CorsAsh
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Registered: 19th Apr 02
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Originally posted by a_j_mair
maybe you should stop calling her fat 
If you trust her then it's not a problem, but sounds like you don't and are therefore in trouble.
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kz
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Registered: 9th Aug 02
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I hate Facebook so much for stuff like this! Wish it was never invented tbh.
I reckon you should comment on everything the ex's do, just so they know you're watching
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jrsteeve
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Registered: 3rd Apr 02
Location: Manchester
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so what happened after the talk then? We need closure!
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Cosmo
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Registered: 29th Mar 01
Location: Im the real one!
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He got dumped.
He went the gym to pump some iron.
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Robbo
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Registered: 6th Aug 02
Location: London
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I had a msg yesetrday from an ex that ive not spoken to in about a year which took me a bit by surprise then just had one from my last ex, saying happy biurthday etc then wud have text you but no longer have your number
why do they have to say shite like that and why cant they just leave u alone fucking women
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mwg
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Registered: 19th Feb 04
Location: South Lakes
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Because they like to fuck with your head
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Ojc
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Registered: 14th Nov 00
Location: Reading: Drives : Clio 197
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My ex texts me at 1.15am to tell me she just heard a garage remix.
That was all I got.
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DizzyRebel
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Registered: 2nd Jan 09
Location: Lincoln
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Originally posted by jrsteeve
so what happened after the talk then? We need closure!
She wouldnt meet me for a talk because she thought i was going to finish her so had a big text message argument. Says shes not going to stop talking to her 'friends' and shes not going to change her relationship stus to being with me either, but im going to go and speak to her tonight anyway as ive a few other issues with her anyway that need sorting out. More than likely going to finish her if shes not going to take me into consideration!
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Dom
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Registered: 13th Sep 03
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Way to go batman, you sound like a right cunt! if she's not fucking them or getting "close" to them then why worry about it, just makes her think that you don't trust her......
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A1EX
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Registered: 29th Mar 00
Location: Turku, Finland
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tbh you've played right into these guys hands
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Daimo B
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Registered: 20th Mar 00
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My partner is respectful enough not to add ex's even though they have requested (she let me know anyway, im not arsed, I have trust).
Likewise for me, i respect my partner, so would not add an ex.
Really don't see the point in wanting to know how an ex is doing, who she is with, and what mug shes got to have a baby with  Thats why its an ex.........
I reckon is zose ster-oids making his willy smaller 
[Edited on 28-08-2009 by VXR]
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DizzyRebel
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Registered: 2nd Jan 09
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All over facebook though, if she said to me stop talking to my ex's and put her as my partner on facebook i would do it without a moan or a peep.... i really dont see what the big deal is? Im only asking for unnecessary people to be told to do one and for her relationship status box to be used as is intended?
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DizzyRebel
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Registered: 2nd Jan 09
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
My partner is respectful enough not to add ex's even though they have requested (she let me know anyway, im not arsed, I have trust).
Likewise for me, i respect my partner, so would not add an ex.
Really don't see the point in wanting to know how an ex is doing, who she is with, and what mug shes got to have a baby with Thats why its an ex.........
I reckon is zose ster-oids making his willy smaller
[Edited on 28-08-2009 by VXR]
Thats what im like, i respect her enough and am grown up enough not to put her in the position in the first place.
Ps my dick is already small, its my balls that shrink on gear, so everything looks in proportion now
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Ojc
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Registered: 14th Nov 00
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You lot are weird insecure creatures.
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Hammer
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Registered: 11th Feb 04
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quote:
Originally posted by mwg
Because they like to fuck with your head
Word.
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DizzyRebel
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Registered: 2nd Jan 09
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The best defence is a good offence: identify your threats and take them out before they get a chance to attack you.
Why let something as simple as an add on facebook snowball into a broken relationship if you could stop it happening?
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Cosmo
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Registered: 29th Mar 01
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How about nipping the paranoia and lack of trust in the bud before that turns into a relationship ender?
[Edited on 28-08-2009 by Cosmo]
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Daimo B
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
You lot are weird insecure creatures.
You were there once
im the weed smoker, i should be the paranoid one.....
[Edited on 28-08-2009 by VXR]
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Shell
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Registered: 14th Oct 08
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Thing is, it's sounding like you have let it snowball. I totally understand where you're coming from, but when I saw this thread days ago that is exactly how I pictured your mrs to react. End of the day, she's with you, not them. When she did get with them, she wasn't with you. But you say they are constantly at her, which is probably the reason why she went to them for a rebound. They were there and more than willing. I'd question if any real feeling came into it.
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Ojc
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Registered: 14th Nov 00
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quote:
Originally posted by VXR
quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
You lot are weird insecure creatures.
You were there once
im the weed smoker, i should be the paranoid one.....
[Edited on 28-08-2009 by VXR]
Do what?
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Ben G
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Registered: 12th Jan 07
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i agree with dizzie here, ex's are ex's for a reason and why would you keep speaking to them once you're in a new relationship?
not changing her relationship status to being with you indicates she doesn't really want to be with you and is just staying with you as it's ''easy''. most people like comfort and not being single and on their own, so maybe she likes being with you but also having her bits on the side?
i'd be worried, tell her how it is and don't let her make you feel as if it's your fault.
women are head fucks, they're all the same.
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DizzyRebel
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Registered: 2nd Jan 09
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Sigh, i dont know what to do. I dont want to get rid of her but im not happy with the situation and it could be easily rectified if she just got rid of 3 people from her profile and changed her status on a stupid fucking website. Its like shes choosing an internet site over her relationship... And i thought i was the one with issues!
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Butler
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Registered: 2nd Jun 05
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It sounds like youre insecure about your relationship, the problem obviously stems further than facebook. You should be content with ex's posting on her page, it doesnt mean anything.
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A1EX
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Registered: 29th Mar 00
Location: Turku, Finland
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quote:
Originally posted by DizzyRebel
The best defence is a good offence: identify your threats and take them out before they get a chance to attack you.
Why let something as simple as an add on facebook snowball into a broken relationship if you could stop it happening?
Thats kind of the problem you have turned something thats simple to her into this big thing, maybe you should of left it for a bit see if anything happened worthwhile making an issue over then take it from there, as technically she hasnt done anything wrong, yes its annoying but its nothing worthy of a big rows and a breakup....
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J da Silva
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Registered: 10th Apr 03
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TBH if she isn't going to put you down as her boyfriend on the book of faceaches, then it's probably because she wants people to think she's really single, and whoring her services out, might sound out of order but I'm a realist and that's just my opinion.
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