ducky
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last night i found out that my other half who i'm engaged to had lied about something really big to me. i was so angry that i slapped him. i know i shouldn't of but i was just so mad. and way he then pushed me with so much force that i went flying into a wall and then landed on one off those A6 size glass picture frames and gashed all my arms up and have a massive lump on my head.
i've been crying alday and have no one to talk to about it.
was i so wrong in slapping him to make him do that to me?
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sxi16vjoe
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No but tell me where he lives and i'll teach how to treat a lady. 
[Edited on 27-04-2004 by sxi16vjoe]
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Shane
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it was a shock to him and he pushed you, it was unfortinate that the glass was there
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ducky
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no joe its not like that i'm sure he didn't do it on purpose. i just feel like the person who was out of order for slapping him
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sxi16vjoe
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Netrix you dont push womane around mate.
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ljames555
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but its ok for a woman to slap men ?
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sxi16vjoe
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what was it he lied about if you dont mind me asking?
I did somethin similar and my found out and slapped me.
I didnt push her flying tho.
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Marc
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quote:
Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
No but tell me where he lives and i'll teach how to treat a lady.
[Edited on 27-04-2004 by sxi16vjoe]
You gonna shag him?
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sxi16vjoe
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quote:
Originally posted by 16vmarc
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
No but tell me where he lives and i'll teach how to treat a lady.
[Edited on 27-04-2004 by sxi16vjoe]
You gonna shag him?
WTF are you on about you weirdo? 
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Marc
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pmsl
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sxi16vjoe
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Your laughing on your own there son 
Thats just sad 
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Nismo
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 maybe you shouldnt of slapped him , but again he shouldnt of pusshed you. these things happen thou.
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Luke1.4
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
Your laughing on your own there son
Thats just sad
made me laugh  .
He lies, you dont trust him and you beat each other up. break up and move on
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ducky
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i don't really wanna say about it over the site the reason why i slapped him.
and ljames555 i know i was in the wrong for slapping him. the thing is he knows the past i had with my dad. i lived in a womens refuged for 3 years with my mum. he knew what he was doing when he push me as the anger on his face was so strong
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sassyminx
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ducky ive done it to my ex fiance before, and i really did whack him hard, he pushed me back and then i went for him lol he ended up with a bruised face tho if he has lied to u abt summat tho, and u slapped him id say ur within yr reason,
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sxi16vjoe
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Ok fair enough.
And he might well of deserved it.Your just feeling bad over it.
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Gaz
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i dont personally everyone lie's.... for the good or the bad...
slapping hard is harsh a wee slap wont do ya any harm like...
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ducky
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quote:
Originally posted by Luke1.4
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Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
Your laughing on your own there son
Thats just sad
made me laugh .
He lies, you dont trust him and you beat each other up. break up and move on
quite hard to just break up when you've been though so much with someone like i have with him. for a long time he was the only person i had for a long time
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Shane
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quote:
Originally posted by sxi16vjoe
Netrix you dont push womane around mate.
i didnt say you should, and i never would, all im saying he wasnt expecting the slap so pushed you
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sxi16vjoe
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Nikki harsh as this sounds mate.
Sometimes it is time to move on?
But i don't know the full story.
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Luke1.4
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quite hard to just break up when you've been though so much with someone like i have with him. for a long time he was the only person i had for a long time
I know i just had 2 break up with my g/f of 3 and a half yrs hardest thing ive had 2 do but sometimes you just have to
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Half Pint
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shouldn't lie in relationships as they cause problems, the more you get lied to the more you loose trust in that person !
Shouldn't have pushed you like that.
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ducky
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i can't be without him he's my whole world
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sxi16vjoe
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Everyone has felt that way about someone at some point in they're life.
It taken me since july to sort my head out after i split wiht my g/f.
Talk to him. maybe he needs to go to anger management classes
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Kerry
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i hate liars id of slapped him and if he dared push me he wouldnt of got up from the next slap
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