PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
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Just split with gf of last 2 and a half years.
Ended on good terms, but it's strange being in our house with all our stuff on my own.
She's a few years old and wanted to settle down and have children, get married etc.
I'm 22, and am just not ready for all that. 
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xa0s
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inb4 upload the pics
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Ste M
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Registered: 28th Oct 09
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Just prepare yourself for the aftermath..
i.e "I'm coming round to pick up this and that.."
and you end up shagging for the hell of it, and it will never come to an end. Believe me. It's been like that for the past 4 years for me.
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xa0s
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Good point tbf
Mate split up with his ex like 2 years ago and it's still 'on going', chatting near enough daily etc
Tbh same with mine too, kind of
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Matt L
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Me and my ex tried to stay friends lol i cant stand speaking to her tho and whenever she tries i just thinl i really dont care.
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nathy_87
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
Just split with gf of last 2 and a half years.
Ended on good terms, but it's strange being in our house with all our stuff on my own.
She's a few years old and wanted to settle down and have children, get married etc.
I'm 22, and am just not ready for all that.
That worries me. 
But seriously, that's shit mate, as everyone says, plenty more fish in the sea. Either that or she'll come round to your terms, she's just thinking of herself, the selfish bint. 
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MatthewR
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Registered: 21st Oct 02
Location: Rickmansworth
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worst thing i ever did was let my gf go as she wanted to settle down - just make sure shes not the one before cut all ties mate
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Butler
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When was that Matthew? Face up to it mate, you ended it for a reason.
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Anty
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spilt with my ex, dont want to talk to her !!! she wants to kno bout me.. but i dont.
you should have started to settle down, but dnt go rushing in to things.. takes to to talk!!
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ed
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
She's a few years old
Probably should be keeping this private.
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RS6
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Registered: 5th Nov 03
Location: with MJ
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"Let the pics decide!"
only joking hard times
[Edited on 13-03-2010 by RS6]
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Rammer
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Proper hard times, been a week now since my other half left me
Good to see you left on good terms, my ex talks to me like shit but i wernt the one that done anything wrong, shes got her brothers and mates to come round threaten me and take things, the house is almost empty and shes not let me see my kid since last friday.
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MatthewR
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quote:
Originally posted by Butler
When was that Matthew? Face up to it mate, you ended it for a reason.
bout 3 years ago now mate.
She ended it
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Bart
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Registered: 19th Aug 02
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quote:
Originally posted by PhilC
Just split with gf of last 2 and a half years.
Ended on good terms, but it's strange being in our house with all our stuff on my own.
She's a few years old and wanted to settle down and have children, get married etc.
I'm 22, and am just not ready for all that.
FFS Phil, man up.
you tell her your going to propose (you leave it around 6-12 months tho), you propose and set the date for 2 years later and before you know it, your 3 years down the line with the girl you love and in a better position and ready.
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PhilC
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Registered: 21st Jan 06
Location: Lancs, UK
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Update...
We're going for round 2...
Sorry about the few years old thing haha...
I'm 22, she's 26.
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Matt L
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Registered: 17th Apr 06
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hope it works out me and the ex were on the second attempt and it was really good tbh (alot better than the first time round) just shes a muppet and threw it away from some chump  [/bitterness]
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