chris_lee100
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Thats a lot of dosh to me and Im sure it is to anyone on 'ere, its been goin on a couple of months now and Im a nice guy I dont wanna start threatenin him, his wife doesnt know, what is the best tactic to use to get it back with words ?? I dont wanna totally fall out over it
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Ally
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small claims court
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MarkM
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Ask him nicely once more for the money if he doesnt pay then the only other option is to threaten him...
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MarkM
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quote: Originally posted by Ally
small claims court
How can he do this...does he have proof that he leant him the money??
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Paul H
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quote: Originally posted by Ally
small claims court
yes this would be the best option i bet he soon pays when he receives a court summons
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sxi16vjoe
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ring him ask for the money. if he starts fobbon u off with excuses, then point out its been quite a while and he's rippin the piss.
then take one baseball bat to his knees and break.
if this dont make him pay then smash a bottle and stab him in the throat
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MarkM
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quote: Originally posted by chewbaccaman
quote: Originally posted by Ally
small claims court
yes this would be the best option i bet he soon pays when he receives a court summons
Once again he can only do this if he has proof he has lent him the money...if he just handed him £400 as a helping hand to a friend, this guy could claim he never...there is no proof...
I feel we need to know if he has proof he has lent him money?
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Stuckey
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rob him
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MarkM
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quote: Originally posted by Stuckey
rob him
Very mature
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Colin.S
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quote: Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
ring him ask for the money. if he starts fobbon u off with excuses, then point out its been quite a while and he's rippin the piss.
then take one baseball bat to his knees and break.
if this dont make him pay then smash a bottle and stab him in the throat
Made me laugh
He said he didnt want to fall out over it.
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Ally
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ok ok ok
Get proof ..... then take him to small claims
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Stuckey
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quote: Originally posted by sport16v
quote: Originally posted by Stuckey
rob him
Very mature
plz stop following me
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Ally
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One of the gals i work with owed one of her mates 150, and didnt give it to her, so she asked her team leader 1 'ave a word, and all is ok now
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MarkM
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Yes this sounds a good option as it would shame him into paying..however I think he said he doesnt work with him no more...
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Ally
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oh yeh ... i really need to start paying more attention.
Bust a cap in his ass.
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chris_lee100
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lol well I have no proof except I drew the money of my c/card as he is a family man and give me some good excuses, but I could of spent it on anythin in the eyes of the law, however i dont wana start usin b/ball/bats (golfclubs maybe, joke!).
Im astounded by your 14 replies in 5 mins !
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MarkM
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You are goosed then...you need proof...only option other than violence is to inform his wife see if that helps?
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Stuckey
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cos were borrrrrrrred
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chris_lee100
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really that bbboooorrrrrreeeeeed ! lol
I rang him tonight, his wife answered, i said is he there she said no he just nipped to the shops around the corner, i said will you get him to call me back and she said ok, bye. All was well, not had a call. Thinkin of just turnin up with a car full of mates, then he might listen.
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MarkM
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Nope tell his wife
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Mistamist
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Speak to him, say to him your rather hard up and if he cant fork out 400 notes in one go maybe he could give you it in instalments, be nice to him..........
If this doesnt work, kidnap one of his kids and hold them for ransom, if he still dont pay up, sell his kid for slave labour and get your money back.
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Ally
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tell his mum ... then hes in the shitter!
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GLSi GUY
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ask him for it back, and if he says no, then just rub his leg and get out a tub of vasaline
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Ally
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quote: Originally posted by GLSi GUY
ask him for it back, and if he says no, then just rub his leg and get out a tub of vasaline
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corsafreak
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i wouldn't class him as a mate, he obviously is taking the p!ss here.in this situation there is only two options.
a. play the good guy and ask nicely,threaten to tell his wife prolly you will get nowt back,he will just laff when you go away empty handed.
b. play the evil bastard, no really. tell him exactly what you will happen to him if the money isn't returned, never mind telling his wife (look him in the eye as you do this). give him a deadline, turn up early on that deadline so he isn't out at say 8pm on purpose. threats ain't much good unless you back it up i'm afraid be prepared. (have an alibi ready,maybe arrange for someone to take him for a friendly drive.)
this chump isn't your friend, real friends don't do that shit.
choose friends more carefully in future, never lend money that's what banks were invented for (even to family).
warning if you are offended by this reply wake up and smell the coffee.
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