Danny P
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Registered: 20th Nov 02
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Right, last night i was on my way to the pub and thought id text my bird to say hey, asked her if she was alright etc - anyways, she text back saying that she was ok but her best mate had tred to kill herself during the night.
I was well shocked and had no idea what to say so i just text back saying that hope she was ok (her mate) and hope that she (my bird) was alright, and that i loved her.
Anyways, just been talking to her on MSN and shes saying that i ant been very supportive towards her cos i ant rung her to see how things are etc - Tried to tell that i was shocked an that i didnt really know what to say. She just gone in a right mood and stormed off MSN
Fair enough i should have said "you know where i am if you need me" kinda thing, but ive never been in that position before, and when someone tells you there best mate tried to kill themselfs its a bit of shock
I feel well bad now - what you reckon i should do??
Gunna leave it a while an then text her summat, but dunno what to say, tried to apologise to her and told her that it was a shock etc but she didnt seem to listern 
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LukeGSi
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Leave her for a couple of days then go with the "you know where i am" thang 
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Dom
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give her a bell mate and have a chat, usually worked with me 
although the ulitmate, would be to go round hers with flowers and say your sorry....give her a hug etc etc. Then if ya lucky and her fokes are out, you will get one in the net as well 
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
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Dont take it to heart mate im sure if her mates has just tried to kill herself then you not being supportive (or supposdly so) is the last thing on her mind!
Fcuking silly bint!
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Danny P
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quote:
Originally posted by VisibleMan
go round hers with flowers and say your sorry....give her a hug etc etc.
Belive me mate that the one thing i would love to do, but shes over 200 miles away
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Dom
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quote:
Originally posted by Danny P
quote:
Originally posted by VisibleMan
go round hers with flowers and say your sorry....give her a hug etc etc.
Belive me mate that the one thing i would love to do, but shes over 200 miles away
phone her then mate...sod this MSN bullshite crap, its just lame...and it doesnt work etc etc. Phone call will do it and say your sorry etc etc and is she ok? - basically let her get it off her chest and that you will see her soon etc 
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Danny P
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Yeah that sounds like a good idea mate - think thats what i'll do, although im not even sure she wil pick up the phone to me
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Dom
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quote:
Originally posted by Danny P
Yeah that sounds like a good idea mate - think thats what i'll do, although im not even sure she wil pick up the phone to me
phone her house and mobile and if she doesnt pick up...text her and say that you will keep phoning her til she picks up (although u wont, but *hopefully* it will get her to pick it up etc)....thats how i used to play it, when my bird was having done of it
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fran_lupo
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msn is awful for trying to sort stuff out, the amount of times me n kurt have argued on there is unbelievable, just cos things that have been said cant be understood properly, not even smileys can make out the tone of the message properly
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langey
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Registered: 7th Sep 03
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tell her GTF ur on the way to the pub u dont need hassle of a wench.
what are you supposed to do? you cant exactly go round in ten mins to be there for her especially if she is over 200miles away.
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