Antz
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OK... I've been split from this girl for ages, but I can't stop thinking of her... I've had other ventures since but no one makes me feel how she did the first time I saw her!
I'm so hung up on her.... but she has a fella... I thought I was over her but we talk on MSN and I just get sooooooo jealous when she talks about her fella... I even went as far as to tell her I hated him... which I don't, I don't even know him, I just hate that he is with her!
RAaaaAAAAaAAARRRRRRRRRrrrRRRR I HATE IT!!!!!!
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Robin
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Block/Delete, Delete number from phone too.
Even then you'll probably struggle... I have 
How long has it been?
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Antz
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I can't block her, I don't wanna 
It's been ages, like 1 year, but we still talk, and even though it's been so long it still feels like a week ago!!!!
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Robin
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If you don't block her you'll keep talking, and it'll keep bugging you.
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Antz
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I think I loved her, I told her I did... she told me she loved me, I wasn't sure at first, but the feelings I still have for her makes me think I really did!!
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Cosmo
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speak to her about it, tell her everything.
If she says she really doesnt feel anything then cut ALL ties, no MSN, no texts, no seeing her. Only way you will ever get over it.
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Antz
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
speak to her about it, tell her everything.
If she says she really doesnt feel anything then cut ALL ties, no MSN, no texts, no seeing her. Only way you will ever get over it.
I would, I just don't know how to go about tellin her all this...!!
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by Antz
I would, I just don't know how to go about tellin her all this...!!
tell her you need to talk, meet her somewhere and just come out with it. No other way.
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Ben G
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i have the same problem, was with the girl for 3 years, loved her very much, then she messed things up, didnt care about how i felt then 4 months later wanted to get back with me, i said yes, then it messed up again as she couldn't trust me and its now been 7 months and i cant stop thinking about her even though i have a new girlfriend. she was the one person who meant everything to me, i feel i will never get over her sometimes, but maybe if i get her back things would change?
if you love her, tell her. simple.
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Ben G
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quote:
Originally posted by Antz
I can't block her, I don't wanna
this is the brain telling you not to as it will cause you too much hurt. but strong willpower and going out lots with friends/family or having a laugh will put your mind onto other things.
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Gary
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I went thru the same kinda thing last year. I didnt even start to get over her till i moved to leeds from halifax and stopped talking to her alltogether. We talk now and again and i dont feel anything, finally.
Cosmo is 100% right, you have to cut all ties, its hard i know, but you've got to.
Youve got to get the 'meh, its her loss' attitude. Worked for me.
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Cosmo
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quote:
Originally posted by glb86
Youve got to get the 'meh, its her loss' attitude. Worked for me.
perfectly right 
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Gary
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmo
quote:
Originally posted by glb86
Youve got to get the 'meh, its her loss' attitude. Worked for me.
perfectly right
Was easier for me, as the girl in question is now a jobless bum living with her jobless bum chav boyfriend at his dads house.
And im not been bitter, thats actually fact
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richardworrall
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dont even start about ex's, there called that for a reason!!
[Edited on 24-01-2007 by richardworrall]
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mav
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Tell her how you feel and if she as you say has moved on and doesn't feel anything only way to get over her totally is to stop all contact and soon you will get on with things..You will never forget her though..The more you still talk etc the harder it will be..
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drax
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grow some balls..
tell her the facts..
cut all ties and know your a better person with out her..
live your life accordingly to how you want to live it and you will soon forget about her, and meet some nice girls, you wont get the feelings for them like you did with her because you developed a friendship / bond over time with her...
just gotta give the other ones a chance, even if you dont think they are right..
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dazbircher
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dont think Drax could of said it any better to be honest!
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Sam.S
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Get yourself out. Your single, you have no ties! Think of freedom my friend.
You've been there, and its her loss you're gain. Get out with your mates have a laugh, get some lads holidays booked. Don't hang yourself up by the past, look to future.. far more exciting.
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abdus
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everuthing happens for a reason...talk to her (as said all above), if she's not into it,
MOVE ON
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Antz
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Thats the thing, I have moved on, but still think about her tons, it's not like I've just been sat around waiting on her to crawl back I've had other girls...
But when I break up with a girl it's this one I always think about and hope there owuld be a chance... none of the others...
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Tom
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You've got to realise that your memory will magnify the good bits if you are feeling down or like you won;t ever meet another girl.
I would defo adopt the attitude as drax said unless you are sure you want her and not just the company..
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abdus
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quote:
Originally posted by Antz
Thats the thing, I have moved on, but still think about her tons, it's not like I've just been sat around waiting on her to crawl back I've had other girls...
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then you haven't moved on (if you are still thinking of her) 
[Edited on 24-01-2007 by abdus]
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AdZ9
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also don't be with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship, if you do that then you might miss "the one"
i'm in a weird place with my ex atm, she decided she wanted a break and i gave her all the space she needed, didnt contact her until she contacted me etc, then i found out she got back with her ex who beats her and treats her like shit, so i lost all respect for her. Now after a few months she asked to meet me boxing day which i did, she told me how much she misses me and what a mistake it was to leave me. Thing is i can't trust her anymore now, plus her ex wont just leave her alone and its to much hassle. I'm just glad i know she misses me and realises she made a big mistake, thing is i've moved on now and don't have any interest in wanting her back (but i still think about her sometimes)
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Tom
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^ good lad
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bree
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Just tell her Ant... maybe she feels the same but is afraid to say anything too. I hope it works out......
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