corsasport.co.uk
  Not logged in [Login - Register]  
You Are Not Registered Or Not Logged In  

Corsa Sport » Message Board » Off Day » I dunno what to do....


New Topic
New Poll 		  <<  1    2  >> Subscribe | Add to Favourites

You are not logged in and may not post or reply to messages. Please log in or create a new account or mail us about fixing an existing one - register@corsasport.co.uk

There are also many more features available when you are logged in such as private messages, buddy list, location services, post search and more.


Author I dunno what to do....
Ally
Member
Registered: 2nd Jul 03
Location: Pontypool Drives: a Skoda
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 09:03   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
I don't think asking this type of question is really relevant, at the end of the day everyone is different.

If i got pregnant now, and i could afford to keep and raise a child then i would.
Sam
Moderator
Premium Member

Registered: 24th Dec 99
Location: West Midlands
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 09:16   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Craig6682
Member
Registered: 8th Apr 03
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 15:24   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
We have had a long chat, her head is all over the place and she doesn't know whether she wants it or not. To me it has not been planed but i'm getting used to the idea. I want her to keep the baby and have told her this and that i will be there 100% but she is unsure. We have only been an item for just over 2 months but we have been good friends for over 5 years. Basically this has only been mine and her serious relationship and I think i do love her.
Blondie!
Member
Registered: 28th Aug 03
Location: Dundee
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 15:41   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
If you love her and she loves you...talk to each other...

You still have time to make up your mind as to whether you'll get rid of the baby or not but 1 thing...Having an abortion can affect her chances of getting pregnant again in the future.

Talk to each other and see if you are both willing to give up WHATEVER it takes...if so then keep the baby. (Remember this is a baby not an IT!!!)
Steve
Premium Member

Avatar

Registered: 30th Mar 02
Location: Worcestershire Drives: Defender
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 15:42   View Garage View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
poke a knitting needle in her fanny
Ben
Banned
Registered: 12th Jan 03
Location: West Yorkshire
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:06   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Boyrac3r
My girlfriend phoned me early hours and told me she is pregnant. I just didn't know what to say, i was asking her how it happened etc as we were careful. I've been up all night just thinking about it but i really dunno what to do. I just don't have the time to for a baby, i don't even think i could afford to keep a baby. I'm going to go around to hers and tell her i will stand by her as it is the right thing to do. It's just such a big shock!


i fucked up at 16 and nrly had 1, too close to comfort! oh and the reason she is pregnant is becoz u didnt glove up




dunno whether to congrat u or feel sorry for ya !
Steve
Premium Member

Avatar

Registered: 30th Mar 02
Location: Worcestershire Drives: Defender
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:07   View Garage View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Steve106GTi
poke a knitting needle in her fanny
Ally
Member
Registered: 2nd Jul 03
Location: Pontypool Drives: a Skoda
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:08   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Steve your like an all powerfull fountain of knowledge

all hail.
Steve
Premium Member

Avatar

Registered: 30th Mar 02
Location: Worcestershire Drives: Defender
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:10   View Garage View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
yes i feel your glasses in ur avatar resemble dame edna's
Steve
Premium Member

Avatar

Registered: 30th Mar 02
Location: Worcestershire Drives: Defender
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:12   View Garage View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
do u wish to see my todger?
Ally
Member
Registered: 2nd Jul 03
Location: Pontypool Drives: a Skoda
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:12   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Oh yesh.
Steve
Premium Member

Avatar

Registered: 30th Mar 02
Location: Worcestershire Drives: Defender
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:13   View Garage View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
look on my forehead then
Ben
Banned
Registered: 12th Jan 03
Location: West Yorkshire
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 18:35   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Adam-D
Member
Registered: 11th May 02
Location: Cheshire
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 19:15   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
Darren M
Member
Registered: 22nd Mar 01
Location: Luton : Drives : Vectra B Sri
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 19:16   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
To be honest your all bang out of order...

firstly mate you should post such a serious on a fcuking CORSASPORT web site.

you need to think about this very carefully do not rush into anything take your time and talk to your girlfriend ALOT, be honest and ask eachother what you want to happen.

your life will change forever..you can forget about yourself for a few years cos your LIFE will be this little boy or girl.

This is from personnal experience and imho
Good luck to ya mate,
Darren M
Member
Registered: 22nd Mar 01
Location: Luton : Drives : Vectra B Sri
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 19:17   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Steve106GTi
poke a knitting needle in her fanny


not really funny mate grow the fcuk up
Adam-D
Member
Registered: 11th May 02
Location: Cheshire
User status: Offline
2nd Oct 03 at 19:28   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
my mate is preggers 3 months today
she's happy with it
her b/f was a dick about it
now they have split
tbh the stuff he said i cudnt belive
pillock
but she's ok now
Craig6682
Member
Registered: 8th Apr 03
User status: Offline
3rd Oct 03 at 06:22   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
All i can do is be there for her and chat about it. She was on the pill so i dunno what happened and she doesn't. Although it was not planned i wanna keep the baby. Until we work out what to do we will just have to carry on as normal as we haven't told are parents yet. I duuno what her parents will say but mine should be OK with it. Gotta go to work now.
Jason Iles
Member
Registered: 19th Jun 01
Location: Bristol
User status: Offline
3rd Oct 03 at 07:17   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Boyrac3r
My girlfriend phoned me early hours and told me she is pregnant. I just didn't know what to say, i was asking her how it happened etc as we were careful. I've been up all night just thinking about it but i really dunno what to do. I just don't have the time to for a baby, i don't even think i could afford to keep a baby. I'm going to go around to hers and tell her i will stand by her as it is the right thing to do. It's just such a big shock!


Main thing is to stick together, if you are unsure about the baby try and talk it through and come to a decision.
If you both keep it, then you will always find time and money it won't be easy though, but the little one will be depending on the pair of you.

Good luck with what ever you do buddy.

  <<  1    2  >>
New Topic
New Poll

Corsa Sport » Message Board » Off Day » I dunno what to do.... 22 database queries in 0.0191741 seconds