Tom
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Nope only with you my darling 
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Juni0r
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Yeap!!
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Half Pint
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Tom,
Just talk to her !
My ex flirted and cheated on me several times even with a relative which resulted in a punch up, i forgave her cos i thought she was sorry and i was soo stupid.
Got me new bird now and am trying not to let the past get the better of me, so i decided to talk to her about it and she can see my point and has been really understanding about it.
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vibrio
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Originally posted by Tom D
My bird works in an office full of young people and she is always going on nights out with them, i'm talking once or twice a week  (her best mate works with her also) but i'm talking loads of lads too and my byatch is very pretty and she's starting to make me wonder what she gets up to, I know she likes to flirt, and i reckon she gets her kicks from going out with them all and flirting, i don't think she'd do anyfin but it's pissing me off the fact that she's so fookin friendly with them
what shud I say (considering shes a moody bastard about it :lol
pretend to go out with girls from your work but really go round to a mates house
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Foz
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hahaha Vibs is obviously experienced in this field.
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Tom
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No I have spoken to her about it b4, she sayd she understands but you know how relationships get after a bit of a drought of fun 
I'm gonna make a real effort, i dont think shes dun anything and it'll just wind her up if I say anything (she's like a bomb  and very arrogant).
Shall just have to see, but cheers for that mate
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Half Pint
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make an effort but don't throw money at the situation, i tried this and in the space of 4 months cleared over £700 in presents that included christmas. for her to cheat on me with a girl and for a blokes number to appear in her phone when she went out.
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corsa5dr
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Hey tracey, im in a long distance relationship too now. Ive been with my Girlfriend for 10 months, and she went off to uni about 2 months ago.
Ive gone from seeing her every day to every other week, its hard for sure; shes 2 hours away from me in Plymouth
I was quite worried at first that we'd drift apart but i aint worried at all now really, i know she loves me and i do trust her. And 3 years is only a relatively small amount of time as i could see myself spening the reat of my life with her.
She's a bit of a flirt really but i aint too bothered now, i know she wouldnt cheat on me. Its hard being apart but like the saying goes 'Absense makes the heart grow fonder' And it does definitely, its amzing when we see each other.
Im sure if your bloke really loves you he wont cheat on you, and if he did then he's not the man for you
As for tom, i reckon you should talk to her about it. Deffo dont spy or youll be asking for a slap  Hopefully she'll see where ur coming from.
It winds me up when my girlfriend is flirty, and im quite protective and short tempered but i try not to let it bother me, as i know she loves me
Regards
The love doc
[Edited on 21-10-2003 by corsa5dr]
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Tracey
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But how do you know if they're not cheating on you
thats the thing
if they are- then i obviously dont wanna be with em
but if you think they are etc etc and you end up having arguments and fallings out and end up splitting up for this reason
then youve lost somethgin for nothing
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corsa5dr
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Well i just know, trust innit I used to get paranoid "what if she is? " but theres no fucking way she would. Dont think about ' What if?' cos its just gonna worry you and youll just get pissed off and unhappy, aint worth worrying about.
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Tracey
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corsa5dr
I lOve you man
*wipes tear form eye*
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Leo
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quote:
Originally posted by Tasty_Tracey
errm anybody else had a long distance relationship
Having one now
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Tracey
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quote:
Originally posted by Leo
quote:
Originally posted by Tasty_Tracey
errm anybody else had a long distance relationship
Having one now
how far
tell me about it
poor your heart out
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corsa5dr
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Love you too
Im sure youll keep hold of your man
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Tracey
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quote:
Originally posted by corsa5dr
Love you too
Im sure youll keep hold of your man
i feel a song coming on
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Mistamist
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quote:
Originally posted by corsa5dr
As for tom, i reckon you should talk to her about it. Deffo dont spy or youll be asking for a slap Hopefully she'll see where ur coming from.
[Edited on 21-10-2003 by corsa5dr]
so true..........get someone else to do it for you!!
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Andy
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quote:
Originally posted by Tasty_Tracey
errm anybody else had a long distance relationship
Yes - once the novelty wears off (and it will) it's sh1te
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Tracey
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quote:
Originally posted by Andy
quote:
Originally posted by Tasty_Tracey
errm anybody else had a long distance relationship
Yes - once the novelty wears off (and it will) it's sh1te
language young man
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Andy
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So sweet - that's the first time in ages I've been called young
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Tracey
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Originally posted by Andy
So sweet - that's the first time in ages I've been called young
MwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaH.xxxxxxxxx
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Andy
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Appropriate name you have there BTW x
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Lynny
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
My bird works in an office full of young people and she is always going on nights out with them, i'm talking once or twice a week (her best mate works with her also) but i'm talking loads of lads too and my byatch is very pretty and she's starting to make me wonder what she gets up to, I know she likes to flirt, and i reckon she gets her kicks from going out with them all and flirting, i don't think she'd do anyfin but it's pissing me off the fact that she's so fookin friendly with them
what shud I say (considering shes a moody bastard about it :lol
i go out at least once a week with everyone from my work (mainly lads) and its totally innocent, id never cheat on my fella! we're all really friendly towards eachother coz we are good mates, its the way we go on, but nothing would ever happen. u jst gota trust her mate, its quite common
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