dan_c4rsa
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nat (the new bird ive met if you can remember) has scared me.
I told her only on thursday night when we were out that i really liked her but didnt want a proper relationship yet (been mucking around for a fair few weeks) and she seemed happy.
Today i get a moody mental nat on the fone and comp asking where am i, she wants to speak about 'us' and where we're going. She's got really weird with me for saying the exact same thing i said on thursday even though she was fine with it before......
What do i say to her? Because everytime i say, i want it more relaxed (as i said), she gets even more pissed off. Good job ive been half drunk all day or id be fuming at her - plus she's ace 
Essay over, im just shit at relationships.  
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Marc
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Any rabbits in your garden?
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dan_c4rsa
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not in mine but theres quite a few pheasants
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richardworrall
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how old is she?
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dan_c4rsa
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18 matey.
Leave me advice as im off out to see her 
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Marc
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Pics?
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Linch
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quote:
Originally posted by Marc
Pics?
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Jambo
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quote:
Originally posted by dan_c4rsa
18 matey.
Leave me advice as im off out to see her
sounds like shes acting her age tbh.
Girls like to force relationships even if they dont want them so they dont get called slags.
if u dont want it, bin it.
If you do then give her what she wants
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BarnshaW
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pound her back door in
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Robbo
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Id say dont mess with her, you either want a relationship or you dont, make ur mind up really.. maybe u just wanna be fuck buddies but whos to say thats what she wants?
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Aaron
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Get rid before it gets nasty
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Aaron
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after bumming her of course
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Marc
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haha
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Matt H
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Is she on pay as you go? If so, dump her.
Rule of thumb for me
Was it a text or a call? If it was text definately get rid
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Marc
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After hes bummed her though right?
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Matt H
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Of course. another rule of thumb
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All Torque
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quote:
Originally posted by dan_c4rsa
nat (the new bird ive met if you can remember) has scared me.
I told her only on thursday night when we were out that i really liked her but didnt want a proper relationship yet (been mucking around for a fair few weeks) and she seemed happy.
Today i get a moody mental nat on the fone and comp asking where am i, she wants to speak about 'us' and where we're going. She's got really weird with me for saying the exact same thing i said on thursday even though she was fine with it before......
What do i say to her? Because everytime i say, i want it more relaxed (as i said), she gets even more pissed off. Good job ive been half drunk all day or id be fuming at her - plus she's ace
Essay over, im just shit at relationships.
I've highlighted the problems.
I will now leave this thread alone
[Edited on 26-12-2007 by All Torque]
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dan_c4rsa
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quote:
Originally posted by BarnshaW
pound her back door in
done that.
pics are in another thread will link....
edit - found the one i posted up anyway
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[Edited on 26-12-2007 by dan_c4rsa]
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Aaron
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u mean the thread that stated she was "perfect"
They're all the same
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dan_c4rsa
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yeh. good job i said 'i think' lmao
bumped into her at the pub when i went to get away from her tonite lmfao.
awwwwwwwwwkwarrrrrrd..... 
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Mike GSi
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quote:
Originally posted by dan_c4rsa
quote:
Originally posted by BarnshaW
pound her back door in
done that.
pics are in another thread will link....
edit - found the one i posted up anyway
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[Edited on 26-12-2007 by dan_c4rsa]
Which one is she?
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RS6
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harsh! ^
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Mike GSi
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Snakes with tits.....all of them.....apart from my gf
Was only messin ^^^^
[Edited on 27-12-2007 by Mike Z20LET]
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Steve X16XE
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Time of the month.
What did you get her for xmas? Could be the problem there.
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Ian
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When you first told her you were out together and life was good. New relationship for both of you and you were both really smitten, and you could have probably told her you were just in it for her conversation about motorsport as you've no more intention to commit than intention to stay sober on December 31st. Wouldn't have mattered as you were with her and so she was safe anyway on that night.
Now she's had time away to reflect / talk to other stupid young people it doesn't sound so lovely so she's phoned you to sort it out right away because she's young and that's what young people do, and she's more pissed now because it didn't work.
What exactly is it about having a proper relationship that you don't want? I think in this case you may as well call it that as it'll obviously make her happier. If you decide against it later then oh well, at least you appeased her in the short term.
Better that than have an unclear arrangement which both of you are unsure about and waste time wondering about especially as she obviously needs clarity and comfort. You said yourself she is ace - perhaps then you should reciprocate that aceness with a bit of co-operation.
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