Rammer
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On a mega downer
The misses has just told me she dont like me, hates me and never wants to hear from me again, we been together 2 and a half years with no problems. I havent done anything wrong i dont understand it. I cant just walk away from her i love her to bits she means the world to me
Proper kick in the balls would never of expected that
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J da Silva
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That's females for you my friend, I'm guessing you're just a young lad though, chin up, lots of bitches to slay in your life.
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FAZ
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meh, give ehr a day or two or week? if not, meh not the one for you
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noshua
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Shagging someone else, obvious. Women are twats at times. Remove any type of contact you have with her and find something to occupy ur time!
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MarkSport
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Chin up fella.It obviously wasn't meant to be.As J said, plenty more fish in the sea....whilst you're single just had a good time and do stuff you maybe missed out on whilst being hitched.
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Jules S
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Man up...plenty more fish in the sea...10 pages....get prem
Seriously though, plenty more fish in the sea
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Generation
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Sorry to hear that mate, its very well everyone saying "plenty more fish in the sea" and its true there is. However if it was me, the worst part would be not knowing why, giver her a day or 2 and ask her
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K3 VMU
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my bird says that to me everyday....
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J da Silva
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quote: Originally posted by Generation
Sorry to hear that mate, its very well everyone saying "plenty more fish in the sea" and its true there is. However if it was me, the worst part would be not knowing why, giver her a day or 2 and ask her
There is some real life experience in two of the replies, we're not all teenagers with no female encounters you know.
Just get out and about with your mates Rammer and let her see that you didn't need as much as she'd like you to of needed her, it sends a message to her that she isn't that important afterall and it smashes her ego to shit.
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am4nf
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Ive had the never wana speak to you again tbf I wasnt really with her, just seeing each other for a few weeks
On a relationship side of things, think of all the things that annoys you about her and the relationship and that your better without them
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MatthewR
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better off without mate if shes behaving like that - move on to the next one
chin up
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Rammer
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Thanks guys
It wouldnt of been so bad if i had done something to upset her but ive not done anything apart from being in bed feeling rough after my chemo yesterday when we had planned to go out.
Maybe she might tell me what ive done once things have settled down, im not gonna contact her or anything, thats what she wanted so thats what shes gonna get as hard as its going to be
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MatthewR
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chemo - dude!!!?
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Anty
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your not alone..
ask her to be straight with you, and talk about it
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Ben J
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So you were in bed feeling rough after Chemo, so you couldn't take her out, then she drops that on you.
Mate...it may not feel like it now but you are SO much better off without her!!!
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Jamescorsa97
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As Nosh said. Get out and do something today with a mate/family. Remove any contact. Try have as much fun as you can.
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Rammer
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quote: Originally posted by MatthewR
chemo - dude!!!?
yeh been diagnosed with lung cancer last march, was on pills then started on chemo once a week but now its spread im on it 3 days a week. and the extra sessions are proper knocking it out of me.
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MJFF88
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What a total bitch
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kz
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Ouch mate. Women are like this, had it done to me too many times! Now I don't bother with women, there are other things out there to enjoy...
Women just drag you down. Once you can learn to be happy on your own again you will see this, good luck!
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Ellis
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Oh dear, very sad indeed. Fingers crossed for you mate
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adiohead
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this is just women, they're all mental.
just forget about her and focus on yourself and getting better.
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taylorboosh
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every ones quick to slate her, he has lung cancer, has spread a bit, getting very serious with extra chemo.... she probably loves you to bits mate and is scared of losing you, she probably thinks ending it now will hurt less if the worst happened.... selfish i know but i can understand her situation...
either that or she doesnt like bald blokes
sorry if the joke was unacceptable it was meant in a light hearted manor and i really hope you get better and sort the gf problems x
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DANKZii
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quote: Originally posted by K3 VMU
my bird says that to me everyday....
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bigboykarl
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quote: Originally posted by K3 VMU
my bird says that to me everyday....
my wifes being saying it 21 years in april
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Twitch
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quote: Originally posted by john-d
every ones quick to slate her, he has lung cancer, has spread a bit, getting very serious with extra chemo.... she probably loves you to bits mate and is scared of losing you, she probably thinks ending it now will hurt less if the worst happened.... selfish i know but i can understand her situation...
either that or she doesnt like bald blokes
sorry if the joke was unacceptable it was meant in a light hearted manor and i really hope you get better and sort the gf problems x
exactly what i was thinking when i read this. she's gotta be just as scared as you there is always a reason behind something and sometimes you gotta work to find the reason.
If not i've had the same dont talk to me again lines befor and seems everytime im in bed with them a week later people say things they dont mean when they are upset or angry
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