Munchie
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yo....as u know i was sort of in a relationship with a lady i met in uni...
thing is....she told me last nite that this "casual stuff" has to end and that she "doesnt want a relationship"
all we have been doing is shagging the past month....i went to see her b4 and i can tell that she wanted me. i am gutted and dunno who to talk to bout it but is there anything i can do or say to try and get her back or do u think i shuld just give her time...
we are both very very mad about each other and she is very very fit....i proper dont want to lose her
advice please xx
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Colin
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Registered: 4th Apr 02
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Can we see some pic's please
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Marc
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If she doesnt feel the same way is there much point in you trying to pursue her as you will only get messed up?
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Corsalad87
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errrrrm think of summit impressive on valentines day n c if that dus out!!!!
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Munchie
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she does feeel the same way. just that shes just came out of a relationship about 2 months ago and shes always been in a relationship for ages...i think im just gonna b mates with her for now me thinks.......i can scence that shes gutted tho.....
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Marc
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Better than nothing.
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Cavey
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Wait until after Valentines day, then try n get back with her, saves you forking out on something then
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Munchie
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quote:
Originally posted by Cavey
Wait until after Valentines day, then try n get back with her, saves you forking out on something then
 true
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MikeE
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but seriously Cavey is right
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Gaz
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if she has just come out of a relationship let her be and leave her to make her own mind up
the old lines are true.... if she likes/loves u then she will come back if she dosnt it means she didnt love/like u that much
u will always find another girl that feels the same way matey 
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Adam-D
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if you love her then tell her so
if she says again that she dont want a proper relationship
tell her that u can wait "if u love her u can wait" and be nice, be there for her.
if she just wants to be mates the do so she may warm to the idea of a proper relationship in a few months and if uve fucked off uve lost her but if you stay and wait for her then all good.
dont know if that made sense? hope it help's
adam
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Munchie
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i will stay and be there for her. i really really want her so much its hurting me. its hurting her more tho i think...
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Ben
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can i have her No then now
just kiddin m8 just trying to cheer maself up!
women eh , things ya av 2 do. just let her know how u feel and wait and c wha she sez, send sum flowers to her work and say on card how u feel, c if she then contacts u
gud luk anyways m8
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ventedvaux
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just follow your heart m8 thats best way
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NormSXi
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Be honest and make sure she knows how ya feel mate, and like has been said ^^, if it's right then it'll work out etc...
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kellym
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No, take her out somewhere nice for Valentines, and have a good old heart to heart, you never know 
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ssj_kakarot
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should write her a note dude as its cheap simple and effective, plus it gives her time to actually think about things logically
like from experiance if a lass doesnt want you romantic guestures, meals, flowers n all that stuff wont change her mind.
the presents dont make the man and all that crap u know, n e way hope it works out for ya in the end
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Munchie
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a note saying wat
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ssj_kakarot
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mer what ever ur feelins are for her, u know whatever u want to say to her bla bla ect
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Munchie
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dunno....just gonna give her time me thinks
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CorsAsh
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Use your Egg Card to buy her something really nice for Valentines (you get 0% on everything you buy for a year, you know)...
Just kiddin mate, the situation with my ex is similar, keeps sayin we shouldnt be so close still (we split up almost a year ago), but both me and her have as strong feelings for each other now as ever - basically, i'm sayin try to be persistant, it could all fall nicely into place as it seems to be doin for me atm...
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Munchie
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i dont want to pressure her tho.....as shes just came out of a relationship and shes hardly ever been single!!!!!
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stubs
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Registered: 30th Jun 02
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Stick your finger in her bum & tell her its from me 
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Happy_2008
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Registered: 13th Mar 01
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no pics
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Munchie
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pics in garage
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