Thoday
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How do you chase a woman you like?
Without scaring her off or without making her think you are boring.
attempting to win my ex back but shes still with her bf (she wants out, lives with him at 18) 
but we been meeting having a laff and flirting and a good talk
but its not easy, her getting out the relationship, maintaining the trust from last time, and not pushing her away again.
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Jason Iles
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Never had to chase b4  whats that like? 
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Thoday
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Originally posted by J 11ESY
Never had to chase b4 whats that like?
same here which is why i am asking.. whats best way to go about it
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Graham
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time mate thats all it is, keep going out with her etc bringing up all the good times that you shared and have a laugh, when she can trust you again tell her how you feel. it took about 3 months to get trust back from my ex but ive found a new girlfriend now whos like ten times better
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Thoday
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Originally posted by Graham
time mate thats all it is, keep going out with her etc bringing up all the good times that you shared and have a laugh, when she can trust you again tell her how you feel. it took about 3 months to get trust back from my ex but ive found a new girlfriend now whos like ten times better
trust comes from me, (unknown whether she cheated on me, she denies it, and says shes guilty for leaving me for this guy she still with, shes a bit of a flirt which im ok with, cos im the same
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vibrio
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Originally posted by J 11ESY
Never had to chase b4 whats that like?
yes, the men just crouch at your cock open mouthed
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morrisdaboss
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Shelly
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your best bet is to prove to her a life with you will be much better than with him
just be cool, laid back and fun and she'll come chasing you 
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Colin
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Is this anything like in primary school when if there was a girl you liked you would run up and kick her in the shin and shout.....your it I still do this
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Adam
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Much success?
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Tom
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Originally posted by Kolin
Is this anything like in primary school when if there was a girl you liked you would run up and kick her in the shin and shout.....your it I still do this
Must try that
Mate i'd have a real think if u want her bk b4 u put all the effort in, r u ever gonna trust her again?
I've been nokin the ex off a couple of times lately cos' a. I needed a shag
but b. she's with sum cock who i'm sure caused us to brake up (on top of other things), so i wana get my own bk for that
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Colin
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They just hop about for a bit then usually get there bloke to bash me
It used to work well too, they would even chase me and do the same
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kolin
They just hop about for a bit then usually get there bloke to bash me
It used to work well too, they would even chase me and do the same
Works exactly as you'd planned then
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sassyminx
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quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
How do you chase a woman you like?
Without scaring her off or without making her think you are boring.
attempting to win my ex back but shes still with her bf (she wants out, lives with him at 18)
but we been meeting having a laff and flirting and a good talk
but its not easy, her getting out the relationship, maintaining the trust from last time, and not pushing her away again.
u no wot i think, shes cheatin on him with u, how u know she wont do it to u
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Colin
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quote:
Originally posted by Tom
quote:
Originally posted by Kolin
They just hop about for a bit then usually get there bloke to bash me
It used to work well too, they would even chase me and do the same
Works exactly as you'd planned then
In the face Tam..........Twice
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Tom
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quote:
Originally posted by Kolin
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Originally posted by Tom
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Originally posted by Kolin
They just hop about for a bit then usually get there bloke to bash me
It used to work well too, they would even chase me and do the same
Works exactly as you'd planned then
In the face Tam..........Twice
Wasn't that concerned til' I saw 'twice' 
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Thoday
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Originally posted by Shelly
your best bet is to prove to her a life with you will be much better than with him
just be cool, laid back and fun and she'll come chasing you
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this is what i am doing, and its working but im still waiting for her to move out the house or throw him out
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quote:
Originally posted by cheakycharlie
[shes a bit of a flirt which im ok with, cos im the same
not trying to burst your bubble or anything mate but if she is a bit of flirt how do you know shes not just doing things witht you fo the attention etc if you now what i mean, i've known girls like that b4, no interest at all just like the attention
if you know i'm wrong go for it mate and good luck! LOL
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kinkycorsa
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IMO U shud start fresh, there's nothing more exciting than falling in love with someone new and gettin to no all their lil quirky ways.
The chase is the best part of a relationship IMO (well apart from the*ahum*) 
But if u want her back that bad u may aswell give it a go, nothin to lose Gd luck chikin
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Jodi_the_g
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just use the jodi fail proof line
when she is with her fella
'hey woman i bet you've never had a real man between the sheets, why don't you come back to my place and i will show you what a real man can do."
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RichSxi
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yea im a similar situation.
Shes with her bf, i was with her too, but she seems to want this drip of an excuse for a boyfriend - who's favorite pastimes seem to be a) getting drunk 24/7, b) nicking cars and c) generally treating her like a piece of shit.
any ideas guys - cos i don't want to see her hurt
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Ben
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just go with the flow , much easier and alot less complicated , if its going to be ,it will do
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