or your gone thank you and have a nice life
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Toby
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Mad to Grid = Get Rid.
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John
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This is the most council thread I've seen in a while 
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Ian W
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I'd be getting rid personally.
What is she doing until 5am 
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Steve
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Sitting on someone elses face
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A2H GO
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quote:
Originally posted by John
This is the most council thread I've seen in a while
the fact that it was normal your Mrs was nipping the local on her own in the first place is probably the strangest thing about the whole situation.
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Ronson
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I'd get rid tbh she is taking the piss, as someone said shes probably enjoying freedom after having to bring kids up but she should have some respect and come home at a decent time, as rude as it is to say she probably is taking a length off someone else.
Get rid before its too late!
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Twitch
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If you did the same chances are she wil fly off the handle and break up with you. It sounds great that you trust her out for that long pissed up but she is just taking advantage of you. things wont change. better to be rid before the kids are too dependant on you and before you know it you are only there to look after them. My mrs is really agressive when drug ( Only to me ) And i said to her if it happens again im out and since then she doesn't get hammered when out and we have a really nice time. From the sounds of it tho she wont have the same attitude
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taylorboosh
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Lol id deffo do the weekend away thing
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taylorboosh
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Also pics?
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AlexSXI
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Registered: 10th Jan 08
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Get rid.
Using you for childcare and affecting your relationship with your family, who will always be there but she won't!
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FlaFFy_91
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quote:
Originally posted by SVM 286
Do it to her Rich.
Plan a long weekend with the boys.
Tell her you're popping to the pub for a couple of hours on Thursday evening.
Go out.
And then come back on Tuesday 
This this this and this
See how she likes it.
Or just man up and fuck her off.
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Generation
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Registered: 7th Jul 09
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Do it back once. See how she responds. Ten say she does the same.
See if she does it again, if so steal her things and leave her
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bigboykarl
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so you lot actually let your bitches out of the kitchen???
certainly not old skool
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corsadonk
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Get rid.
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Sunz
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quote:
Originally posted by Ryan
You won't change somebody's attitude. Bail out asap.
Yeah she wont change and you'll just go around in circles dealing with her stressing you all the time and making your like a bit shit really.
Sounds like she's mentally still 15 years old. 
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Butler
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quote:
Originally posted by SVM 286
quote:
Originally posted by micra_pete
http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/no-answer.gif
Exactly this
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p
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quote:
Originally posted by richc
I just want someones view point on this as im struggling to get my head around it;
Just to set the scene. My other half is 26 with two children from previous. One is 5 who has some form of behavior issues and the other is 2.
She has a history of nipping for a drink and not coming back until 5-7am. I don't have a problem with her staying out, its just I would like to know prior, especially as I work Saturday mornings and don't want it to inter fear with that. It has done before and I have missed time at work because of it.
Football was coming on last night and she says 'Ill nip across the pub (which is approximately 50 meters away) whilst the game is on. Are you ok to put the kids to bed?'.
'Yeh no problem' I replied.
The younger child is no problem as went straight to bed. The older wouldn't and kept getting up and coming down stairs and wouldn't listen. I was getting pretty mad and told his mum on the phone, who I thought would of maybe come across and sorted the issue but nothing. She just talked about how hard it is....great help I thought.
Anyway,11 o clock comes and I get a text ' Not be long, just finishing my drink i'm not doing my usual lol xx'
'Fair enough, Ill wait for you' I replied.
'Its all about trust' her answer was.
Anyway, time goes on, I think well ill get in bed and wait. 1 o clock comes, two o clock comes, 3 o clock comes. Nothing. I ring, text, and get nothing.
3.30 am and I haven't slept a wink worrying, 'Im fine z'
4 comes, 4.30, and I still haven't slept and still not more contact.
She eventually poles in at 5.05 am and she goes 'you ok' like nothing has happened and started having a go when I said no
All I got was 'whats your problem' and remarks to that effect, or 'Am i not allowed to go out' 
I cant get my head around it. I ended up storming out and going to Mac donalds.
What makes it worse my mum has fell out with all my family, defending her saying she is a nice girl and all the rest of the family hate her. Two days later she does this again.
I had someone who was virtually EXACTLY the same as this. Minus the kids etc
But, did exactly the same thing. Would come in and then be the one to have a go at me!!!!! Like it was me who did the wrong thing!!! AND, if I did something like that, she'd get real annoyed as well! Hypocritical twat.  
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taylorboosh
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If my mrs had got in at that time id 100% cgeck for cum
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Aaron
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I've read the original post but none of the replies.
I guess i aren't the first to say or think this, but.....DITCH THE BITCH. Do you honestly see yourself spending the rest of your life (or even the foreseeable future tbh) with someone like that?
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SVM 286
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Have you considered breaking her jaw with a bat the next time she rolls in utterly trashed 'from the pub' at 7am?
And then denying all knowledge of the incident when she comes round at whatever time. Telling her she came home looking like that. 
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spencer88
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Cunt Punt.
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1_Litre_Porsche_Beater
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Getting juiced by half the pub IMO
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