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Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:14   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Now, I don't know if I think too much into this but...

Why do some people only shake your hand when they first meet/greet u or just as they're leaving. But never both?

Quite a few of my mates will shake my hand as they're leaving and NEVER when we first meet, and some others will shake as we meet/say hello and not shake my hand as they as they leave. What is with that?

Pegs the question, which do u?!
Budgie
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30th Sep 10 at 16:17   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

i try not to shake hands either way.

just coz some peeps are badgers and think that you have to crush the other blokes hand.
Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:18   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Yes, that reminds me. Some people bearly grip your hand and others, like you said, try to crush your hand WTF!
Sam
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30th Sep 10 at 16:19   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

They probably can't be arsed TBH.
Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:20   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

quote:
Originally posted by Sam
They probably can't be arsed TBH.


But these are the people who encurrage the hand shake
Huwsi
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30th Sep 10 at 16:22   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Depends who it is I find

If It's someone I've never met it will be sooner rather than later.

I usually shake hands with the bosses before they leave no idea why
Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:24   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

I don't get that. Surely a handshake is a form of greeting someone
Budgie
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30th Sep 10 at 16:25   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

HI 5 tbf
Huwsi
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quote:
Originally posted by Scotty C
I don't get that. Surely a handshake is a form of greeting someone


It could also mean a closure on something? as people tend to shake hands when buying a car ect.
Sam
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30th Sep 10 at 16:27   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Scotty, it's time to try a new form of greeting.

You could go European/Middle Eastern and kiss them on both cheeks (boy or girl)

They might be more inclined to greet you then?
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30th Sep 10 at 16:29   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

why would you shake a mates hand? youve known them long enough what need do you have to shake hands with them, i shake hands with people ive just met/done a deal with
Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:31   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Huwsi - i'm talking about mates just coming round, making no 'deal' or owt, they'll just shake your hand as they leave

Sam - My step dad is Itialan so that greeting is never unseen
Scotty C
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quote:
Originally posted by Havoc
why would you shake a mates hand? youve known them long enough what need do you have to shake hands with them, i shake hands with people ive just met/done a deal with


Mates I don't see very offten. Like Twice a month. I dunno, mutal respect thing I guess...
Havoc
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quote:
Originally posted by Scotty C
quote:
Originally posted by Havoc
why would you shake a mates hand? youve known them long enough what need do you have to shake hands with them, i shake hands with people ive just met/done a deal with


Mates I don't see very offten. Like Twice a month. I dunno, mutal respect thing I guess...


i usually give them a hug and a slap on the arse if i aint seen them for a while.
Ben D
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I find i only shake the hand of people i know on a profesional basis such as lawyers colleagues/higher ranking official's etc, sem's a bit too formal to shake hands with friends to me
Ingham
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I do it when greeting and saying goodbye to someone I haven't seen for a while (male). If it's a female I just hug them and grope them.
alan-g-w
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I tend to shake hands more with my asian mates, straight up.
Scotty C
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30th Sep 10 at 16:40   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

Asians are always shaking hands
Graham88
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30th Sep 10 at 16:46   View User's Profile U2U Member Reply With Quote

quote:
Originally posted by Havoc
i usually give them a hug and a slap on the arse if i aint seen them for a while.




I don't shake hands with any of my mates, even ones I haven't seen for a while. Only do it at work sometimes when meeting new people (generally bosses) or as mentioned Asian people I know always do it.
Shell
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I shake someones hand the first time I meet them, or in work/study related situations that require that level or respect, i.e your superiors in formal settings.
BarnshaW
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always shake peoples hands, also a strong handshake says alot about someone, none of this pussy faggot limp business
harrisp
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quote:
Originally posted by BarnshaW
always shake peoples hands, also a strong handshake says alot about someone, none of this pussy faggot limp business


This, but not trying to crush someone hand.
Corsa_Sport21
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I only shake hands after doing a deal with a stranger.Mainly after buying/selling a car.

Any other hand shake situation is just ghey.
Pete_vxl
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Why do you shake your friends hand? Usually a hello does me if its a mate. Business related then a shake when meeting and leaving.

Waiting for the black guy to enter who does the shake hand hug thing.

[Edited on 30-09-2010 by Pete_vxl]
MoesTavern
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It's rather embarrassing when a black guy tries to do that complicated shake-clasp fist-bump thing with you and you get it wrong..

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