Cole
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its easy mate I got married last sat completely made a mess of my speech even said really proud of my mrs for trimming her sef down lol
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Baskey
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Registered: 31st May 06
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All of you are missing the point. No man wants to get married its a girl thing, they fucking love it.
I thought I would reward my girlfriend for years of putting up with my shit and letting me shag her all the time.
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Generation
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Registered: 7th Jul 09
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Just stereotypes. Plenty of men want to get married. If hey don't, they're even more under the thumb than imagined
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--ToM--
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Registered: 23rd Nov 07
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I don't want to get married to my parnter, iv told her this aswell and she's not fussed, we're happy, we have a lovely son, who has my surname, we have a mortgage and joint accounts all that lark, just don't have rings on our finger and a certificate to say otherwise.
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VegasPhil
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Congratulations 
Mine is next June. Struggle to be enthusiastic about the build up. I'm sure I will like it on the day though!
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VegasPhil
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Originally posted by --ToM--
I don't want to get married to my parnter, iv told her this aswell and she's not fussed, we're happy, we have a lovely son, who has my surname, we have a mortgage and joint accounts all that lark, just don't have rings on our finger and a certificate to say otherwise.
We had this. I felt a bit mean in the end that she doesn't have our surname. Plus whatever they say, a wedding day I s always a big thing for a girl.
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Gaz
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Best of luck for tomorrow. Please take this advice though, the day will go extremely fast, quicker than any other day of your life. Take time out throughout the day to reflect on whats just happened, usually in the transitioning steps of the day (from church/registry to pictures to night to bed or whatever the plan is)
It's the best day however remember its all about her, she is the main attraction and you simply need to follow suit and look great along side her.
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bigron1988
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Registered: 29th Aug 09
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Mine in next May payed for honeymoon today ,scary how much it all adds up to , didn't think it would cost half as much as it has
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Gaz
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Originally posted by bigron1988
Mine in next May payed for honeymoon today ,scary how much it all adds up to , didn't think it would cost half as much as it has
to this day I still haven't asked the wife to tot up all the costs occurred through fear of collapsing.
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--ToM--
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Registered: 23rd Nov 07
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Originally posted by VegasPhil
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Originally posted by --ToM--
I don't want to get married to my parnter, iv told her this aswell and she's not fussed, we're happy, we have a lovely son, who has my surname, we have a mortgage and joint accounts all that lark, just don't have rings on our finger and a certificate to say otherwise.
We had this. I felt a bit mean in the end that she doesn't have our surname. Plus whatever they say, a wedding day I s always a big thing for a girl.
It'll happen one day If she puts up with me for long enough, and our son, who takes after me so much she's taking a dislike to him too haha, just seems at the moment we have bigger priorities that a wedding, one day......
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Generation
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Registered: 7th Jul 09
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I hate the friends and family that bang on how you have to get married soon, we did at your age etc etc.
Great, should we also synchronise sex, and blowjobs too?
Fuck off
[Edited on 31-07-2015 by Generation]
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--ToM--
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Ben G
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 generation, love it. May use that line next time her parents bang on about it
If we ever do get married, it'll be abroad and no, my council scum cousins won't be getting an invite.
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spencer88
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Me and the Mrs spoke about this the other day.
She's decided were getting married abroad. Said I don't care l, less of her family come then, and I don't have to talk to as many people 
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Cole
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I only got married so I could go to vegas on honeymoon tbh
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Generation
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Needed an excuse to go to Vegas with your partner? Seems strange?
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Baskey
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dosnt seem strange to me
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A1EX
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The gf keeps making hints, also being 32 i probably shouldnt leave it too much longer for my first marriage  However itd be a right pain in the arse, both my parents live in Thailand but dont get along, her mother doesnt speak English, i dont get along with the father too well, my other relatives and friends are in the UK, would be an absolute nightmare. I think eloping to Vegas is the best option 
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Cole
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quote:
Originally posted by Generation
Needed an excuse to go to Vegas with your partner? Seems strange?
No only way we could justify the cost and as we have 4 kids if we were going to have a holiday without them we were gonna go somewhere we probably will never go again
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Kyle T
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Got married yesterday, was bricking it too but the day went really well.
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ShEp
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Went really well, speech went down well too, don't know what I was worried about
The day does go extremely fast, we had an excellent photographer, who took us away for a breather and some nice location shots.
May post some up if anyone is interested.
We really had the perfect day, nothing I would change about it
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Graham88
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Congrats guys, so many weddings happening this year it's crazy, 2 friends got married on Saturday aswell.
People saying it's all for the women, I agree until you get involved and start planning. It was one of the most enjoyable days of my life and I would relive it in an instant if I could. So glad we got it video'd as I've lost count of how many times I've watched the DVD!
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baza31
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Originally posted by Ben G
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Originally posted by baza31
I think the people who don't understand marriage are people that have never found the right person.
Like me
In the modern world, is there really any need for marriage? Besides Facebook likes, of course.
Been managing perfectly fine with my missus in our house without a piece of paper telling me some kiddly fiddler agrees to our last names matching and some other reigious bullshit
I don't think people get married for facebook likes or religious bullshit. What's wrong with it? Like someone said above it's about bringing them into your family.
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Steve
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I reckon loads of people these days get married for Facebook likes.
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Dee25790
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Originally posted by Steve
I reckon loads of people these days get married for Facebook likes.
Yeah one day I hope to spend twenty grand so I can have loads of Facebook likes.
I thought that was everyone's plan?
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