Hammer
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Time isn't a healer. That is nonsense. It's your ability to change your life and how you react to loosing someone you thought loved you.
*losing 
I'd say time is without a doubt a healer personally. That's how I got over my ex anyway, the looking back and remembering all the good shit starts to dilute as time goes on (and you've got your end wet elsewhere numerous times).
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Tiger
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You'll just have to tie up with Ash and get over to see the shreds 
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richc
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Time is a healer imo. The longer it goes on, the longeryou look at reliaty, and face the fact she is being porked by some else. 
Get flirty with other birds on facebook tbh....
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16vKarlos
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Time does heal.
I would say that do everything that you used to do that would take your mind off the EX, things like, Vids on the tube, washing the car, out chatting with mates + spending wuallity time with the Fam + eventually your mates will most likely be the people that ask you how things are going (if they have been in that situation before) and you will just say yeah all fine i have moved on now.
Karlos
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by pow
You split up with that stunner 
Yes, went stale. Sex life was shite and she says she didnt feel comfortable sleeping with me anymore. all we did was sit n watch tv as ive not got a car at the moment so it was either finish her n give her some space to sort her issues out or stay with her and cheat on her so i did the just thing.
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Nath
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It was because she was getting fat, wasn't it?
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jr
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Time isn't a healer. That is nonsense. It's your ability to change your life and how you react to loosing someone you thought loved you.
intresting way of looking at it ollie
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DizzyRebel
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Originally posted by Nath
It was because she was getting fat, wasn't it?
Not even close, she actually just lost 8lbs before we split up. If i was shallow id have stayed with her just because shes stunning, but im not so i split up because i wasnt happy with the way things were and she needs time to sort a few of her own issues and lazy traits out.
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Nath
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Jokez
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DizzyRebel
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quote:
Originally posted by jr
quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Time isn't a healer. That is nonsense. It's your ability to change your life and how you react to loosing someone you thought loved you.
intresting way of looking at it ollie
He is right, time is never a healer - the pain will always be there but its up to you to find the best way of dealing with it and supressing it. If you get your head together and push yourself to move on then you will do, if you sit moping and crying not allowing yourself to move on then no amount of time will do any good.
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jr
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nah i sort of agree dizzy but had never looked at it that way
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Hammer
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You can tart it up any way you want, time is a healer. Not only for a broken heart, for grief, pain, anxiousness etc etc etc. The hurt you feel at the time of an event dilutes itself over time and anyone that says 'it feels just as bad now as it did then' years and years down the line is a liar.
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pow
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We could plot graphs against time and mood like to good old days 
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corsa_paz
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just remember the good times you shared and be grateful, learn from the experience and change yourself if you ever did something wrong etc
Always have hope, be positive, be yourself
Gettin legless or shaggin another bird will be great at the time, but next morning you will prob feel even shitter...spend your time with friends and family, do some good deeds...build up your self confidence..
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stan_the_man
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I chucked mine recently. Still keep thinking if ive done the right thing lots, but mehhhh fuck it!
Stay with your mates, and then go out and fuck the town.
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Nath
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quote:
Originally posted by Hammer
You can tart it up any way you want, time is a healer. Not only for a broken heart, for grief, pain, anxiousness etc etc etc. The hurt you feel at the time of an event dilutes itself over time and anyone that says 'it feels just as bad now as it did then' years and years down the line is a liar.
Tis true. And people that say otherwise obviously forget that what they think cures a broken heart is aided with time too.
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kz
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Just gotta add, time is definitely a healer! The only healer in fact.
Years ago I got my heart broken big time, about 18 months after I was feeling better, and now 5 years later I am not so bitter and actually managed to chat to her on Facebook earlier in the year.
Years ago I wanted nothing more than her to have a shit life after dumping me! Bitch! etc... but now I'm actually quite happy that's she's happy.
Saying that, I got dumped again this year, and now I hate that bitch instead  lol, but on a positive, I can still that hatred will fade away one day.
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pow
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Every time my ex tries to talk to me, a small fire inside me that i thought had gone rages and i get angry with her.
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Neo
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Easiest way to do it is not talk to them, change your number if needs must and ignore them completely.
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SAL
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Girls make me cant live with them, cant live without
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SAL
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Block them on FB if your on there
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SAL
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Go gym and think when your training its for some hot girl you like
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SAL
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Get multiple girls going, then if one lets you down you have one to fall back too
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kz
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Originally posted by Stavs
Girls make me cant live with them
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