DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by CorsAsh
Being a bit overweight and fully obese are massively different things.
It's probably just as damaging to someone's health to restrict their diet to please someone else and endure the associated stress in order to please an overbearing partner.
But some people are submissive, if it works for her to be put down when she feels like eating some cake or her monthly hormones make her put a few pounds on, then good for her.
Overweight is the path to obesity, if your fat your fat - theres no level of fat thats really acceptable. i class myself as fat still as my abs arent showing yet but i still look better than the majority of people which just goes to show how unhealthy we are as a nation.
I dont overbear her or submiss her into pleasing me, her happiness is my greatest priority but shes only happy when she knows im happy with her, and if she thought i wasnt happy with her being a fatty she would be unhappy too, so me being happy that shes taking care of herself works in her favour as shes happy that shes doing good.
I dont put her down, and she tells me if im getting fat too - so it goes both ways. Id rather be told im a pork chop than left to grow lol
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BarnshaW
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while i would not go out with a fat bird i would also not go out with a girl with a ripped six pack. no way. slim , but theres nothing wrong at all with them NOT having a six pack
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Lawrah
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Melissa? Is that her name? Can we see some pics
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CorsAsh
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So it's all about you basically?
Underweight is the path to anorexia. You're reducing the scale to ridiculous levels.
I put weight on and lose it, but I'm healthy and happy. I don't need someone to tell me the moment I go over by a few pounds.
I just hope you don't come home to find her hanging somewhere after bottling up her worries and feeling like she's failed you every time you've told her she's fat.
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by K17STY
You can put weight on without getting fat.
What does your g/fs body currently look like? Is she as toned as the picture? Your coming across sounding like you want her to go to the gym to keep looking as she does, she could stop working out and be less toned and put weight on without being overweight. It also doesnt means shes fat.
Im about a stone heavier than I was 6 months ago because iv stopped riding ect so much, im not fat. Less toned yes and heavier but by no means fat, no one would even know im heavier. Does that make me lazy?
[Edited on 02-08-2009 by K17STY]
Its not the bodyweight that concerns me, i weigh 14 stone but only 10-12% bodyfat. Its excess bodyfat that worrys me. Did you know that fat around your midsection means you are 3 times more likely to develop that vagina cancer thing that i cant for the life of me remember the name of!
My mrs isnt 100% toned but she carrys her figure well:
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Lawrah
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 Is this girl fat to you?
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DizzyRebel
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how did you get that picture lol?
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N3CRO
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Originally posted by DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by K17STY
My mrs isnt 100% toned but she carrys her figure well:
Looks like she's gotta great body to me 
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BarnshaW
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is that you with her?
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DizzyRebel
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yes she has at the moment, but if she put on weight id tell her lol
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by BarnshaW
is that you with her?
yeah its a 2 year old photo before i started weight training 
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Jake
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"dont put on weight darlin otherwise you will get the cancer"
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Lawrah
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I found you on ze interweb
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DizzyRebel
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lol facebookin me.
Just to clear up this is me now lol:
[Edited on 02-08-2009 by DizzyRebel]
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BluKoo
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Originally posted by DizzyRebel
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v237/more_tea_vickar/Mates%20and%20muppets/23072008129-002.jpg
I've said this before, but she's a stunner.
[Edited on 02-08-2009 by BluKoo]
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BarnshaW
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is it all just about looks? why when i asked if it was you did you automatically say "before i started weight training" , i was just asking if that WAS actually you?
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by BarnshaW
is it all just about looks? why when i asked if it was you did you automatically say "before i started weight training" , i was just asking if that WAS actually you?
because i was expecting you to say afterwards something like 'well your not all that yourself' just some prior preparation lol
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BarnshaW
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lol. tbh i was guna say you were looking a bit skinny haha 
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by BarnshaW
lol. tbh i was guna say you were looking a bit skinny haha
Lol no, see the difference a bit of training and eating has done to me though. im far from vain, i just dont want to have skinny arms and a fat belly lol.
And just to clear thngs up - i dont think my mrs is fat, i think shes just about perfect hence why im with her as i settle for nothing less than the best. 
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Lawrah
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do you roid up?
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BarnshaW
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dont look like roids, looks like a photo after a workout though after its all pumped up
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DizzyRebel
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done a 12 week cycle of test enanthate, trenbolone enanthate, dianabol and winstrol but that was last year, and am planning another one for the end of the year.
Dont see the problem with it tbh, girls get plastic tits, fake lips, hair extensions etc. So me using hormones that are already presnt in my body - just in smaller numbers is hardly crime of the century.
Also, if you are on the birth control pill then you too abuse steroids as the birth control pill is a steroid. So whos worse, me for using them to aid in body composition or birds for using them to get shagged lol?
[Edited on 02-08-2009 by DizzyRebel]
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Jake
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thats the worst fucking argument for using steroids ive ever heard. your girlfriend has the right mind to tell you your traps are overproportioned
[Edited on 02-08-2009 by jake]
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BarnshaW
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so how much of that gain is actually from eating properly, how much did you gain before using steroids?
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Laney
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Where'd those attention plz pics go ...
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