Tom
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Yeah I don't think I am, never really said I'm not apart from now, I just admitted defeat cos' we didn't work
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Shelly
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I know, but you can't just stop loving someone just like that.
It's a combination of love and hate at the moment.
I'd still do anything for him and love to be with him.
But my mind is slowly coming round to the fact I might be better off with someone else.
Always believe that people can change though, mud never sticks with me.
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Tom
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Yeah 4sure, I feel the same shell, I realise ppl can change which is why I do still love her n not hate her, actually in some ways I wish we did break up in a nasty way 
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Robbo
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Yes, engaged for 15mths nearly  moving into a house soon
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Half Pint
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shelly i broke up with the love of my life last year, was enganeg and all that, only really just getting over her and thats after 14 months 
It takes time and it's bloody hard !
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Holly C
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quote:
Originally posted by Half Pint
shelly i broke up with the love of my life last year, was enganeg and all that, only really just getting over her and thats after 14 months
It takes time and it's bloody hard !
Why did you break up 
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Shelly
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breaking up is nasty anyway.
i think lads find it hard to communicate with their laydees.
with us, instead of talking and working out the problem, its all too easy to just do something like running off with someone else. no matter how much you hurt the other person, it doesnt matter cos they arent your concern anymore.
i hate feeling alone and just crying thinking of the memories, that is the hardest part. because i always believed i'd found my marriage material and was happy with that.
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Half Pint
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well she was doing exams for her dental nursing and also getting alot of grief off her mates cos they were single, telling her what she's missing out on. One night i put her on the spot and asked if she still loved me (this is after 3 years of engagement), and she said she didn't know anymore. I walked out and went to my mates and got totally wrecked, not been with her since that night. spoke to her since and she says she swould like another try but there is soo much that has happened that i couldn't go there again and it's hard but getting better daily
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Half Pint
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Shelly it works both ways in life there are loads of men and women who cannot discuss their feelings to others yet they feel that running is the best solution.
end result is someone getting hurt, but with 90% of relationships someone always gets hurt
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Holly C
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Well I still luv ya HP and Shelly your doing a great job of staying strong, were proud of you
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Half Pint
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x x x
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Chris@Speedfreex
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better to of loved and lost than never loved at all
my 2 pence worth
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Shelly
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i'm trying Holly, thanks
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Half Pint
well she was doing exams for her dental nursing and also getting alot of grief off her mates cos they were single, telling her what she's missing out on. One night i put her on the spot and asked if she still loved me (this is after 3 years of engagement), and she said she didn't know anymore. I walked out and went to my mates and got totally wrecked, not been with her since that night. spoke to her since and she says she swould like another try but there is soo much that has happened that i couldn't go there again and it's hard but getting better daily
Different for me cos' we both still love eachtoher but know it can't work well sh1t but i'm getting on with it and trying to not think of her like that anymore tis hard but worth it, she's put the nail in the coffin for the time being so there's no danger of getting back with her for a long time if ever, which is the hardest thing
Ah shit man letz all us recent breakupers' (yep it's a word  ) go and get laid and see how it goes
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Half Pint
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Th joke is Tom she says she still loved me and still does.
oh who gives a rats arse. I'm enjoying life meeting loads of new people and getting on with my career 
It's all good.
But there is always this little part of me that wants a settled loving relationship
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Holly C
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I dont think I've ever seen so many guys open up, it nice to see. At the end of the day love is great when you have it and heartbreaking when you dont. I luv ya all
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Half Pint
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Are there is plenty of love on the site.
come on all gather round big hug XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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Holly C
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BIG HUG BACK
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Half Pint
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Bigger HUG back
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Ned
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I don't believe in love.... used to but not anymore, its shit
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Holly C
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MEGA HUG BACK
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ruth
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well said Ned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Half Pint
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Can't beat that
Dam !
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Holly C
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quote:
Originally posted by Ned
I don't believe in love.... used to but not anymore, its shit
Why, what went wrong
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Half Pint
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quote:
Originally posted by ruth
well said Ned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
y did you delete your previous post ?
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