stubbsy05
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It was my decision. I have been with her 2 years in May since we were both 17, but feel the need to be single and have more time to myself. Had a break back in February, and ever since have spent 3 night a week together.
She phoned me up this morning saying I was making a mistake of my life. Started crying and stuff saying we should work things out.
I still feel the same way and wanna be single now, but feel really bad for her. It would be a bad idea getting back with her just because I feel bad for her though.
Going away this year with the lads, and I know I won't be faithful. I find it hard to stay faithful these days as it is.
Why are things never simple?
[Edited on 29-04-2004 by Alex.S]
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Shelly
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poor girl
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stubbsy05
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I know, I feel like a c*nt.
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Shelly
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whats she done wrong to get dumped?
is it just that you want to shag some disease ridden whore while your away?
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Pablo
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Fair play to u tho mate, u gave her it how it was and didn't play behind her bak, gotta admit thats better than cheatin etc
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Scandalous
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I was in the same position as you Alex, was with my gf for 2 n half years, but felt the need to be single and go out with mates etc, so I split with her. Went on hol for a week with mates and started going out most nights too. But I soon realised that I had made a big mistake as I really did miss her and just didnt feel right without her, so we got back together and have been together for 3.5 years and are now engaged. I reckon u should go ona break for a while and see how u both get on.
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Shelly
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Well I cant understand why you can't just say to her you would see her less if you want to spend more time with yourself or mates.
Seems a bit selfish to break someones heart IMO
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
whats she done wrong to get dumped?
is it just that you want to shag some disease ridden whore while your away?
 bitter women eh 
Did u not know people sometimes want different things...
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Leo
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here here Shelly!
Been there and done that! 
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by Shelly
whats she done wrong to get dumped?
is it just that you want to shag some disease ridden whore while your away?
bitter women eh
Did u not know people sometimes want different things...
Well from what he said the only reason he is breaking her heart is because he is going on a lads holiday and thinks he might cheat.
I'm not bitter, just know what its like from a girls point of view
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
Well I cant understand why you can't just say to her you would see her less if you want to spend more time with yourself or mates.
Seems a bit selfish to break someones heart IMO
How can u say that, u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others if it was meant to b he will realise and sort it out, give the lad abreak he prob aint feelin great about it ! 
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by Shelly
whats she done wrong to get dumped?
is it just that you want to shag some disease ridden whore while your away?
bitter women eh
Did u not know people sometimes want different things...
Well from what he said the only reason he is breaking her heart is because he is going on a lads holiday and thinks he might cheat.
I'm not bitter, just know what its like from a girls point of view
Would u rather he cheated on here then he comes bak and gets slated or is honest as to how he feels and then wen he knows they sort it out!
I Understand u mate, fair play to u !
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once 
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
Would u rather he cheated on her
No but it doesnt take much will power to say No when your with someone does it.
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
Well I cant understand why you can't just say to her you would see her less if you want to spend more time with yourself or mates.
Seems a bit selfish to break someones heart IMO
How can u say that, u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others if it was meant to b he will realise and sort it out, give the lad abreak he prob aint feelin great about it !
agreed 
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Shelly
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
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Leo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
Agreed 
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
Shelly u twisted person, u r branding all men and women the same, i've known both types that were men n both types women....
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
Would u rather he cheated on her
No but it doesnt take much will power to say No when your with someone does it.
If he aint 100% happy with his relationship then why go along with it, lifes too short
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
Thats bollox i was always more serious than my ex, u cant just say in general u dont know him and u dont know all men! U just go by u which aint fair! 
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Pablo
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
Shelly u twisted person, u r branding all men and women the same, i've known both types that were men n both types women....
Here here
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Leo
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
Would u rather he cheated on her
No but it doesnt take much will power to say No when your with someone does it.
If he aint 100% happy with his relationship then why go along with it, lifes too short
quote:
Originally posted by Shelly
quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
u cant live ur life tryin not to hurt others
why not?!
women take relationships more seriously than men do, men need to wise up and stop just thinking about themselves all the time for once
Thats bollox i was always more serious than my ex, u cant just say in general u dont know him and u dont know all men! U just go by u which aint fair!
So why aren't you with her now?
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If he didn't feel right about the relationship he done the right thing breaking it off imo. Whats the point in trying to make a go of something you're not completely happy with, there's no point him being miserable just for her benefit.
Plus mate you're 19 for christs sake, go and live you're life a little before all the commitment lark
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Pablo
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Cos she cheated on me, can u come bak with anything now?? Didn't think so
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by P4UL
Cos she cheated on me, can u come bak with anything now?? Didn't think so
so shat it leo
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Shelly
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Fair enough if he isnt happy, but he should say that when he posted above.
From what I read his reasons for dumping her are because he wants time to himself (something he could sort out with her) and that hes going on a lads holiday and thinks he will cheat.
Which to me seems very selfish.
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