DizzyRebel
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Basically, my mrs has a few of her ex's on facebook and they keep commenting on her status and she comments on theres etc and it really winds me up because i dont comment on any of my ex's on facebook at all, infact i dont have any of my ex's on there. So my question is: am i just being para or should i insist she deletes them from her fb as its really grinding me up!
Facebook, the baron of all evils!
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adiohead
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tell her to delete them if it's bothering you. tell her to stop being a whore.
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A1EX
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its not really for you to say whether she talks to her ex's or not, if they are just chatting harmlessly etc then you have no right to be angry about it or jealous....
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DizzyRebel
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But surely if shes happy with me she has no need to speak to them? i mean i dont have a problem with her having lad mates or talking to other lads, shes a barber so its her job to talk to blokes. Its just exs's grind me up, i dont speak to mine on there or have them because i have no reason to, ive got everything i need from a woman in her. Ex's are ex's for a reason, and they should stay that way in my eyes.
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Adge
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i know for a fact i only talk to ex's for 1 reason!
thats to meet up for a quicky! maybe its just me but i wud go mad if my bird spoke to any of her ex's
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Hammer
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I'd be pissed off personally.
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A1EX
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Depends on how they broke up I suppose. If you trust her then it shouldnt really be an issue, but if she really wants to talk to her ex's then maybe there's more to the problem.....
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adiohead
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start adding loads of hot girls and tell her you're just "talking".
she'll cry like a bitch
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Ojc
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Wouldn't care less.
I comment on my ex-girlfriends status, and I have quite a few ex's as friends on there.
It's quite entertaining to see how fat they are these days.
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micra_pete
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Wouldn't care less.
+pete
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stan_the_man
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Facebook talking is ok IMO. At least its public and shes not trying to hide stuff.
If she starts texting them, then its time to kick her in the slice for being naughty.
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Cosmo
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Sounds like roids are making you paranoid.
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JoeyB
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quote:
Originally posted by DizzyRebel
Facebook, the baron of all evils!
Amen to that.
Social networking fail.
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adiohead
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Originally posted by stan_the_man
Facebook talking is ok IMO. At least its public and shes not trying to hide stuff.
If she starts texting them, then its time to kick her in the slice for being naughty.
personal messages aren't public.
they could be organising dogging sessions 
find out her password and read all her messages to make sure. 
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James_DT
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If you trust her, what's the problem?
Some of my ex's are friends, and they're on my Facebook. Likewise with my other half.
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DizzyRebel
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quote:
Originally posted by stan_the_man
Facebook talking is ok IMO. At least its public and shes not trying to hide stuff.
If she starts texting them, then its time to kick her in the slice for being naughty.
Well as far as i know she cuts at least one of thems hair and sometimes goes for a drink with him on her dinner. and the other i know has text her in the past dunno about now though but hes a slime ball so wouldnt put it past him. They always pop up on FB chat when shes on my computer too so its just doing my head in. I trust her but its just putting stress on me that could be avoided if she got rid of them!
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stan_the_man
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Hmmm i know what ya mean.....
Never an easy one to approach.
Sometimes just bite your lip (and build up ammo for if/when it goes tits up)
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adiohead
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quote:
Originally posted by DizzyRebel
Well as far as i know she cuts at least one of thems hair and sometimes goes for a drink with him on her dinner.
go along with them. if she's got nothing to hide then she won't mind.
IF she kicks up a fuss then dump her.
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stan_the_man
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quote:
Originally posted by adiohead
quote:
Originally posted by DizzyRebel
Well as far as i know she cuts at least one of thems hair and sometimes goes for a drink with him on her dinner.
go along with them. if she's got nothing to hide then she won't mind.
IF she kicks up a fuss then dump her.
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Captain_Rosco
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quote:
Originally posted by DizzyRebelSo my question is: am i just being para or should i insist she deletes them from her fb as its really grinding me up!
I think if you did that, it could cause more problems, and bite you in the ass. She might end up being your next Ex.
I do however know how you feel though, but I have also seen it from the other side too. I broke up from a girl I was seeing last year. At first things weren't good between us, but eventually we were ok, and we used to chat and make comments on FB just like I did with other friends. Then suddenly she started hiding all of our messages, to which I didn’t understand, but wasn’t bothered by.
Then she deleted me as a friend, and untagged any photos there was of us together (socially, not dating). I was told it was her new BF (which a lot of people didn’t like) that made her do all these things. I wasn’t bothered by this, just thought it was a shame.
Probably the worst thing you could do is tell her who she can and can’t talk to. Don’t be “that guy” every one hates
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C2RL R
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tough one. its that old situation where you trust her but not the lads that are talking to her. being blokes we know that they are probably only after shagging her. girls dont understand this aspect. i'm not really friends with any of my ex's as it does my head in thinking about them so i just cut all contact with them. i dont know what its like being friends with an ex but if thats all it is then there isn't really an issue.
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Robbo
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quote:
Originally posted by Ojc
Wouldn't care less.
I comment on my ex-girlfriends status, and I have quite a few ex's as friends on there.
It's quite entertaining to see how fat they are these days.
I like seeing how miserable my ex is when she puts on statuses saying ".... has lost the will to live" etc etc
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Tom
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Facebook is an utter pain in the ass for stuff of this nature, I deleted mine in march and haven't missed all the shit tbh
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Robbo
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PS just say it bothers you and ask if she can maybe tone it down a bit
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sc0ott
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why not start texting your ex's asking general 'how yi dane' questions. basically the same apart from the cost of a text
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