Kerry
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yes i am beginnin to get the feeling he isnt that arsed
at the end of the day he cant fancy me all that much kus he would want to see me when ever he could. he just says he is tired 
thing wot irritates me is he will say things like "wish i was with u now" or "cant wait to see u" and i am beginnin to think just fuck off kus if u really meant that u would do it
i dont want to say anything kus i have only known him a couple of months so i think il just call it a day and find someone who cares
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Shelly
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just leave him to it, ignore him for a while and he'll come running
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Sam
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If he's bothered that is, Shelly.
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Kerry
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god im a mardy cow 
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Joff
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If he's tired then he could always come over and just slob out round yours - it's not as if you've got him doing laps of your garden when he's over (or do you??).
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OFcorsa
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sam and shelly have a point. make or break time.
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Kerry
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he said he would come see me for an hour on sunday i told him i was busy
thing is he is workin all week which i can understand but on fri and sat he finishes at 6 all he had to do was say il take u out somewhere one of those nights and i would of been happy
i mentioned it this morn and he said he would try and swap shifts on fri and finish early to see me but the way i see it i shouldnt have to say anythin he should of thought of that
but then he is a man 
[Edited on 26-11-2003 by Kerry]
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Shelly
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tell him u will make his tea, he'll be round then
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Nismo
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3/4/5 times a week
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OFcorsa
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Kerry - the man staement is very true, i am never that thoughtful....unfortunatley. I always end up getting a bollcoking then i realise sumthing is wrong.
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Kerry
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i should just quit moanin shouldnt i and be grateful
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OFcorsa
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No it is called venting frustration. I do it occasionally. also your are seeking advice. so i feel you have done a good job.
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Sam
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quote:
Originally posted by OFcorsa
No it is called venting frustration. I do it occasionally. also your are seeking advice. so i feel you should give me a hand job.
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Tom
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see d byatch tuesday and thrusday nights then either friday night or saturday and sunday, so I still get 2 nights out in the week out with mates and 1 big night on the weekend we agreed this from the start or I wud have killed her by now  (well I told her that's how it is )
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Gareth.O
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I am about to embark on a long distance relationship if I get the job I'm going for 
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Kerry
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yeh we said at that start nothin serious see wot happens and i made it clear my weekends are always busy with me bein limited durin the week
i told him i wanted someone i could cuddle up to infront of the tv and u know  durin the week and he agreed. we could even go out together midweek but he never asks. oh i tell a lie i went out one monday, student night, was quite a laff actually
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Tom
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me n the mrs never do nuffin really I really shud pull ma finger out shudn't I
Used to take her away for the weekend or out days shopping n stuff 
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Kerry
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom D
me n the mrs never do nuffin really I really shud pull ma finger out shudn't I
Used to take her away for the weekend or out days shopping n stuff
exactely in the begginin its always good. god if its shit now there is no hope
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Gareth.O
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I am about to embark on a long distance relationship if I get the job I'm going for
I'll elaborate
This will mean seeing my other half once every month or 2 months if I'm lucky
this scares me a lot
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Tom
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or the other way of looking at it is maybe he will learn to appreciate u and in the future will do things with u
I'm so lazy now been soo many places with the mrs just random hotels for one night 4 a laf, lake district 4 weekend, manchester shopping for weekend etc etc that's why I'm in sooo much debt 
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Shelly
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just tell him 7pm my house telly, sofa huggles night
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Kerry
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im not tellin him anythin if he wants me he can come an get me i aint chasing noone 
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Kerry
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quote:
Originally posted by Gareth.O
quote:
Originally posted by Gareth.O
I am about to embark on a long distance relationship if I get the job I'm going for
I'll elaborate
This will mean seeing my other half once every month or 2 months if I'm lucky
this scares me a lot
plenty more fish ure young and ure openin a whole new horizon
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Tom
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Dave_Gordon
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Tell him u want to start seein other people aswell as him and he will soon get his arse into gear. there is a possibilty he won't be arsed and then that is the time to fcuk him off.
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