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Originally posted by SetH

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ski


u dont seem 2 give a shite that a girl lost her life?

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I was going to ask what happened to her but didnt want to be insensitive, although if he tells us what happened then you probably will see that he does care. Maybe its too upsetting to talk about?

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Originally posted by SKI
basically i still see her every day, i didnt even know the girl and wasnt allowed at the funeral, which i dint think i would but hard to show you are sorry, which you cant even put into words, only if you been in the situation you know what its like, you have no control over it and its worse that i neverknew her, was friends friend. every day i wish it was me and not her dead and that she didnt deserve in the slightest. she was only 16 and had one gcse left and was going to get a bikini because she was going on holiday to ibiza about a week after the crash. the hospital is been investigated with her death her because she was improving. but still my fault shes in there, and theres also the fact she might have been disabled or even worse a vegetable and had no kind of life anyway, sp theres conflicting thoughts that because she died eased some pained for her, but you feel guilty for thiking that way and seeing her best friend grief every day doesnt ease it at all and then you hear stories os it never eases at all and always on the surfacee. and i cant imagine what her family are like. i met them in the hospital, i went to see them all as was the right thing to do and wanted to see if i could help in anyway but they said they would let me , basically it hurts right down to the core of my soul, if thats an easier way tsay, but thought that would bore everyone and not really what people wanted to hear and just bare details

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Originally posted by SKI
oh i understand why people say things, they presum im some sort of boy racer who was larking about and thinking that im indestrctable and a tosser...nothign could be further, them kind of people piss me off, because more often than not they hurt someon else and not themselves. but i hope this teaches a few people things at teh same time, it has my mates around here, a lot have slowed down and more causious then they was before

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Originally posted by LoudCorsa
i dont think that you can be held responsible for passengers actions once they are older than 16 anyway - surely it was their choice to get in tthe car with to many people and you didnt force them into it? - it is terrible that someone died but lets be honest the fact you were going 75/80 prolly didnt make a huge difference as a gatso prolly wouldnt have even gone off had you gone through one at that speed on a a/m road - in hindsight you may have been better hitting the car infront but its impossible to say - i nearly did the same kindof thing in my saxo down the a127 - someone pulled out into the fast lane doing litterally about 30mph as someone in the slow lane was turning off and i was doing like 70 and my furios brakes were a bit funky and i swerved and flew all over the place and just managed not to hit anything (had i dont then i can imagine it would have been bad - especially in a saxo) but the person who pulled out had the audacity to FLASH me! - i can kind of relate to your situation tho (obviously without the fatalaty) and see how just cruising along minding your own business can instantly become a problem thanks to some mongaloid driver not paying attention

in cinclusion i feel that whilst terrible that it was not your fault that the girl died and it would be harsh to do jail time for it, but when has the voice of reason had anything to do with anything - sorry bud

chaz

http://www.woah.co.uk

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